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Anyone else in or near Daybreak? - We know you are out there! - [quote=MEOWMIX10000][quote=PLAYNW3]What ever came of the Daybreak swingers Facebook page? Is it active and being used?[/quote] pretty slow. a couple people talk and post pics. most people just lurk. We need more people. Could be a great group[/quote] We worry about our kids etc finding it, that's why we haven't joined the Facebook group. We'd like to hear what's going on but really don't trust Facebook for this type of communication.

Hello summer - Swingers couple party - [quote=MoreFun4U]Short answer is because a large number of couples will not attend an event without some type of filter for single men, and without couples it's a non event. The reason why a large number of couples will not attend such an event are varied.[/quote] Having been in the lifestyle for a while now, here’s some experiences we’ve had. Parties with unrestricted access to single males: we attended a party with a ratio of 10 men to each woman, that was not a gang-bang. And only 3-4 of the women were willing to play (Mrs being one of them). It was not as fun and lots of people decided to leave after an hour or so. Parties with screened single men. These are usually better. These guys usually understand the expectations and are respectful. That being said some “coupled” men have gotten overly aggressive and have been asked to leave. Still these are generally much better, with folks much more relaxed and having a great time. The ladies feel more free to do as they like without feeling like they’ll be swarmed by dicks like they’re in a bukkake film. Clubs with lots of single men. First, when we arrived there were LOTS of men waiting to get in. Then when we got in, lots of dudes were all over Mrs. She does like the attention, but can get overwhelmed. When she did select a nice, respectful guy to take for some fun, we went to a play room and got undressed, then he let in 3 more dudes. Presumably he had an agreement to let his buddies in, and had not asked Mrs. if that would be okay. We told them to get out, all of them. Had to get staff to assist and escort them out. Never went back. And we’ve been cautious about venues with lots of loose dicks ever since. So it’s not usually anything about any single man in particular, but experience has shown us, and many in the lifestyle, that having lots of loose dicks about can at best put a damper on a party, and at worst generate lots of drama. And this is why we don’t attend events with lots of single men and very few of any other demographic.

Something to consider - No means no online too. - [quote=DELICIOUSLYWET]1.) We have all heard, well most of us have heard that no means no in the lifestyle. Does that just refer to in the flesh potential physical contact or does it not also mean online approaches in the chat room or via emails? 2.) If someone will not easily accept no for an answer online when it comes to friend request or in pushing for a hook up will they be just as pushy in the flesh? 3.) If someone sends you a friend request over and over again and you give them the same reasonable reason why you do not want to accept it, and it is in your profile why you would not accept it, will you need to tell them no to anything and everything over and over again if you meet them in person? 4.) Is not understanding no at any level along the way a major reason why some swingers do not find it easy to hook up? [/quote]Preach. I've no doubt they'd be pushier in person as they know social pressure makes it harder for you to abruptly walk away from them than it is for you to close a tab, so they have a better shot at making you comply. Thank God for the block button indeed.

Have you ever met anyone TRULY crazy in the lifestyle? - - OK so we're not overly qualified to answer, as we're quite new and haven't gotten to know anybody very well yet at all, but I do have some observations to add. Are we all nuts? NO. some are, some aren't. Many "normal" folks may think we're abnormal, crazy even. I mean, we don't exactly run around telling everybody we like to see our spouses pleasured by others, that isn't a very "Christian" or "normal" thing in society's eyes. It doesn't make us crazy. Adventurous? YES Thrillseekers? YES Different? YES Insane? NO Case in point: It's my observation that most swingers ride motorcycles. That puts them definitely in the first 2 categories. There are a ton more Bikers that are completely Vanilla and totally sane, some may say "Different" because riding isn't everybody's thing. (We're scared to death of riding, and probably never will know the serenity and enjoyment it brings most.) As far as meds go, remember this is the Zanax capitol of the world right here in the land of Zion. Not to mention the number of swinging active LDS members, other church-goers, retirees, well-paid professionals, business owners, and hard working blue collar folk. So the cross-section of society really is still there. Obviously by profiles you will find different strokes for different folks in the sexuality department, and on a Vanilla dating site, you get the same. We have members here who are octogenarians, and others who are barely old enough to get into clubs. Crazies? sure you bet, there has to be. Just as with everything else, a certain percentage of any group will be a beer or two short of a sixer. I think that's why many here are hesitant, if not reluctant to entertain the thought of a hook-up with somebody they know from the web, but haven't met in real life. We definitely fall in that category ourselves. How many booty calls really get answered? Alot of times your mailbox gets stuffed with candor, friend request, and maybe a few cell #'s, but when the brass tacks fall, they end up lying there. It's good to know that Evildoers hasn't ever feared for their lives, with their experiences over the years. The few couples we have met with one-on-one have seemed completely normal, honest, and respectful, regardless of whether or not they (or we) felt any attraction sexually. So I guess we're doing OK, and we're both excited to meet new people as often as we can. That said, I'm going to take my meds and get some shut-eye ;) ~Torque

Swingers Dares - Text for cards in the game - We've added the Ice going to the genitals FUNDO. We figure if you are already taking some clothes off why not spice it up and go for the gold... As long as everyone is comfortable and you like what is around you. As for the wax... Maybe nipples but keep that hot stuff away from my goodies! Great ideas you sexy thinkers!

