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Why Hide Your Faces? - Don't you realize you're smarter than everyone else? - I do like your view of things and I get it, but if there's anywhere to advertise it's here. I'm not telling people to sporadically start telling the world they're swingers; you'll end relationships. Like after telling my wife, knowing the outcome, not telling her sisters how we were during their vacation together. She did, ending both relationshits—one in divorce and the other broke up & moved out. I asked what she told them and it was one line I knew hurt their little traditional relationship minds. "He just said he's not trying to take my 20s away and saying I have to sleep with him and only him is unrealistic". Like I said, it's dangerous expressing the lifestyle. Why? Because it makes more sense than todays definition of love. I'm trying to think if ever a conversation came up toward me having to explain how I am, and none exist other than me telling my mom, "I know the secret to mankind" having to explain.
WTH over? - Private picture debacle. - So we recently did a post on bareback and cumming in strangers. 😉. Hot, we know. And we have to say WOW! Thanks for all of the incredible messages and forum posts. I don’t think we’ve received that much mail in a long time. We’re flattered. But to the subject of this post we have to ask. And here goes.
Why? Why oh why oh why do couples and/or singles have private pictures when they are the same thing as your public pictures? If we add or accept a couple, that means we are interested and like what we read and saw in your public posts and pics and now want to see the rest of you. If it’s nothing else to look at then honestly what’s the point? You are swingers. Stop being shy and show yourselves. If you’re truly worried about “your job” or others seeing you than maybe you’re in the wrong place? We don’t say that to be snarky. But I’m pretty sure your conservative neighbor or corporate manager won’t be viewing your profile. And if they do than they’ll want you to be just a discreet as you expect others to be right? Show those beautiful mugs! Let us see who we’re courting. We’re looking to share our spouses in the most intimate of encounters and we’re not meeting up in the hopes that we are attracted. Don’t be shy. We don’t bite. Ok we may nibble a little bit we don’t bite. Show yourselves or we’re calling the swing police.
Next is the requests with no pics or single males with no pics. Two words. Nope - Delete. End of story. If you have nothing to show or share we’re not here to provide entertainment for your impending jerk off session. Buy a flesh light and some lube and go away. 😉
To those with the beautiful spreads (pictures and pussies) we thank you. And for taking the time to write some very nice messages. We will be answering everyone. If you don’t hear back than that’s usually a good sign that you’re just not our type. Nothing personal. But I think that’s how most people do it. We can say no thanks but that feels harsh so we avoid it. But so far we’ve seen pretty much all good. Yay!
I can say there are some gorgeous couples on here. We really look forward to possibly meeting some of you. Or meating some of you. Either or. But seriously, we’re excited to meet some new friends. And then violate them in the most licentious sort of way. 😘.
Thanks for sharing and being vulnerable with us regarding a real delicate subject. We’re blown away by the honesty and all the like minds. Now let’s all have some kinky fun!!!
K & A.
lost with people - florida wanna be swingers - ok now that i have everyone in florida looking around ...i have been here for a lil bit but i have noticed that it's all about pic's and / or club... are we swingers or advertisment ,, this is really getting old for me i have been a memeber on other groups and this is not what i paid for .. i add people to my friends list because i feel we have the same interest ... but yet i have had no e-mails or at least a meeting or anything but been added to there friends list ..sorry to be so harsh but we are not here to just be on a list ... no we are not ken and barbie ... but we do know how to have fun even .. tho i work 7 days a week ... i dont have time for games ,, it's either u want to play or u dont ... figure out what u are and stop playing games .. to those who are like us i am sorry for being so blunt but i have had enought of the kid's games ... if anyone is really interested in who we are please send a message to us because it's seems to me it's all about pic's and who can put who down the most or make them feel like they r someone and then blow them out the water and not use thier lips...i am vary up frunt and say things the way i feel if u can't handle it i guess u should be here and should be somewhere else
sorry for those who are here for the real thing and just wanting to find that specail friend , but those of u who r here to play game and try to be a player i have some words for that i wont put here but u know what i want to say ....
thanks for everyones times
tezzinanplezzin
aka : jason and beth
Any advice? - Recent birthday brings changes..... - So...having just recently turned 93 years of age, I have a few questions.
