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Have you ever... - - Saw this on myspace and thought it was interesting enough to post here and see what everyone's answers might be. Enjoy!
Fess up about your sexual history. Are you a flirt? A prude? A slut? A nympho? Please be as descriptive as you like.
(For the purposes of the quiz, 'sex' counts as genital contact with insertion.
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Had sex outside? Y or N
Had sex in public? (movie theater, concert, theme park) Y or N
Had sex in an unusual location? Y or N
Had a threesome? Y or N
A foursome? Y or N
More than a foursome? Y or N
Had a happy ending? Y or N
Been tied up? Y or N
Tied someone up Y or N
Been to a sex club / swingers club? Y or N
Watched a porno? Y or N
Been in a porno? Y or N
Wore a costume / role played during sex? Y or N
Recieved a spanking? Y or N
Given a spanking? Y or N
Paid for sex? Y or N
Had sex with someone you weren't attracted to / didn't like? Y or N
Had sex with someone you didn't know / just met? Y or N
Traveled more than 50 miles to have sex? Y or N
How many States / Countries have you had sex in?
Favorite position?
Had a 'nooner'? (skipped out of work / school to go have sex and then returned) Y or N
Had sex at work? Y or N
With a co-worker? Y or N
Slept your way to the top? Y or N
Preferred location of "money shot"?
Women - sexiest outfit / lingerie you own? describe in detail
Men - best pickup line?
Preferred hairstyle? (on you and on others) Shaved bare? Landing strip? 70's fro? Other style?
Underwear choice? Ganny panties / tightie whiteys? Thong? G-string? Commando?
Easiest way to get you turned on?
Worst mood killer?
Preferred style? Soft and romantic? Wham Bam Thank You Ma'am? Hard and fast? Hair pulling, ass spanking deep and rough?
Piercings?
Tattoos?
Shoes / socks on or off?
Do you fantasize about other people when having sex with your spouce / usual partner? Y or N
Who is your fantasy partner?
Describe the perfect sexual encounter...
Willing to give me your answers in person? Naked?
Kik group for UT swingers. - Contact me if your interested in joining a KIK group for Swingers - Yes need Kik.
Contact me after you get it
Where are all the MEN - looking for men that arent afraid of furthering the aspect of sex - Please forgive the directness of this statement:
Not all swingers are BI sexual.
Not all men are interested in anal activity of any kind, male or female.
Not all women are interested in putting a finger in her man\'s ba-chunga to \"stimulate\" his prostate. Thank whomever you worship.
Not all people who differ with anal sex are in denial. They simply may not have any interest.
Just our .02 cents.
Luvbugs!
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can we swing and still not be in sin ? - - mrs. Classy ???.lol. are you frightened that you can't swing anymore ? this post is for REAL CLASSY SWINGERS , real poeple ,real ideas , seriously if you can't handle it emotionally skip it ! don't show us all how stupid and uneducated you are and lack basic knowledge of the daily routines of normal people that live anywhere in the usa .
Looking to establish a group of safe swingers - - It sounds like a great idea, we too are also looking for people that we can trust and let it all go. Count us in.!
Swinging with Vanillas - Any success stories? - [quote=EVILDOERS]I know this probably won't be a very popular point of view but I kind of have a problem with vanilla hunting. If you meet some vanillas and talk to them, hell tell them you are swingers or whatever, and they're interested and then you leave it there and they have time to go home and consider what you've told them and make a sober rational decision then great. Where the line becomes blurred to me is approaching vanillas in say a bar situation where there is plenty of alcohol or whatever and then sort of guiding (pushing?) them into a situation where they might not be thinking completely rationally. I think the majority of us probably approached swinging from the perspective of making a conscious decision to try it out or whatever before we were put in a situation where sexual play might happen. I just think it's only fair for others to have that same consideration "space" if you will before they jump into something they might not be ready to handle. Swinging is great. We have and awesome little hobby that is DEFINITELY not for everyone no matter how much we think it should be. The truth is very few people can actually handle the intense dynamics of swapping spouses. JMO[/quote]
Had the same uncomfortable thought when I read this post
Disabled Swingers - - We have actually encountered a somewhat local couple who we really like, and she is in a wheelchair. I'm ashamed to say that we have not become very close, other than being friendly at parties as we're unsure of what is expected and what her "disability" is. Personally, I think it would be much easier to "approach" an obviously "disabled" person/couple if there was some sort of specified background on the disability and its limitations and requirements for that person- sexually speaking.... (Perhaps a basic run-thru in your profile?)
