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Friend collectors or swingers - - [quote=KRFunCouple]A lot of people have hidden faces or no photo. We do accept or ask for friend requests from people that we think are interesting. We don’t always ‘unfriend’ if we lose contact or there isn’t mutual interest. I guess we never though about the need to? But I understand.
We are super picky, and really in no rush.[/quote]
We are also super picky and refuse to jump into an immediate sexually relationship with someone we haven’t truly meet. That may be some of the cause of this issue as well.
Jimmy Buffett Concert - - We are heading next weekend to Vegas to see Jimmy are there any other parrothead swingers going to this concert that might want to party?
Ways to point out Swingers in public - - We agree. SOMEWHENTIME , where did you get yours? What type of ring would you all prefer? Do you like the idea of the silicone rings. Hell we could even print on it your preference. MW4MW OR MMF MFF whatever it may be.
Know any Mormon swingers in SoCal? - Single girl in SoCal wants to know! - Where in SoCal. I work in the LA area 5 days a week.
Mr. Sexperimentors
Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - Bright orange and glorious faded purple 1970 Pinto yeahh baby yeah!!!
or not ;)
Fly-fishing Swingers - New Swingular Group - I like to Flyfish. Been doing it for many years.
Looking to establish a group of safe swingers - - [quote=UTHOTCPLEXTREME]Ok, yeah HPV is fair enough. But I know we don’t have it. And we’d like to keep it that way.[/quote]Agreed hence the vaccine. Men cannot be tested for it and can pass it onto women unknowingly.
To be clear not trying to hijack the discussion by any means. Just pointing out vaccines for such is a good idea especially in group settings where everyone is being a little more free with sharing [em]Emo_94[/em] .
Memorial Day Weekend - Las Vegas Anyone? - Long weekend -- Let's make the most of it! - We are planning on going to Vegas for the Memorial Day weekend. We're looking to sun, fun, water (pool or otherwise), and play!
1. Which hotel do you recommend for partying and/or meeting swingers?
2. Who else is going or interested in meeting there?
3. Or...would you recommend on making the trip to Lake Havasu?
Ideas, thoughts, invitations, and fun ideas welcome! We have Fri to Mon off and want to make the most of it.
(Evildoers --- we will be deeply disappointed if you don't have something amusing or funny to say....please add your 2, er, 25 cents!) :)
Thank you all for your input and ideas. (So many fun and good people here!)
[em]Emo_16[/em]
What a difference a Gay makes... - Our first foray into the swinging public, not what I expected. - Reading all the posts here and looking at the photos on the profiles make us wish we were in utah.You truely are a lovely lot.
The couple in Spring Hill look good too...And Texas.......stc
We went to a swingers club once..ONCE!!We found it rather cliquy.
We didn't know what to do there,people were wandering off to rooms,we didn't know if we should follow,wait to be invited or whatever.
My wife got more interest than I did(from single guys usually),and being basically shy,I just stood back.Everyone seemed to be chatting and ignoring us.
We travelled quite a way to get to this place,and we won't go again that's for sure.
It seems to us that house parties are the best way to go to meet new people.we tried those with some success.
We once went to a lesbian bar just to see what it was like.I tell you,they were really friendly.People chatted to us,wanted to know where I was from because of the accent.We didn't go to pick anyone up(fat chance for me,they were all gay girls..LOL)But had a great time.
Swinging versus poly/open - - [quote=SEXYSLC30]I'm speculating here, but it seems the millennial generation as a whole is more open to an open/poly relationship, and it naturally is bleeding into Swingular as more and more younger/ish couples sign up.
We started out with very strict rules about emotions for others, ect. Now, we find ourselves on a spectrum where we still occasionally love the "wham bam, thank you mam" aspects of swinging (what were their names again...😁?), but after several years of that, we are now far more interested in developing relationships with the people we meet. Sometimes that means we have really good friends with benefits, however neither of us are closed to the possibility of dating the right person.
And I don't believe dating others leads to divorce, however not being honest and failing to communicate certainly does. And that applies to swingers and monagamous couples alike.[/quote]
I really relate to your comments and feel we are very similar. Maybe not to the point of dating others but we definitely want to have feelings for others as a couple and individually. The problem is that most of these open relationships seem to be very secretive which leads to distrust and hurt feelings which leads to more extreme behavior and we just don’t want to get caught in the middle of it.
We share and communicate everything, half the fun is turning everyone on which cant happen when it’s all secretive. We just feel more and more pressure to be fully open and people care
About our boundaries less and less. Guys start actively messaging and trying to sext my wife without asking me if that’s okay first. Women start getting extra demanding of my attention and then finding out their husbands know very little about what’s going on. Single guys who simply can’t be our friend as a couple and enjoy some occasional bull time with the wife without wanting more. It’s just been really odd for us these past 2 years.
We also feel that because the current culture of lifestyle parties is more open relationships, new couples get introduced to it and start thinking that’s the only way. So they either do it that way or leave the scene entirely. Our post is partially to let other newbies know there is another way.
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