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Have you ever... - - Saw this on myspace and thought it was interesting enough to post here and see what everyone's answers might be. Enjoy!
Fess up about your sexual history. Are you a flirt? A prude? A slut? A nympho? Please be as descriptive as you like.
(For the purposes of the quiz, 'sex' counts as genital contact with insertion.
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Had sex outside? Y or N
Had sex in public? (movie theater, concert, theme park) Y or N
Had sex in an unusual location? Y or N
Had a threesome? Y or N
A foursome? Y or N
More than a foursome? Y or N
Had a happy ending? Y or N
Been tied up? Y or N
Tied someone up Y or N
Been to a sex club / swingers club? Y or N
Watched a porno? Y or N
Been in a porno? Y or N
Wore a costume / role played during sex? Y or N
Recieved a spanking? Y or N
Given a spanking? Y or N
Paid for sex? Y or N
Had sex with someone you weren't attracted to / didn't like? Y or N
Had sex with someone you didn't know / just met? Y or N
Traveled more than 50 miles to have sex? Y or N
How many States / Countries have you had sex in?
Favorite position?
Had a 'nooner'? (skipped out of work / school to go have sex and then returned) Y or N
Had sex at work? Y or N
With a co-worker? Y or N
Slept your way to the top? Y or N
Preferred location of "money shot"?
Women - sexiest outfit / lingerie you own? describe in detail
Men - best pickup line?
Preferred hairstyle? (on you and on others) Shaved bare? Landing strip? 70's fro? Other style?
Underwear choice? Ganny panties / tightie whiteys? Thong? G-string? Commando?
Easiest way to get you turned on?
Worst mood killer?
Preferred style? Soft and romantic? Wham Bam Thank You Ma'am? Hard and fast? Hair pulling, ass spanking deep and rough?
Piercings?
Tattoos?
Shoes / socks on or off?
Do you fantasize about other people when having sex with your spouce / usual partner? Y or N
Who is your fantasy partner?
Describe the perfect sexual encounter...
Willing to give me your answers in person? Naked?
Odd pattern. - Why the interest/disinterest? - I'm not surprised to see mentions of homophobia and haste in filling out the profile as possible reasons; I hadn't thought of the male ego being so driven as to ignore disinterest from gay women. Yet that ego can't be reasoned w/ when the interested person's equipment matches the imagined ideal but the original birth certificate does not, even when reproduction is not on the table.
As Terry pointed out above, every blastocyst starts out female and slightly less than half mutate into males as they become fetuses.
AHARLEYCPL, not only is hate mail unwarranted, I'm personally pleased this discussion, for all its potential thorns, hasn't disintegrated into discriminatory ugliness like it would on some sites where the membership is more mainstream; I think it's b/c swingers already think outside the societal norms when it comes to expressing sexuality and have more of a 'live and let live if no one gets hurt' mentality. Being a swinger isn't about thoughtless sex, it's about even more thoughtful sex and this discussion shows that. :)
Where to go, what to do. - Non club activities - We through a Halloween party with vanillas and swingers we used glow stick brackets they are cheep and you can get them almost any place they worked great.
Honesty - parallels? - The topic of honesty (more accurately, lack thereof) has been prevalent in recent political posts - for good reason. Everyone would like to see more openness and honesty from the candidates.
That sounds similar to one of the most common complaints among swingers.
Here's the question - Does anyone think that a person could win the SURVIVOR TV game on a platform of "honesty"?
Personally, I think it highly unlikely.
Honesty in politics? Honesty in swinging? Honesty in game playing?
Any chance?
Search abilities for international swingers. - Just a suggestion. - One of the things that we have noticed is that most swing sites do not have anything set up for swingers in other countries. If a site can be set up for each state in the US then why not for each country on each continent? There are many couples who travel to various locations around the world for vacations and it would be nice to know something of the local swinging scene. By broadening this web site to include international customers would that not also increase the profitability of the site? More customers means more cash flow. Postal codes work the world over for sending and receiving mail...these same (ZIP) codes could be used for country location. Just a thought from a happy clam :) happyclam469
We have heard about it many times........... - Couples that are swingers - QUEENOFCRUNKXXX,
Your mistake was that you assumed that everyone was at the same level as you. That's not a stab, but an observation. One of the first mistakes we all make is assuming that because we are all "swingers", we are all seasoned veterans of the lifestyle and have ironed out all the wrinkles in our relationships as swingers.
It is unrealistic to expect everyone to be on the same page, all the time. I agree with you in that we should all strive to be open and communicate everything we can, to our significant other and the other couple, so that everyone knows where everyone stands with regard to swinger interaction. Does this always happen? No. My advice is don't be discouraged. All you can do is try again or move on.
Everyone is guilty of "DRAMA", including you and me, for that matter. More often than not, those that say "Drama Free" are those that are the biggest perpetrators and perpetuators of it. Just my opinion of course. Better luck next time.
-D-
The New Neighbors Are Swingers - - That’s hilarious, where do you find this stuff?
Explain why you like being a swinger - - Hold on. This a Swingers site. We thought it was the PTA!
Swinging has awakened the animal that lurks inside of us and allowed us to embrace it and savor all the tasty wonders we have encountered.
cuckold couple - Just curious - Cuckolding usually refers to a humiliation element - a woman is with another man while husband or bf gets off on being shamed, humiliated, knowing she is with someone else, hearing how much better or bigger they were, etc. It's fetish that some enjoy. Not something I would enjoy personally.
There's also 'hotwife', which is more where the man enjoys seeing or hearing about her with other men, seeing her pleasure, seeing how desirable she is, aroused by the sight or hearing about it more from pride and appreciation of her sexuality, beauty and pleasure. This can be at different levels - from merely bragging about a sexy wife and having men acknowledge that, to her flirting and teasing other men but always coming back to him, to minor or major sexual adventures.
'Cuckolding' is usually seen with a derogatory and humiliating element as a fetish, while 'hotwife' is pridefully showing off or sharing.
Although, both terms are used interchangeably at times, they have a different connotation.
There's also cuckquean - a woman who enjoys her man being with other women coupled with derogatory or humiliating elements.
There's probably a male version of 'hotwife' - 'sexyhusband'? - but I'm not aware of any particular term that's popular.
Personally, I get the hotwife/sexyhusband idea much better. We both take pride knowing we're desirable to others and yet committed to each other. That's probably the general feeling most swingers have.
Cuckold/cuckquean isn't a necessarily a bad thing (if both are into it), it works for some people, but many find the humiliation element not enticing.
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