Utah? - - Is there anything in Utah besides swingers? We're seriously considering our relocation options and I want to know if I should put a bug in the wifes ear about Utah. After seeing how many swingers reside there vs other states...I'm interested! :)

sluts? what? - how so? - [quote=SHADOWINGWHISPERS][quote=DELICIOUSLYWET]There is a book called "The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities" written by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy that defines Slut in a positive light. They might be using slut in that context. The book has been very popular with swingers for quite a few years. [/quote] I would hope they are using it in that sense.. but words that compile around the slut term make it strongly seem like it's a negative term.. sadly..[/quote] If they are using it in a derogatory sense it may be because they are experiencing a certain level of self loathing because they are struggling to accept their own sexual nature or they may have peers and family that would do their best to destroy them were they to live so free as you are. I think that the anger that leads to name calling and judgment sometimes is a secondary emotion that people choose to embrace because the primary emotion is much more painful. They may want what you have but lack the confidence or courage to go find it for themselves and so the same people that call someone a slut in the derogatory sense far too often are the same people that go off and struggle with their own sexuality in dark places through lying, cheating, abuse and even darker acts while swimming in a sea of self loathing. We should all jump up and down and be happy that you are free or striving to become free of such shackles!

Do the booty calls actually work? - - It does work, but your location does turn alot of potential swingers away. . Just something about going out of state. Come out to Wendover this saturday night and have some fun with us.

Swinging in Utah - What makes A Pretty Great State a great place to swing? - So I could be totally wrong about why I think Utah is right up there (at least considering our relatively modest population) with many places that are much more...well let's just say cosmopolitan. Thought an informal little poll would be fun to get some feedback as to why others think the lifestyle scene is so active here in Zion. 1) It's all the warm sunny weather and sexy, sandy beaches. 2) Something in the water...other than fluoride. 3) It's rebellion from the influence from the LDS church. 4) A younger population equals more hormones and horniness. 5) The high alcohol beer makes us lose our inhibitions quicker. 6) Utah is no different than any other place as far as the number of swingers, etc.. 7) It's so cold here we have to swing to stay warm. 8) We're wired for swinging because of our ancestors and their polygamy. 9) We grew up reading Prayboy and Repenthouse so we're just bundles of hormones waiting to burst! 10) The churches missionary program teaches us to share the gospel so we're all just trying to share the swinging gospel with others. 11) Because green jello is a natural aphrodisiac. 12) Because we're all curious as to what REALLY goes on behind those "Zion Curtains". 13) Because hottubs remind us of those nice warm baptismal fonts. 14) We're jealous of the polygamists who can have hard core swing parties without ever leaving home (and they are never sausage fests!). 15) It's a mutant virus spread by brine fly bites. So, here's your chance to let everyone know why YOU think we're all a bunch of horny little carrot snappers. [em]Emo_12[/em]

Fantasy - Looking for help... - [quote=HOTSMCGOTS][quote=DELICIOUSLYWET]Not me really. I am happy being in love, and in a long term relationship with a beautiful, talented, compassionate, intelligent and extremely sexual woman. As for swinging I enjoy her pleasure as much if not more than my own pleasure. I can sometimes be multi orgasmic without losing it, but she has so many more and they are so strong. I am not all that hard on the eyes, but I am nothing like her to look at. Women are captivating creatures in so many, many ways and as for sex appeal, they are often goddesses. A big part of being happy is accepting the way things are. I think I enjoy wanting and worshiping a woman and women in general, body and soul more than I would enjoy being a woman.[/quote] I think you're missing the point...which is, It would be nice to be the object that everyone on here is seeking. The unicorn. Dudes are a dime a dozen. I love being a man, but I would also like to enter a chat room full of women foaming at the mouth for me to show my breasts. NEVER GONNA HAPPEN. [/quote] I guess that might be nice. Mrs. Delicious thinks that it feels a bit disingenuous to just show up and get a lot of attention from guys just because she is a woman. She would much rather feel that a man or a woman, is interested in her specifically, not exclusively, but specifically because there is something about her that seems to ring their bell. Single dudes and some married dudes, more often than not, either send friend request with no other communication, or skip right to the “so what do like in bed” questions, or send some sort of communication that basically says I want to fuck someone, anyone, I’m, trolling the swingers pond looking for someone to bite. Women both single and married involved in the swing scene, like to have sex, just for fun, obviously they like sex, but most want their partners to have at least a little emotional and intellectual substance. They don’t have to have a Ph.D., but they should be able to at least have enough charm and wherewithal to be able to at least acknowledge and respect the person they are hoping to have sex with, for who they are not just because they have a body. Even an eloquent acknowledgement of her specific body, or acknowledging something in the way she moves, could be a start. Really, a woman gets into the chat room and the first thing she hears is show me your tits?

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