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Poly-Swingers - Moving beyond FWB relationship - [quote=BENT]SUMINDYFUN: To attempt to better answer your question, this is what we've experienced/learned in our poly-type relationships...
This is so much more of a complex subject than just a quick "blurb", we like to compare it to guessing a 4 combination lock, you know at least 1 or 2 of the correct numbers... but do you really??? You find out an amazing amount about YOURSELF through this process!
We have seen just about everything emerge, from complete unbelievable bliss to complete unbelievable hurt. However, what we've learned is TOTAL honesty, trust, respect, patience and absolute untethered communication are key! These things can either make or break it and breaking it earlier rather than later is a good thing, because if it breaks later then it usually means one or more people missed one or more of the fore-mentioned items and will cause much greater hurt because of all the time/work that was put in by the others.
BTW, apparently the bliss is much more powerful than the hurt because we keep trying and trying for some reason? Yep, its like a drug and we're addicted! This is why we dont fault any one for not wanting to "step through that door" so to speak. We suggest to any one that they open that door very, very slowly and even walk away for a bit before entering fully.
ABCMAN: You hit the nail directly on the head... from our experiences, social conditioning is extremely difficult for most people to overcome.[/quote]
Thank you BENT! We agree with you 100% on the honesty and communication aspect. We have been so happy in the year we have been with our couple, but there have been some bumps and mis communications along the way. Fortunately we were able to deal with them and learn from them rather well. We realize that a Poly relationship is very complex and risky, but the rewards outweigh the risks for us. Wishing you guys good luck in your search!
Talladega Race April 26-29 - Would like to get swingers together during race weekend for some fun!!! - If you are attending the Talladega race April 26-29 and would like to get together with others in our lifestyle than let us know. Darin and Jennifer
Black Ring - Who has theirs and how have they caught on? - A black ring worn on the middle finger of their right hand is a common symbol of the asexual community. The material and exact design of the ring are not important as long as it is primarily black. The black ring is often associated with people who identify as swingers. However parts of the swinger community have taken care to inform people to not wear the black ring on the right hand, middle finger out of respect of the Asexual community. Plain black rings also coincide with the symbol ? which symbolized asexuality and genderless. This symbol is also often written in black, simple because it's a common ink color.
Your right middle means "currently single", the right ring means "currently taken" and since the left ring means "taken/married" in a permanent sense, then the next logical conclusion would be that left middle means "permanently single".
Now if you want to be really confuesd try and find a definition for Asexual LOL
New Swingers Club in Utah - Gauging interest in new club - would love a place to go to where everybody knows my name
1. Would you attend a swingers club in Salt Lake?
oh heck yeah!
2. If so, how often would you attend?
bi-weekly, possibly weekly
3. What types of things would you like to see at the club? I.e., play rooms, dance floor, activities, etc.
main=dance floor, pool tables, decent bar food, good mixed drink, regular bar atmosphere
open to SF SM couples
back room (champagne room) = strippers, private dancers
open to SF SM couples
private room (VIP lounge)= for play, participate or not
open to SF couples
4. What types of things have you seen at other clubs that you liked/disliked?
it has to look classy and be clean
5. What do you feel would be a fair entrance fee?
membership fee for SF couples
single males.. are not allowed membership, entrance granted or denied at time of arrival at the door
non member, a standard cover charge that is comparable to other similar venues
addtl fees to upgrade to the "champagne room" (where the strippers, private dancers are)
slighty higher addtl fee to upgrade to the VIP lounge (playroom)
fantasy football league free trying to get only swingers in leag - free autodraft fantasy football league - We are in as coupleplay78
Serious about afternoon play in Slc? - Swapping and naughty fun - Anybody want to join a kik fir swingers. Looking for mostly couples
AFF in the movie - - The way we look at it, If someone sees our profile on a swingers website, they will have to answer the question of 'What were YOU looking at a swingers website for' if the bring it up in conversation. So its a pretty safe topic with us and we have no problem telling our close friends that we swing.
How to find other swingers - - So...what's the big deal?
Why is it so bad that vanilla's see the shirt/logo/pendant whatever and know what it means?
Ok, so the kids shouldn't see it...
I'm going to make some shirts for me and the wife.
His: I <3 group sex.
Hers: Me too!
Done. :P
Whats good for the goose is good for the gander... - - Our experience has been that swinger in general seem to be nicer and more open than their prudish cousins. However we must remember that swingers are still a cross section of society and we all know that society in general is well stocked with assholes and unfortunately some will spill over into the lifestyle. All we can do is ignore them and hope they disappear quickly.
Bob
lost with people - florida wanna be swingers - Welcome to Florida!
There are more wannabe swingers and picture hunters here than anywhere I think.
We have written to several couples here and recieved no replies.Not even a "no thanks".
Now.we know there are lots of genuine couples here as we have met them on other sites,but this one??!!
You are a young couple,so God knows why people don't respond to you.
As an older couple it is perhaps a little harder to meet people here but even so we feel a reply is good manners.
We wish you the very best of luck in your search.
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