Idaho Swingers

If you are looking for Swingers in Idaho, then Swingular is the place for you. We have hundreds of thousands of swingers all over Idaho looking to meet new people. Choose a city for a list of Idaho Swingers in your area. If you do not see your city, choose the closest city to you as it will show you swingers within 100 miles of the city in you Idaho selected.

Idaho Swingers

Same old questions but still fun! - Bisexual women - [quote=VIRANI]I'm allergic to any girl who pretends to be bi to help her man's fantasy rather than her own. It's cooersive and I end up feeling like I've raped her. Consequently,girl time is an essential part of the process for me. I don't want anyone to be bullied into faking it with me.[/quote] Good observation as always. We know there are women that play the part of a bisexual woman, or of a swinger for their man but they were cut from different cloth than Mrs. Delicious. Anyone who knows her can tell you that. Husbands like that were cut from different cloth than Mr. Delicious too. We are not saying that just because Mrs. D is truly bisexual but because playing the part, getting painted into a corner or being bullied in anything, hardly fits into Mrs. Delicious behavioral patterns. We are both allergic to coercion within the lifestyle in any form. Fulfilling a fantasy at the expense of someone else seems less than fulfilling. We politely decline when an email or a profile contains some explanation about one's significant other being unsure and needing some help from us so that they will blossom into full on swingers.

Is HABITS still the place to go? - - Habits: Pros: Great music, food delish, cool/friendly staff. Cons: Drinks pricey/watered down, music too loud, "dress code", popular hangout with self proclaimed elite swingers. Club 48: Pros: Drinks great, music at reasonable level, relaxed atmosphere. Cons: Food sucks, understaffed, sometimes music sucks too. Northern Exposure: Pros: Private room with private smoking area, some drinks good, music at reasonable level, music ok. Cons: Some drinks pricey/watered down and they seem to run out of their "specials" quickly, food sucks too, staff really busy (altho they are friendly).

Why swingers are happier. - - They have booze. We got snookered on wine at the little Cajun restaurant in Pirates of the Carribean then Ms. Evil gave me head on the It's A Small World ride. Still get a chubby when I hear that song.

I Have A Question - Poly vs. Open - Most of the people we know, who self define as polyamorous, are really interested in something akin to a romance, with some level of commitment. Obviously, we don't know all that many poly people. In the double digits, not even the triple digits, and, most of them already knew each other before we met them. Like swingers, the people we know share a sense of some sort of group identity, and group activity. We have been to a few events a few years back and felt pretty welcome, albeit, we are not exactly on the same page. We were upfront about it. Nice people! It's a pretty small sampling, so it should be taken as an anecdotal, rather a description of the way it really is, or should be. We want to avoid labeling a whole group. Open marriages. Most of the people we know who self identify as in open marriages, seem to be in one committed relationship, which often includes children, shared bank accounts, all the trappings of a vanilla relationship, and closed in those aspects of life, but as a pair, they have each others blessings, to have sexual affairs and romantic relationships, with other people, that really don't have to include their primary partners presence. Most of the people we know, that self identify, individually, and as a couple, as in an open marriage, started out swinging as a couple. Swingers scene is the closest thing to a group that they may move in as a collective. We are somewhat in this category. We tend to only take the relationship to this level when one of us has an especially strong connection with someone. Here again this is an anecdotal accounting based on just the people we know.

Swingers dying out? - Is the utah swinger community dying or becoming to needy? - well as far as the chat room goes.. since the notification bar at the top doesnt show how many are in there anymore, always says zero, may be a contributing factor to the room being empty all the time. noone knows if anyone is there or not.

Swingers in a vanilla bar... - - @JSTJIM72 -- I thought of that, but didn't have reply if they had said 'no' :) (And if they said "yes" -oops, then what do I say! LOL!) @T4REAL69 - Huh? What typos? ;) @Darknladyjedi - Sounds good. So, 'Hi, how are you two doing tonight" :)

Another Swingers Show on TV - - This September, Discovery Fit & Health delves into a mysterious and daring world in its all-new series, SECRET SEX LIVES: SWINGERS, which follows five all-American couples as they juggle marriage, family commitments and careers. But behind closed doors, these husbands and wives share one surprising thing in common: they all lead double lives as swingers. SECRET SEX LIVES: SWINGERS premieres Saturday, September 7 at 10PM (ET/PT) on Discovery Fit & Health. Nice! If there are enough of these maybe eventually our lifestyle will become normalized. Mr. Sexperimentors

Kik group for UT swingers. - Contact me if your interested in joining a KIK group for Swingers - tdcyclerider and loveskings411 are our kiks we would love to chat and make new friends

Wannabes and net fakes - Will the real lifestyle members please stand up - How you not really notice who they are. My significant other and myself are not swingers we are in a lifestyle. Not something that comes and goes with the weather. We live a lifestyle. We have another lover that we love and adore and again love getting together with other couples and even groups for dinners and playtime. We have been in the lifestyle for over ten years and have spent more than our fair share of time apart because of the Navy but even then we talk about our life together first then the lifestyle we enjoy. Seeing people on here just to scope pictures or have sex.....we are looking for lifetime friends. I think that all that are in the lifestyle are doing the same thing, looking for people with the same goals and ideals. We just have the ability to be closer than most.

Keeping safe - Single females staying safe - Terry, That's all fine and good but you don't think that a guy might just SAY that in hopes of changing the girl's mind later? I'm not questioning your integrity or motives just saying that, in general, many guys will say and do just about anything for sex. I could easily imagine quite a few scenarios where a guy could come across with seemingly good intentions but have ulterior motives. Hell, we've had guys write us and ask to meet them and their wives (without disclosing that we're swingers) and suggest that we get the wife really drunk and then have sex with them. Again, I'm not saying anything about YOUR character or motives, just that because a guy SAYS he won't play with his "date" doesn't necessarily automatically make him trustworthy. YMMV Evil ps- We won't EVEN get into the subject of things like date rape drugs which by many accounts ARE being used in the swing scene by nefarious individuals. [em]Emo_8[/em]