1. I enjoy the meet and greets but thinking it is going to be more and more difficult to find a "parking" spot for my walker when I'm out "break" dancing.
2. Are swingers really kind enough to help me up off the dance floor after I "break" something, and get tired of "peeking up skirts?"
3. What are the chances of a pretty girl actually getting close enough to me to allow such a peek?
And, finally...
4. Is there ANY real chance I'm still gonna get any "action" here? I have lots of popcycle sticks and rubber bands..so that isn't an issue. I have a hot 42 year old wife to reward anyone that helps....
Ahhh..so many concerns...and questions. Maybe it's just time to "hang up the spats" and stick with the nurses in the ER for the extra curricular stuff....
~Mr TiffnD~
It's an age, old, question. - No, I'm NOT 94.... - We respect others opinions on age preference. For us we certainly admire the looks of younger swingers but we prefer those with a little more maturity. We don't want to get naked with people our kids age, just our preference. Thats the great thing about about being in the lifestyle, you get to meet those that fit your preference and walk away if it's less than what you thought.
How much risk is too much? - - [quote=ILLUSTRATOR]You're right. I'm just telling it the way I see it from what I know. I just wanted to voice the other side of this because I know women who feel this way and, although I understand how you feel, I see their side of it, too.
And the men on here who think that women truly want to be raped need to understand that they may think it's what they want, but what they really want is the unrealistic fantasy that's played out so often in the Romance Novels that are flying off the shelves. There's a reason for their high sales. But it's merely a Fantasy. These men might come across videos like that of Laci Green's and think that means all women want to be raped. They should know that, in reality, women don't want it played out. That's what the OP should know and consider. [/quote]
And a certain percentage of men may have just read that and only saw (or acknowledged), "...all women want to be raped." When we already have a very pervasive bias in our culture towards patriarchy and women being subservient to men, especially sexually, then discussions like this, IMHO, cause more harm than good. It doesn't take much looking on the internet to find sites and discussion boards where violence against women is not only overtly depicted through text and image but also actively discussed and even encouraged. Fantasize all you want but openly discussing how to fulfill rape fantasies in a swingers forum can only cause harm I think.
Where to go, what to do. - Non club activities - Is now a good time to bring up the wrist bands, distinctive rings,and necklaces of christmas past???? Sort of joking however the idea of non-club get meets has allot of potential, look at the summer campout for instance and once there was a bowling party in a closed venue that was a blast, we went to a swingers super bowl party that was awesome, Lava Hot Springs Takeover was too much fun so we definitely think there is room for different social activities. Now on to how to recognize peeps, good luck with that one as a community swingers seem to have been trying to figure that one out since long before we started recreating.
Bob
Alternative Websites - What other sites! - seeing a lot more swingers popping up on fetlife of late
Are swingers moral? - Who determines what morals are? - I figure that the golden rule, kharma, and working to better myself as a whole are good morals and make me moral and whatever. lulz.
And as far as people thinking morals making you a good person... pretty sure you can be a good person with or without god. :P
Are swingers moral? - Who determines what morals are? - Neuroscience makes morality out to be largely born in and more complicated than just "stuff god doesn't like". For example, what one may see as an immoral act may in fact be quite honorable to someone in that person's in group. A gang banger seems immoral when he kills a rival gang member but a soldier is doing the same thing except that we call the gangs nations. What religion manages to do is take false credit for morality so that it can attach additional memes on so we get motivated to do those too. This amounts to "lying is bad so sex must be bad too". The problem with buying into that logic is that not everything churches say are bad actually are and can even override true morality. For instance, a religious hatred of homosexuals. This doesn't always happen and there are many influencing factors (again morality is quite complicated according to neuroscience) but it is often a potent driving factor. The short answer is that the more people you include in your in group the more people you will act morally toward.
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