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Are swingers moral? - Who determines what morals are? - Speaking of college papers, I actually wrote one on this topic. The "moral" of the story was that sex only becomes immoral if you lie about it. The whole concept of marriage boils down to a contract between two parties. That contract can be written or altered to reflect the preferences of the parties involved. From a religious stand point, "Thou shalt not commit adultery", again adultery implies dishonesty. Swinging does not involve dishonesty, it is an open an honest expression of sex.

The vent! - Judgements, I'm so tired of them. - On judgments: My wife and I were in the lifestyle for many years. She died 5 years ago of cancer and was the love of my life. It has been very hard for me as we were married for 34 years. Many of our friends were swingers because, as others have found, those not involved in the lifestyle often have negative judgmental attitudes. We made many friends. After she died I was supported by my friends but I was no longer invited to parties. For a while that was fine because I wasn't ready. But since I've tried to renew my lifestyle activities, I've found that I am no longer welcome. Why? Because I'm a single male. Forget that my wife and I were involved in the lifestyle up in Seattle, forget the many times we hosted parties at our house, my wife's death made me a pariah to other swingers. I really do not understand this. I'm still the same person. I'm discrete, clean, disease and drug free, I'm not pushy and no always means no. I guess I do not understand why all of a sudden I'm no longer welcome at parties i used to attend. Yes, many people not in the lifestyle judge those of us who are. But a large number of people in the lifestyle are just as judgmental, only they pretend that they are not.

Ebbs and Flows of Swinging - - Finding the time, or really even knowing what our schedule is, can be an obstacle. When we were young and raising five young children, we were monogamous in our marriage. We enjoyed that stage of life for more than two decades. We were perfectly happy. I don't think that if we had been swingers, we would have had the time to hook up with much frequency. Somewhere around 2004 or 2005 our offspring became old enough to require a bit more autonomy and time alone, away from home, hanging out with their friends, and so we had more time to hang out with our friends. The internet had become available and was full of sex, sex, and more sex. We became swingers, later joined this site, and we hooked up with a quite a few new and interesting people, with frequency, over the span of about a decade. We really enjoyed the variety, the adventurousness, and the intimacy. As our kids all started to become adult and started to enter into long term committed relationships and we started to become grandparents, they wanted to hang out with us a lot, and we love that. So most of the free time we used to spend swinging has reverted to family time. An honest hard look at where we are at this point of our life, and really where we have been for a while now, finds us having become swingers that only hook up maybe four to six times a year or less. We may actually be on a graceful trail that leads us back to monogamy. But not quite yet!

Help With Wife - Wife has fantasies but is super hesitant to experiment. - Personally I think you might be a little too eager (can't blame you, we all were when we started) and pushing just a little too hard to make her fantasy a reality. Rather than trying to find a way to get around the "Catch 22" of her fantasy maybe just explore it more verbally and see if it evolves into some kind of scenario that she is comfortable with that more easily can happen in the real world. The most successful swingers we know, ourselves included, arrived at where they are by being open and supportive of each other's fantasies and desires without forcing them in any way. In other words, be patient, explore your fantasies verbally and maybe role play, a LOT, with each other before you jump into anything that either of you isn't quite ready for. You might be surprised as you fantasize openly and honestly how your fantasies might evolve and become something that you eventually can and will make a reality. You know your wife better than anyone and maybe she does need a little nudge but most of the swingers we've known over the years who've crashed and burned did so because one partner pushed the limits too fast and didn't wait for the more hesitant partner to catch up. In our case we were quite surprised and what our fantasies morphed into when we really dug deep and talked about the truly deviant (by local standards anyway-lol) aspects of our fantasies. Sorry, I know that's probably not the kind of advice you were hoping for but it's been our observation over a rather lengthy swinging career. Another thought, if you're bound and determined to make your first swinging experience a MFM, is to find a guy who is okay with just watching you two play or maybe getting involved in some soft swinging...i.e. back rubs and or touching but no intercourse. We were soft swap for the first year or two of our swinging life and it was great fun and took the pressure off until we were ready to take the next step. Best of luck! edit- Sorry about what now seems like a long rambling response. In my defense it was pre-coffee. [em]Emo_79[/em]

International Swingers Day - How are you celebrating? - DP!!

Happy Thanksgiving - - Happy holidays to all you sexy swingers out there

swingin - thought this site was a swingers site - The problem with waaaaaaa is that in my humble opinion he is a pathetic little man in brain power.Obviously he can't talk about any thing but sex must mean the fat bitch beside him isn't giving him any.Oh look other people can be rude also.Get a life and the sex talk will come but as i said previously do you go out and talk about nothing but sex with everyone that you meet.I guarantee if you met my wife and first thing out of your mouth was sex talk,you'd be in a world of deep shit.We got into this life style to meet people with like attitudes to be friends.Some we have met and became friends with and still have NOT had sex with them.Others we have met and talked a while about this that and the other things and had great sex with them.Now judging by your vocabulary and your picture it appears to me that is all you can do is talk about it.You must figure that if you talk about it enough some one will finally give in and give you some.NOT GOING TO HAPPEN!!!!!!!!

Orgy Party by Swingers Circle in Las Vegas - - The Red Rooster. Especially if you like kickin' it old school. The orgy pit is a must do. Just lube yourself up and dive in. [em]Emo_67[/em]

Another Swingers Show on TV - - We are hungry for dessert also We really enjoyed watching together Seems to cover a lot of what couples go through, we were hoping they would have some older couples :) Hope it continues to be real

Have you ever... - - Saw this on myspace and thought it was interesting enough to post here and see what everyone's answers might be. Enjoy! Fess up about your sexual history. Are you a flirt? A prude? A slut? A nympho? Please be as descriptive as you like. (For the purposes of the quiz, 'sex' counts as genital contact with insertion. ) Had sex outside? Y or N Had sex in public? (movie theater, concert, theme park) Y or N Had sex in an unusual location? Y or N Had a threesome? Y or N A foursome? Y or N More than a foursome? Y or N Had a happy ending? Y or N Been tied up? Y or N Tied someone up Y or N Been to a sex club / swingers club? Y or N Watched a porno? Y or N Been in a porno? Y or N Wore a costume / role played during sex? Y or N Recieved a spanking? Y or N Given a spanking? Y or N Paid for sex? Y or N Had sex with someone you weren't attracted to / didn't like? Y or N Had sex with someone you didn't know / just met? Y or N Traveled more than 50 miles to have sex? Y or N How many States / Countries have you had sex in? Favorite position? Had a 'nooner'? (skipped out of work / school to go have sex and then returned) Y or N Had sex at work? Y or N With a co-worker? Y or N Slept your way to the top? Y or N Preferred location of "money shot"? Women - sexiest outfit / lingerie you own? describe in detail Men - best pickup line? Preferred hairstyle? (on you and on others) Shaved bare? Landing strip? 70's fro? Other style? Underwear choice? Ganny panties / tightie whiteys? Thong? G-string? Commando? Easiest way to get you turned on? Worst mood killer? Preferred style? Soft and romantic? Wham Bam Thank You Ma'am? Hard and fast? Hair pulling, ass spanking deep and rough? Piercings? Tattoos? Shoes / socks on or off? Do you fantasize about other people when having sex with your spouce / usual partner? Y or N Who is your fantasy partner? Describe the perfect sexual encounter... Willing to give me your answers in person? Naked?