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Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - [quote=FLUTTERBI]Maybe in our wildest fantasy. [em]Emo_4[/em] [/quote]
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DAVEJO,
Good for you. You know what they say about opinions. Know that you are still part of the extreme minority. Good thing for me, eh? LOL Thank you. Come again.
-Don-
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That little nudge many of us need - - We think honesty is the best way to be. If she found out about the meeting without her knowledge, your tryst into the lifestyle may be over. Plus, she might feel the pressure to play at some point anyway. Also, she will always wonder if the next meeting is arranged without her knowledge.
Evildoers is correct in meeting with zero chance of playtime. Take their advice. She will feel more relaxed and could enjoy herself with the pressure off. We will take it a step further:
Step 1: Set up a date with ZERO playtime opportunity and let the other couple know that. Do something fun (a hike, Topgolf, etc) and get to know them. At the conclusion of the date, let them know that if they do not receive a message from YOU within 24 hours, you don't feel you are a match.
Step 2: If you send a message to meet again, let them know your intent and your boundaries. For example, (kissing ok), (fondling ok), (bi kissing ok), (same room, separate room, either room ok), (nudity ok or not). But, speak honestly with each other about this. It's not nice to lead people on after you have committed. At the conclusion of the date, let them know that if they do not receive a message from YOU within 24 hours, you are not ready to go further.
Step 3: If you send a message to meet again, let them know what is acceptable. For example (full swap or soft swap), (same room, separate rooms or either ok), (kissing or no kissing), (bi play) etc. Again, you will have to be honest with yourselves if you can do this. By a third date, the other couple has invested a lot of time in you. So, be nice and don't lead them on. Enjoy the playtime. Save enough time for the afterglow sex with them relaxing, chatting, and laughing.
By this point, you may have found a couple that you can see multiple times. Doing vanilla activities with them might be a bonus. They may even introduce you to their lifestyle friends too.
The other option is attending a house party where play is not expected. You will be able to speak to several couple and perhaps, use the process above. Or you can play that night.
When we entered the lifestyle, we never had that couple who could mentor us. After we considered ourselves as no longer newbies, we became the newbie "whisperers" to offer what we never had. However, we've gotten away from newbies since our circle is with experienced swingers now. But with covid, we would date newbies again.
Meeting new swingers? - Where to meet them? - I think this is a hard one. In a small town, there probably wouldn't be a local swingers club so you'd almost have to resort to hinting around at bars or social gatherings. Obviously, you don't want to just come out and say 'Hey, we're swingers, how 'bout you?' But maybe trying to converse with a couple you may be interested in and gradually throwing out a hint here or there may be a way of going about it. Feeling out the conversation without being too forward. Maybe try to create a normal friendship with the couple at first, then introduce conversation that hints to the wild side down the road.
Picky Picky - No not your nose - [quote=ALLWENEEDISU]I'm picky, like probably a little bit unrealistically so. I figure I have the man of my dreams who is hung, smart, fun, charismatic and attractive. I shouldn't settle for less then total attraction. This should be true for all.
I realize I'm a old hand at this, been in and out (ha) of the lifestyle since 2011, and I've basically done all the things, but if you're with your perfect partner then my understanding is swinging is an enhancement to your sex life. Never settle for less (old swinger advice for the newer swingers) just to have a new partner/experience/taking one for the team.
What are your thoughts? [/quote]
I think it depends on what you're looking to get out of swinging and what you value in a sexual experience. While I agree with some of your points I also know from experience that different partners/playmates can bring many different things to the table. I've been with women who were absolutely amazing kissers. I've met play partners who knew little sex "tricks" that had never occured to me or to my primary partner that we've been able to incorporate in our own play. I've been fortunate to have sex with women who brought an amazing level of enthusiasm and energy to our encounters. And, lastly, and perhaps even more important, I've met and played with women who I wasn't necessarily immediately attracted to but who I became VERY attracted to once I got to know them a little better and the sex was mind-blowing.
I've ultimately learned not to judge a book by it's cover. That physical attraction isn't necessarily the ENTIRE package. And that what makes a person a great sex partner sometimes transcends the purely physical. YMMV Ultimately you are likely get out of swinging more or less what you expect to get out of swinging. If you are less than thrilled at how other men compare to the physical criteria you've listed about your significant other then you probably won't really enjoy swinging all that much. Just my two cents after being in swinging even longer than you. [em]Emo_12[/em]
Explain why you like being a swinger - - Can't really answer as to the exact question posed, as I am a single guy and, therefore, I suppose I can't really be categorized as a swinger, per se. But as to why I like being part of this site with it's potential for associating with swingers: It's because I have never really fit the standard model of sexuality (if there really is one) and the opportunity to associate with people who have broken out of the "mold" and experience something new and bring something new to the scene is very interesting and exciting to me. Hopefully I will get to do a little more than theorize about it.
On a serious note... - A court case that could effect lifestylers with children -
IMPORTANT COURT CASE MAY AFFECT SWINGERS WITH CHILDREN NATIONWIDE!!!
