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Burnt out from searching - - [quote=EVILDOERS][quote=ThroughTheVeil]Maybe the problem is that you're shooting too high?
I mean, don't get me wrong, everyone has their preferences, and at the end of the day, you shouldn't do anything (or anyone) you don't want to, but were in a similar boat of having to reach out a lot and getting rejected, a lot... even after making quick contact (or even longer contact) with a couple. Now if we didn't care who we met up with, we'r would have a different couple every night we had free time and some to spare, so having standards is important for time management also. What I'm saying is, if you're frustrated with how little (quality) contact, maybe you should give more people the benefit of the doubt.
I can think of couples that we initiated contact, 4 or 5 times before meeting, and then when we finally did, had a great time and became good friends, but that also meant reaching out to couples 6 or 7 times before realizing we were wasting our time swallowing our pride over them.[/quote]
The Lord and Lady of the Veil (Vale?) make a very good point. We've found that MANY swingers (Ourselves included.) are somewhat predispositioned (Yes, I know that's not really a word.) to constantly be on the lookout for what we might consider the perfect or ideal couple/connection and thus ignore people we might actually end up having a fairly great connection with because they didn't check one of our boxes for things thought we were looking for. Far too often it's too easy to overlook a good or even great couple when searching for the perfect one (That might not actually exist!). How much great or even just good sex might we be passing up in the pursuit of perfect sex? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯[/quote]
Very well said and obvious to many and acknowledged by few. We decided after the 1st couple of years the perfect couple may not look like the perfect couple but if we had a great connection it did not matter.
Wildcouple88 we live in Houston and have never had a response from anyone in our area. We have met many great couples in SLC area when we cum in for about 8 weeks a year in the winter to ski.
Looking to establish a group of safe swingers - - We were part of a group of friends like this, and it was great! We had regular get together, drinking, playing games, hot tubbing, swapping.. unfortunately the host couple moved away and we kind of fell apart. Awesome fun!
am back - spliting up sucks - We would not play with either of the couple if they were divorced. We became swingers so we can play as a couple with another couple. We don't entertain single male or female for the reason we do not want one of us to be playing while the other watches. We would still be "vanilla" with both if they are still in the lifestyle but would treat them like all other singles in the lifestyle when it comes to playtime.
Have you ever... - - OK, in the interest of playing, here you go:
Had sex outside? yes
Had sex in public? (movie theater, concert, theme park) yes
Had sex in an unusual location? yes
Had a threesome? yes
A foursome? yes
More than a foursome? yes
Had a happy ending? yes
Been tied up? no
Tied someone up yes
Been to a sex club / swingers club? yes
Watched a porno? yes
Been in a porno? Professionally? no
Wore a costume / role played during sex? yes
Recieved a spanking?yes
Given a spanking? yes
Paid for sex? No. (not directly, but dinner, drinks, etc...?)
Had sex with someone you weren't attracted to / didn't like? yes
Had sex with someone you didn't know / just met? yes
Traveled more than 50 miles to have sex? yes
How many States / Countries have you had sex in? 8 states
Favorite position? being straddled while sitting.
Had a 'nooner'? (skipped out of work / school to go have sex and then returned) yes
Had sex at work? yes
With a co-worker? yes
Slept your way to the top? no
Preferred location of "money shot"? Inside a nice wet pussy
Women - sexiest outfit / lingerie you own? describe in detail
Men - best pickup line? Pull my finger
Preferred hairstyle? (on you and on others) Shaved bare? Landing strip? 70's fro? Other style? shaved or trimmed neatly
Underwear choice? Ganny panties / tightie whiteys? Thong? G-string? Commando?anything easy to remove
Easiest way to get you turned on? her talking dirty to me
Worst mood killer? Him talking dirty to me.
Preferred style? Soft and romantic? Wham Bam Thank You Ma'am? Hard and fast? Hair pulling, ass spanking deep and rough? Yes Please.
Piercings? Love 'em
Tattoos? Love 'em more
Shoes / socks on or off?On. It means we can't even wait to get undressed all the way.
