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Policing Ourselves - Can it be done? - Oleman, I'm going to disagree with you. I speed now and then. I don't always wear my seatbelt (law here). I might even steal a grape from the supermarket when doing my grocery shopping. But when it comes to other people, respecting them, respecting their boundaries, I am very attentive to the rules, spoken and unspoken. I have been violated. I would never turn around and treat another in a way that I know is harmful or degrading. I would think it is very reasonable to assume that people act like decent human beings. Swingers or not.. Ali

Vegas: Swingers circle or couples oasis? - Which do I prefer - Never been to swinger circle. We were told about couples oasis when we lived in Vegas by other locals. WD have been to the green door , red rooster and couples oasis. And out of all three couples oasis was the one I liked the best. It is the only one that does not allow single guys. Nothing against them but in that kind of setting they tend to give off that creepy feeling. Anyways it kinda like the manor there is a cover and it would is BYOB. There's a bar with a dance floor. Pool tables with a snack area. A group play area and some private play areas also a outdoor pool. During the summer I think they have pool parties on Sunday. Out of the 3 it is the only one I would go back to.

In need of advice - sexual - [quote=ANDRAYWAY_SHANAYNAY]I just have to say it amazes me how judgmental swingers can be... you would think from the outside looking in that they wouldn't be. [/quote] Not judging just yet, I do that and make a fool of myself more than I want to admit. But in this case I am trying to see something real.. Have you considered he might be a single male posing as married? We have seen that a few times over the years. My point is there is no one to validate him or his story. When we have differences of opinions or ask for advice on the site we recognize who we are talking about and can respect or have some faith in what they are saying. I believe if your going to talk about a specific person in a negative way on a forum they should have the right to see it and defend themselves.

Going out on a limb... - - I'm not sure that what I am about to say has anything to do with this thread, but I am beyond pissed right now and I feel the need to vent... so here goes. Why do single males have a hard time? On another swingers site, a section of our profile states.. "Please be discreet when sending us a Yahoo instant message." There's nothing worse then having a message pop up on the screen that says "YOUR WIFE HAS GREAT TITS ARE YOU INTERESTED IN A HUNG SINGLE MALE?" While showing off your vacation pictures to visiting relatives, friends, etc." So what happens.... a message just like that pops up. I type back and say "Why would you send a message like that?" "Do you have any clue who is looking at this computer screen right now?" I get back... "I'm on [swinger site name] and I like your pics... do you want to meet?" I point out where it states being discreet on the IM and I add "What the hell is wrong with you sending messages like that?" Here's what I get back.... "WELL YOU'RE THE ONE LETTING STRANGE GUYS FUCK YOUR WIFE" Now we've played with many single guys... and I know that many many many are really nice and intelligent and mature.... but this one really set you all back several notches.... It just isn't worth it when I'm clued in to the mind set that exists among a percentage of you.

Meeting new swingers? - Where to meet them? - We would agree that the net is a good place to look. We live in a small town and were surprised to find out how many people were into the lifestyle here. We have talked to three couples so far, and never expected there to be any results at the outset of our little search.