URGENT NOTICE TO RESPONSIBLE PARTICIPANTS IN THE ADULT LIFESTYLE
This Notice is directed to all swingers, exotic dancers, adult
business owners and anyone involved in the adult industry. There is a
very important legal case going on in the state of Florida which can
affect everyone in the swinging and adult community nationwide who
has children under the age of 18.
Deltadawn who is a fairly well known member of the swinging community
in the Tampa Florida area has lost her right to see her 2 1/2 year
old baby girl simply due to being a swinger. Deltadawn had shared
custody of her 2 1/2 year old baby girl with her "ex," who happens to
be an attorney. He found out that she was in the swinging lifestyle
and has filed a motion with the Hernando County Court of Florida to
remove all of her parental rights, primarily on the basis of her
swinger lifestyle.
THE OUTCOME OF THIS CASE COULD HAVE VERY SERIOUS AND
DETRIMENTAL REPERCUSSIONS FOR EVERYONE IN THE ADULT LIFESTYLE.
The outcome of this case is critical and could set precedent for
everyone involved in any form of the adult lifestyle nationwide. If
the argument that participating in the adult lifestyle reflects
adversely on parental rights, losing this case could open a Pandora's
Box for lifestylers with children across the country. An adverse
decision in this action could mean that anyone, gay or straight, with
children could be at risk of losing their children and having their
parental rights stripped away, simply because of the lifestyle that
we all enjoy. Swingers and everyone in the adult entertainment
industry would have to live in fear that they may be turned in and
could lose their children simply because of our lifestyle choice.
WINNING THIS CASE COULD HELP ESTABLISH CASE PRECEDENT AND HELP
PROTECT OUR PARENTAL AND CONSTITUTIONAL RIGHTS
Winning this case will mean loving parents do not have to live in
fear that our legal system, some governmental agency, or some
adversarial parent, will have the ability right to terminate your
parental rights or take your children, simply because of a lifestyle
choice that never involves well nurtured children.
The rejection of private sexual lifestyle as a basis for terminating
parental rights will set precedent that could serve to protect those
in the lifestyle or in the adult entertainment business from
unjustified intrusions into their personal lives. Under the U.S.
Constitution we should have the right to our lifestyle choice without
censure, condemnation and fear of losing our children.
Deltadawn has retained Luke Lirot as her attorney in her fight to
maintain her parental rights. Luke Lirot is one of the premier
Constitutional and adult civil rights attorneys in the country (you
can do an internet search of him to verify his credentials). He is
constantly traveling all over the country defending peoples civil
rights and is a true champion of justice. He is constantly in the
newspaper and often appears on television nationwide. As any lawyer,
he depends on his clients to provide him with a living, and Justice
comes at a price. Deltadawn needs your help...
We need all people involved in the swinging community and adult
industry, nationwide, to reach into their pockets and contribute to
her legal defense fund by donating what help they can to attorney
Luke Lirot.
THE OUTCOME OF THIS CASE COULD HELP US ALL
Please make checks or money orders payable to: LUKE LIROT, P.A.
(Please write in "Deltadawn Legal Defense Compensation" in the memo
section of your check or money order)
For further information, please contact:
Luke Lirot
Attorney and Counselor at Law
112 N. East Street, Suite B
Tampa, FL 33602
(Tel) 866-387-8469 (TOLL FREE), OR 813-221-9533
(Fax) 813-221-9175
Email: [email protected]
We sincerely appreciate your goodwill and support in this urgent and
important matter!
POST SCRIPT FROM LUKE LIROT:
This legal battle is truly tough. Deltadawn's lifestyle experiences
are being used as a weapon to try and take a loving child, much in
need of her mother's love, away from her. To stop this effort, we
must employ every possible tool at our disposal. We need the services
of psychologists, social workers, and other professionals to show
that Lifestyle characteristics, never revealed or foisted on any
child, have no detrimental impact on children.
Under Florida law, like virtually every other jurisdiction in the
nation, the factors evaluated by the courts are whether parental
contact "is in the best interests of the child." To do this, we need
to show that participation in the Lifestyle, in and of itself, does
not make anyone a bad parent.
There are only a few formalities. Under Florida Law, Rule 4-1.8(f) of
the Rules Regulating the Florida Bar governs "Compensation by Third
Party," and allows for parties unrelated to the litigation to pay
fees and costs on the clients behalf.
The Rule states:
Compensation by Third Party. A lawyer shall not accept compensation
for representing a client from one other than the client unless:
1)The client consents after consultation;
2)There is no interference with the lawyer's independence or
professional judgment or with the client/lawyer relationship; and
information relating to representation of a client is protected as
required by Rule 4-1.6 (confidentiality of information)."
If these conditions are acceptable to you, and you care about this
important case, we would welcome your help.
These donations are not tax deductible, but they are evidence of true
human kindness. Thank you!
-Luke Lirot-
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - Posted By: KRISTYLYNN2002 Reply posted on:
Jan 8, 2008 - 1:23 pm
ok fuck it just line up at my door and i will fuck everyone that cums through it..
oh don't forget to bring your livestock,,
then you can call me a slut..lol
kristy
Next time we are in FL, we might. :D No livestock though. Is that a deal breaker?:l
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