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western slope colorado swingers - trying to find fellow swingers - We moved here to colorado in nov of 2013 and have not met many in the lifestyle there is not many members in this area so we are wondering if anyone knows where they are all hiding it seems Craigslist is a popular place that people post personal's but there seems to be only flakes and would be potential pic collectors so any help here for the western slope would be great
Do you long for your "vanilla" friends? - Have you been with any? - [quote=DANISHDAME]> I'm attracted to the notion of connecting with a solid LDS couple. Something about those women🔥👍
Haha that's the opposite for me! If I hear someone's LDS I turn right around[/quote]
Agree. The problem with Mormon women (and men!) is that if they're strict, by-the-book Mormons, they were virgins (we were!) when they got married and know little to nothing about sex and how to pleasure the human body (including their own!). It took us a LONG time to figure out sex and THEN, once we started swinging, to realize that there is a big wide world of sexual experiences and techniques and that no single act, 'move', or technique is universally preferred or desired by everyone.
Having said that, probably the vast majority of swingers we've encountered in Utah are or were Mormons and you have to decide, especially if they're new and/or you're trying to convert them, if you're kind of willing to be mentors (for lack of a better term) and/or just be very very patient and sort of go back to the basics or at least to whatever level that they're at. It's really quite sad since we've known SO many Mormons who strictly followed their law of chastity only to find, after they were married, that they weren't at all sexually compatible. And I personally think that is one of the leading causes of divorce (along with different types of abuse) among Mormons.
P.S. I hope this didn't come across as condescending. Like I said, we were Mormons and went thru pretty much everything I mentioned above. But we were some of the lucky ones who were both pretty much on the same page sexually.
P.S.S. If you DO happen to find a great current or former Mormon couple who is keen on having sex with other couples, you're likely to unleash a LOT of repressed sexual energy that you will likely enjoy very much! [em]Emo_4[/em]
Single male in this lifestyle.. - I have questions for couples and single females. - Heya Josh. These are all extremely well thought out responses. Take them to heart. I'd also like to add that quite a few couples opt to have the man from a friendly, familiar, and secure couple fill the role of the second man from time to time. Most of the people here have healthy, loving, and established lives with someone they trust deeply. The less in-roads for unstable elements, the better.
Don't take it personally. When I was active as part of a couple screening all the single men was a chore. There is an unfortunately well-deserved stigma tied to single men in this scene. Many figure that swingers are an easy lay and end up simply being a nuisance, or worse, a creep or downright menace. Disrespect and deception abound. That's not a personal knock as I don't know ya.
Be smart. Be respectful. Don't fret if you're not a hot commodity. It's the nature of the scene.
geting in LOVE while swinging - - HELLO ,everybody now i am here with serious bussiness what happens when you get in love with the other spouse while fuck...swinging may you , or may you not ?;) lets see your views , and has it happend to you... :! i will voice my opinion after yours......:) :l Hi everyone and so i decided to give my view here so you don't have to read all pages if you don't want to FIRST: "YES go ahead and get in love ,you may , you should ,it is proper , don't be afraid ,and good luck with your new true loving solemate" and now in detail why is this my opinion and how did i come to this conclution ,well the truth starts with me why did i brake my commitment to my wifey by' marriage ' and became a swinger over 10 years ago ? lets never forget and not fool ourselfs the true definition of marriage is full commitment NO FOUL PLAY under no cercomstence may you go on a fucking rampge and Exchange sex with other spouse doing just that invalids your marriage and you become 2 persons living together like students in a dorm shering rent etc. this in return opens up the old couple to the hot "swinging dateing " for the new 2 singles {secure and loving .lol.} and so now the ultimate answear to all swingers was and still is 'closure' i was and we all are missing that true love and spark that only a true solemate has to offer, i had and still have more sex then you can imagine and more goodies a marriage can give but when you are missing that spark you will be insearch of that and become a swinger to find your solemate ! when and if you will find it get it and lock it in ...it was well said in the reply here by AKLIM69 and i commend her for it ,now all swingers don't get pissed off if your spouse gave you away puting you on the used spouse market it does not mean other swingers will take you ! i personly am takeing on "virgin only" .lol. thank you all :n
9/11/21 NCL cruise to Alaska - Any swingers cruising along with us. - Are there any swingers cruising to Alaska in this cruise. Cruise ends the 18th
West/Midwest vs. South Swinger population - - So we have noticed that Utah has a majority of the swing-ulation (swing population) on the site and we're thinking it's because here in Ut. We are denied such liberties such as good beer, gay marriage, being able to buy booze in the grocery store, legalized pot, a corner or city block that dosen't have a Mormon church on it, or a town without a Temple being planned or built!
So we figure Utah swingers are mostly either church defectors or people who are just plain fed up with our Mormon dictated state so what we do we do to rebel?? We hump each other alot lmao Utah is here by tagged as the Swinger Capitol of the Great United States of America!! So God bless Utah and this guys wife blowing me lol
Gloryhole - Any glory holes in northern utah? - So from what I've gathered, Habits is a common place for swingers. My girl and I are new to the life style and it seems our schedules never match up with the meet and greats. It is good to know there is a place we can go to when we are free to meet similar people.
Divorce rates - How do we compare - My husband and I began swinging together after a month of dating after I, the wife, suggested it and have now been happily married for over 3 years and together almost 4. Doesn't always have to be a pushy husband or a doomed marriage. How about 2 people who love sex and watching their SO be pleased by others? Good communication and a healthy amount of trust and security help as well I suppose. But giving a negative stigma to Swingers that our marriages are doomed seems silly. We've met plenty of people here and while living in San Antonio that have done this for years and continue to have wonderful relationships.
First Meeting - - After about 5 years of being in the lifestyle that is still a problem for us on knowing when is the right time to take it to the next level. Our first time was unexpected. It was back when then web cam became popular and we played on cam with some friends of ours. One evening we went out to have a few drinks with them. After an evening of drinking we said our good-byes at the bar and drove home. We didn't realize that they followed us home and pulled in the drive right behind us. She asked can she use the bathroom and when she came out of the bathroom she was naked. And we have been swingers ever since. We are still very close friends with them and hang out all the time.
Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - I have a few
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