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This lifestyle - What are we really? - MORDON: Huh?? Wow...no easy task to consolidate concepts as broad and inclusive as swinging and/or polyamory into neat little boxes. I'm still trying to follow how you grouped the two into polar opposites. I'm not sure that the way you're defining either of those would be true for the majority of those in the swinging communities, and especially not Sirensextress or myself. If I have the ability to to love more than one person...then yes, I suppose I am polyamorous, but NOT in the same way that a couple who is truly polyamorous might view it (I do love not just one but all my children/siblings and whatnot). You've painted a rather bleak and harsh picture of us non-polyamorists, by boldly stating that swingers are, "friends with benefits....True swinging is having sex just for the sake of having sex. No talking ...no getting to know each other...not caring one iota about the other person. Basically have sex and if the other person dies on the way home ...who give gives a shit!" That statement is well, to put it bluntly, naive and uninformed. We've never engaged in sex without talking, or getting to know one another. How else would we know if there's any chemistry? We care greatly for most of the people we've encountered through swinging, and would most CERTAINLY care if they died on the way home! In short...we "give a shit"! I think in it's broadest sense, the term "swinging" is large enough to cater to the appetites of a wide spectrum of people, from those that are inclined to polyamory, to those that prefer to fuck 'em and leave 'em, to those that are the swinging wannabe's, to those that are exclusive. We are by no means polyamorous, but yes, we've run into couples that are in the truest sense of the word, poly. In fact, we've met couples that have wanted us to participate in the poly lifestyle. However, they are looking for something quite different that what we are looking for. Neither my wife nor myself are looking to be "married" to another couple, or to become a "secondary" husband/wife to them. Yet, being the "non-polyamorists" that we are, and according to your definition, we should be unable able to maintain very close friendships with any other swingers. Actually...our experiences have been quite the opposite. Most of our closest friends have come out of The Lifestyle. Do we love them? Yep. Have/are we sexually intimate with them? Yep. Are we romanticaly involved, exclusive and IN love with them? No. Do we love them like family? Yep. Are we polyamorous? No. Does this just boil down semantics? Yes..probably. However I felt compelled to speak on behalf of those of us that actually do care about the people that we meet through the lifestyle. Cuz we DO give a shit and we're NOT the cold-hearted people we've been made out to be! :)

What's the universal swinger signal? - How can you spot a swinger?? - [quote=SOUTHERNFUN]FYI, If you see a man and woman grab their crotch and spit, they are probably redneck swingers

Swingers In Uniform - Pay your memorial day respects here. - Hell Yah! To those who give us freedom, to my best friend Tom who was in the first marine devision that went into Iraq. thank you and bless you all. Patty and Rich

Creating an Amazing Swingers Profile - How to market yourself better - [quote=PALS4FUN][quote=TIFFND][quote=PALS4FUN]Damn it, gotta go delete that pic of me spread wide. Sheesh, just tryin' to please all of the people all of the time and this is what it gets me! ;)[/quote]Damn...she already deleted it. Just wanted to give my honest opinion on whether I found it obscene or not. Sheeeesh.[/quote]Now you are just SOOO sweet and thoughtful to take the time to try and check it out and offer some advice! [em]Emo_49[/em] So I had to jump over and check yours out. And, DAYUM, handsome, I gotta say that you look freaking hot for a 94 year old! [em]Emo_71[/em] Somehow I expected your profile to include a pic of you two at your home, a fun looking party with a barbecue and hot tub cooking away in the background. IDK why, that's just what I pictured! Damn imagination of mine![/quote]I know...I'm a little slow...but, hey...at this age I'm happy I can still get this damn computer thing turned on, let alone a sexxxy youngin' like Ms Pals! Thanks for the kind words sweet lady! I have been told I don't look a day over 85 before, tho....

Divorce rates - How do we compare - swingers have more fun.

TOUGH MUDDER - We're putting together a team for a Tough Mudder - We are gearing up for the next level of training. We're looking for a few team mates who are swingers and athletic. We will be Team SWINGER~ check out the website if you don't know about the mudder and lets talk if you are interested. We are hoping to find BOTH COUPLE participation if possible. We will discuss as a team our uniforms, sponsers, and if we want the fist obstacle to be an orgy or if we should have it as the last. LOL. http://toughmudder.com/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=us|utah|search|branded&utm_term=tough_mudder_e&utm_content=11002960860&gclid=COmh4pOfua4CFUcHRQodNkbOFA

Swingfest - Hollywood Florida! - We were hoping to go, as we know a couple from the NYC area coming down, and we would love to meet some fellow swingers from this site. July has been a rough month financially for us, so we shall see. If we get there, we hope to see a lot of you! Ron & Chrissy

Posting Events on Swingular - How Cae Get Permission To Do This? - We run a very active swingers group up here in Southeast Idaho where host monthly Meet & Greets every month along with house parties and hotel parties generally every other month. We would very much like to be able to post our events on the "Events" page as well as the Home page on Swingular. We have been told by Xavier Lang of Risque Soiree that we would need to pay a one-time fee of $30 in order to be able to do that, so please let me know how to go about doing that. Thank you for your assistance.

Kik group for UT swingers. - Contact me if your interested in joining a KIK group for Swingers - Well I search for the group and found it currently tight group rules and then something else came up early you need to be verified we will see what happens have a great day everyone

Age - New to the swingers community - is age a factor in how a couple is viewed? - Attraction is just that... attraction. Age is just one of many factors that has the ability to blow my skirt up :) I think society gets a little hung up on it. I was out and about recently with a much younger guy and the looks I got ranged from amused to downright pissed off. I was actually a bit shocked that people even cared. My issue with seeing much younger men is that their range of experience is limited. Now I'm not just talking sexually, but life experiences. So when you crawl out from under the sheets, what do you have to talk about? That is an issue. I enjoy conversation, debate and people who actually 'get it', yanno? In bed.. well they are typically sexual dynamos..woo hoo! Older men...well they have their issues too. I find that a few have had difficulty with relationship/play/dating/romance stuff. Their heads are stuck in good girl/bad girl issues and so I either get treated like a total slut/whore or a princess. It's strange. Skill level here can be amazing and while they typically don't have the dynamo factor, they have stamina and MAD skills... woo hoo! Women are great at any age. I find I always have something to talk about with them. Sexually speaking... well, women speak a very similar language and most are sexually intuitive. Even those that have limited bi experience... woo hoo! That about covers everyone... LoL... :) Happy play to you all! Te