Do you fantasize about other people when having sex with your spouce / usual partner? Sometimes
Who is your fantasy partner? Who's available?
Describe the perfect sexual encounter... My next one
Willing to give me your answers in person? Naked? Absolutely!!!
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - Maybe the more appropriate question is "Why so much hate for single males in the swinger's world".
One of the issues could be that they are seen as diners who bring nothing to the table. Yes, you might say there is something for the lady so all is good. However, the issue is "What do they bring to the table that the host wants?". If the husband is being left out, do you think he is going to be happy? Once or twice, maybe. If many times he will not be happy and she will not be either.
Yes, some couples are looking for single males only because of some reason or other. Many are wanting it to be an all way experience.
For us, the risk of the baggage outweighs the potential gains. Why? Because the few times we tried it, we had a bad time. So, what is our incentive to go ahead and try again and again? Well, you could say that there might be a bunch of good single guys just around the corner if we just tried again. Fair enough. However, since we both are not really interested in single men or single women, the gains would be slight, if any. For a couple that is not interested in a single male, what is their benefit? Probably little, if any. So, how would you go about enticing them? Probably going to be a hard sell. Little to gain and the potential for a problem. Add that to the fact that they see the single guy who is in abundance, brings nothing they care for and you have the nuisance factor.
Now, with us, a couple could also be problems. However, we are more tempted to risk it because of the rewards it could bring. more importantly, the rewards it could bring THAT WE WANT. With the single male, the rewards would be something we don't really care for so the risk of a problem is a negative.
I don't care for a BMW. I'm a Mercedes man. You might say that both are made in Germany and quality vehicles, etc, etc. However, I might be willing to pay $40K for a Mercedes while a BMW of the same value might be worth only $30K to me. Or if my dad had nothing but trouble with BMWs and when I was young, so did I, it might be worth $5K to me.
Swingers In Uniform - Pay your memorial day respects here. - i think if anyone has no RESPECT for military is juan, i think if anyone that could be for the other side is him, he does not understand the meaning for freedom and respect for others if he is on here disrespecting the memory other the fallen and those who r serve, the other of us have the guts to show our face and let it be shown what we look like, you( juan) do NOT have the guts to even do that .we respect those who have served the country to give their life so others can move on and protect us and so we may live free of idoits like u. my suggestion to u juan move the f... on and stop disrespecting the military and the memory of those who do their job so u can sit on your ass and bitch about everything.
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This lifestyle - What are we really? - Posted By: JSTLKN07 Reply posted on:
Jan 22, 2008 - 12:25 pm
We like to think that we're doing what makes both of us happy. If that makes us swingers or polyamorous, or whatever, then that's cool with us. Our label we give ourselves isn't important, nor do we care about it.
We beg to differ. That label is important from certain standpoints. Now, if you meet us and tell us you are a poly couple seeking a poly relationship, we can tell you it won't go far since that is not what we want. That way, you know it isn't going anywhere fast and so do we. No need to drag it out for a while and then "I thought you...." or "I got the impression.....". If I am looking for a certain type of relationship, isn't it better to know up front and not waste anybody's time and get hurt feelings?
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Looking to establish a group of safe swingers - - We are a professional, naughty, highly sexual couple that wants to find another couple(s), and a single male or female that we know are safe that we can play with worry-free. Or a trusted group of couples and singles. I know most people are or say they are, but we’d like to establish a level of comfort where fluids won’t hinder us. We like to go ALL in and if we can establish some regulars that we can trust, think of the no holds barred fun we could all have. We could turn our home into a weekend pleasure palace. A place where you could arrive at, become friends with everyone, and have your way with anyone at the house knowing they’re all safe, and all want to make you feel good. Food, drinks, hot people, hot sex, and LOADS of fun and memories. We’re working on a hot tub now. So expect that too. Let us know what you think and if you want to be considered. Single males, we’ll invite you as well as select you. It will be on a case by case and requested basis.
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