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Skittles2469fun - Newbies - Welcome newbies. Like you, we were together more than a decade before we got into the lifestyle. We actually talked, fantasized and researched it for almost 2 years before taking the leap. One site we used that had great info is Swingers Board. We've loved it ever since. The main thing you need to do is be on the same page about what you want, what your rules and boundaries are and have fun. Go to parties. Browse profiles and contact those who interest you. Set no expectations for dates, we've found it usually doesn't go how you think it will (good and bad). Avoid anyone you get a sense of drama from. One thing we did from the beginning and do still to this day. After every party, club visit or date, we'd talk about it. What we liked, didn't like, etc. Did we mention have FUN!!!!!! Also, don't take rejection personally. It happens to pretty much everyone. Oh yeah, HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!!!!!
A fine line. - - Trying to stick to the OP intent here.
[quote=CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL][quote=EVILDOERS] we often find it difficult to walk the fine line between being nice, polite, and social with other people when we do not actually feel an attraction to them. If we had a week at desires it would be easier to be nice and talk with everyone. However adult hours are not easy to come by so we do find this line hard. My wife will talk with a friendly person or couple the whole night. Even if the couple is in some committed deal. I have been working
on getting her to direct her time on couples she can see us doing something mor. Or limit the time she spends and move along.
Do you at some point just say honestly that while they are nice it just ain't gonna happen?
We only feel this is needed it they ask us if we want to get a room. At that time you just have to say something and it is never easy.
Do you make some sort of lame excuse and beat a hasty retreat hoping they will get the hint? Do you move on to another couple that you are attracted to and look annoyed when the first couple follows you around all night. Of course some people just won't take a hint or take "no" for an answer and for those you DO have to be blunt.
This is one method that does seem to work. It is easier if you do it early on in the timeline like the first 5 mins or less.
So what techniques do y'all use in situations like this? How do you be nice to others without necessarily encouraging them?
[b]Seriously? I mean, you don't know how to interact with others and carry on a conversation without having them believe you want to hop in the sack with them?[/b]
Its not that easy.. How do you walk over to a couple and start to talk to them at a swingers party and not have them think you want the Mor?
Tooele swingers party 2 - Doing our second party - So were going to host a second party at our house in tooele. Now that we've got a better on idea on what to do going forward. So were looking for couples to join. Please feel free to message if interested.
On Premise Swingers Club - SLC - I am sure that there are a lot of folks that would support your venture. However you would have your work cut out for you and I hope you have a good law firm working for you and are able to do it.
I know that in some places in the USA there are clubs that are held in a large private residence and that is the only way they can exist in those cities. But police have a tendency to treat the whole thing like it is organized crime.
I know that we have members of the community that are cops and ex-cops and they should contact you privately and thus may be of some help or guidance. I do know of one case in Utah where all cars parked by the business were photographed by the cops and folks harassed and thus shut down and another where they simply ran the proprietor of a liberal magazine out of business.
I wish you luck.
Swingers Party Club - Sin City Resort - Does anyone have any Intel on Sin City Resort and Swingers Party Club? They seem to have recently showed up in the Vegas Swinger scene and we don't know what to expect.
Thanks
The New Neighbors Are Swingers - - That’s fucking hilarious! Great tips too!
Those damn single men! - Where do they fit in this lifestyle? - WOW!! I go to work and I get all kinds of replies! Thanks to ALL!!!
I'm not here to change anyones way of thinking!
I'm not here to tell anyone they need to change!
I'm not here for a pissing contest, and have done my best with this thread to avoid pissing on anyones toes!
Hwy I always enjoy your input, you are straight up and blunt I like that.
Sexy LMAO I'd enjoy seeing you in action at a swingers club...
UTHOT Sorry, I havent been sleeping well, and I get bored...
Lets all have fun in whatever it is you do...
swingin - thought this site was a swingers site - Can it be that Waaa1101 are to impatient? Maybe that is why they are complaining? Tequilla Rose had it right about "Tolerance" lol
Threaded messenger - We want threaded messenger - [quote=DANDTCURIOUS][quote=FIT_N_FUN]We used SDC.com when we lived in Draper and had a lot of luck. SLS.com was ok, but it has a really dated format like this site does. FetLife has the best format, but there are some really damaged people on that site.[/quote]
“There are some really damaged people” on Fetlife? Really? Lmao ... FYI Fetlife is NOT a swinger site, it’s a BDSM site. Just because you don’t share their fetish doesn’t make them damaged. 🙄[/quote]
It's actually a lifestyle site and swinger is one of the designations to choose from when setting up a profile. We've met and played with a lot of swingers from that site, so I'd say it's a viable option for swingers.
And to clarify, I'm not referring to their individual kinks. I'm referring to the writings on that site. We've read some deeply disturbing things on that site and if you're an active member, you know of at least a couple recent issues that gained a lot of attention.
Swingers Club - Swingers Club - There's a Chinese Buffet/Swing Club? Why wasn't I told about this?
I'd like a number 7. You get egg rolls with that, right? A number 12, oh and some crab wontons. (And some hot unicorns.) [em]Emo_84[/em]
And I have a coupon from The Clipper...
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