I know that several people suffer from different "ailments" that can sometimes be frustrating to potential sex partners. I myself (female half) have rheumatoid arthritis, fibromyalgia and severe colitis - none of which have responded well (if at all) to treatment. These seemingly small (compared to being in a wheelchair) ailments can have a big impact on my sex life! I cannot always be trusted to show up at a party, and when I CAN, I'm often hurting so bad that "playing" is out of the question. When I DO play, I tire more quickly than I'd like, and certain positions are out of the question. Often, meeting for dinner is uncomfortable with the digestive "issues" that follow eating... etc. etc. So when we become friendly enough with people we might be interested in playing with, I have to be up-front and let them know what they're dealing with... even tho my problems may sound trivial, they're not to me, and they can and DO end up affecting my sexual performance and my social life, or lack thereof!
I don't like to say much, because to me it sounds like "whining" and the last thing I want to be is a whiner! However, we all need to realize that everyone has their own problems, obstacles, issues, etc and when we know what we're looking at, we can decide if it's going to be worth the effort to try and establish a sexual relationship. If people are aware of what you CAN do, they may be more willing to become involved. And if they're not willing to work with you and understand that you've got some limitations, but that you've still got alot going for you.. then you're probably better off without them. I hope that helps... And the very best of luck to you both! Hugz!
Church Swingers, are they out there? - - Google christian swingers and you will get a bunch of hits. Several years ago a Christian Swinger group put out a very good news letter. Have not heard much from them in a long time
How do you tell who is in Swingular??? - Free Swingular Indentification Key Chains!! - well I will give them out all week... to who ever wants one.. sorry about the drama uthot is right we are here to try and find other swingers and have fun uthot hope no hard feelings I just wanted to have some fun... hope you give away a lot of condoms use them with whom you give them to and have fun walt
I’m defense of single males - Funny old geezers - [quote=DELICIOUSLYWET][quote=PARTYINLV]We are in our sixth year on this site. We are also currently on three more sites, even after dropping two more. When we joined Swingular, we were taken aback from the negativity toward single guys. We did not see this this level of animosity on any other of the sites we are or were on.
Aside from the folks from Idaho and Wyoming (and very, very few nationwide), this site is predominately Utah based. I am not negatively judging Utah since a survey or research was never done, but we had to wonder if this hatred is a Utah thing. Or was it a few couples who made it seem normal to hate and everyone just jumped on the bandwagon? Human history has taught us that ostracizing is easier than accepting. Who knows? We certainly don't understand it.
Many couples correctly point out that single guys are not [b]"swingers"[/b] since they don't swap. But, we believe that single guys are part of the [b]"lifestyle"[/b] for many couples. Why is fmf ok, but mfm is not ok?
As a side note: The vast majority of our play is with couples(our preference). But we occasionally like mfm for the different dynamics it offers. We have been very lucky with mfm and haven't had a bad experience yet, which I cannot say is always true with every couple we've met.[/quote]
We live here. Our experience is that most couples do not hate single men. Most married men are not intimidated by the presence of single men. Most couples and singles whether super active or rarely active in the lifestyle don’t post anything in the forum section of this website. As is the case with so much on the internet, a few of us that do read or post in the forums, may give others the impression that we are a good general representation of the community’s mindset. Obviously we aren’t. What we read here is mostly just personal preferences. There are some thoughts expressed that we find interesting, sometimes enlightening. Sometimes people are just venting. Sometimes it’s angry venting stemming from personal experience. As for insecurities, we all have at least a few.[/quote]
Perhaps I am just mistaking the complaints I see in forums on the home page as a reflection of the general attitude here
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