Lingo - - AC/DC Person who enjoys both same sex and opposite sex sexual activity; Bi; Bisexual. ADULT Euphemism for pornographic. ALL CULTURES Person or couple who enjoys all fetishes and sexual activities (see CULTURE) AMERICAN CULTURE Man on top, the missionary position. ANAL SEX Anal intercourse; see Greek, Greek Culture. ANALINGUS Oral contact or stimulation of the anus of one partner by kissing, licking, or sucking of the other. ANIMAL TRAINING Sexual activity with animals, usually dogs and women; Bestiality ARTS Euphemism for fetishes; Cultures B&D or B/D Bondage and discipline; use of various methods to restrain someone while administering discipline, usually done by a "master" to his/her "slave". (see BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE) BBW Big Beautiful Woman; Referring to women that may not be their ideal weight, but are still very attractive. BHM Big Handsome Man; Referring to men that may not be their ideal weight, but are still very handsome. BESTIALITY (see ANIMAL TRAINING) BI Bisexual: Versatile(see AC/DC) BI-CURIOUS A Male or Female who is interested in trying same-sex activities. BIZARRE Unusual sexual desires BONDAGE A sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie or hold a participating sexual partner. The person doing the binding is considered "dominant" while the person being bound is considered "submissive." CAN ENTERTAIN Advertiser willing to invite others to their home for swinging. CAN TRAVEL Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing. CANING A spanking fetish employing a light cane usually bamboo or other light wood. CHEATING Sexual activity with others without spouse's knowledge and/or consent. CLEAN Hygienic; Free of sexually transmitted diseases. CLOSED DOOR (see CLOSED SWINGING) CLOSED SWINGING Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms, usually in the same house. Provides a maximum of privacy. CLOSET SWINGER A person who hides the fact that he/she is a swinger. (see DISCREET) COUPLE In swinging, a man and a woman. May be married, living together (cohabitating), committed (on going relationship) or a single couple dating for swinging purposes. CPL (see COUPLE) CUCKOLD While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband who's wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition. CULTURE Euphemism for Fetish or Arts. CUNNILINGUS Stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by the mouth especially the tongue and lips, and sometimes the teeth (see FRENCH CULTURE) DILDO An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic, for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the anus. DIRECTOR The term used to describe the principal person who runs or otherwise operates a swing club, generally the owner. A person who works for the director and is responsible for party or club operation whether or not for pay, is generally called a Manager. DISCIPLINE A sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the other, a willing participant. Often includes physical punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from physical restraint to mild spankings to painful beatings. DISCREET OR DISCRETION Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging activity. DOCILE Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline (see SUBMISSIVE). DOMESTIC TRAINING Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate and humiliating nature. DOMINANT A sexual partner in control of a willing submissive partner. ENGLISH CULTURE: Sexual stimulation from spanking or caning ENTERTAIN (see CAN ENTERTAIN) EXHIBITIONIST Behaviour in which an individual experiences sexual arousal or pleasure from displaying his/her body. Enjoys being watched. F Female FELLATIO Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth. FETISH Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual objects, actions or non-genital anatomy. FLAGELLATION Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking. FRENCH CULTURE: Oral-genital sexual activity; see Fellatio, Cuntilingus FUN AND GAMES Euphemism for sexual activity. GAY A homosexual person, male or female. A gay female may also be called a Lesbian. GBM Gay Black Male GENEROUS Refers to money for sex. GREEK CULTURE: Anal-penile intercourse GROUP ROOM Room set aside for group sex, generally furnished with wall-to-wall mattresses or pads. Term is prevalent in western US (see MATROOM). GROUP SEX Swinging; Sexual activity between three or more people. GWM Gay White Male HARD CORE A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction is assumed and expected. HARD SWINGING (see HARD CORE) HEAD Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see French) HEDONIST Someone who lives for pleasure. HETEROSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex. HOMOSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. (See GAY) HORNY Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure. HUNG Refers to a man with a large penis. HWP Height-Weight Proportionate; Someone who is at their ideal body weight. INDOOR Swinging activities in general INDOOR SPORTS (See INDOOR) INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional and recreational values. IRL In Real Life; Used in ads or online chat ISO In Search Of; Used in ads; MWC ISO Single Female LEATHER A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing or touching of leather or leather garments. LESBIAN A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women. (see GAY) LTR Long Term Relationship MARITAL AIDS Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others. MASOCHISM Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation from others. MASTER/SLAVE Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship. (see B&D, BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE) MATROOM Room set aside for group sex. Principally an eastern US term (see GROUP ROOM). MEET FOR PLEASURE Will meet for swinging sex; no pretense for social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. MENAGE A' TROIS Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in a swinging interaction. (see THREESOME, TRIAD) MORESOMES More than three people in a swinging interaction. (see GROUP SEX) MBC Married Black Couple MBiC Married Bisexual Couple MWC Married White Couple NASCA The North American Swing Club Association. An association of swing clubs and magazines to promote swinging as the viable and beneficial lifestyle it has become. Levels of members: Affiliate Club, General, Associate and Institutional for swing clubs and magazines, general swinging community, media and institutions of learning and research. NEWCOMERS New people in swinging; First-timers. NONSMOKER Does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes. OFF-PREMISE No swinging takes place at the club or party; you meet and make your own arrangements. Great for newcomers. OPEN DOOR (see OPEN SWINGING) OPEN SWINGING A couple swinging with another couple in the same room; Several or all participating couples together in the same room. A minimum of privacy. ORAL-GENITAL (see FRENCH, CUNNILINGUS, FELLATIO, HEAD) ORGY Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room; Complete abscence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex. PARTY Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging. PARTY CLOTHES Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-arounds and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play. PARTY HOUSE (Western US) A non-membership swing club offering a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. PASSIVE Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. Docile and submissive in swinging. (see DISCIPLINE) PHOTO Interested in exchange of nude or sexually explicit photos of self with similar photos of others. PHOTOGRAPHY Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with similar photographs, slides or movies of others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs. P/P Photo and phone number (used in personal ads). PRO Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escorts. RECREATIONAL SWINGER A person who practices swinging primary as a recreational diversion; not interested in forming any long term friendship or emotional attachment. RESTRAINT Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments. ROMAN Group sex, orgies, the party scene, etc (see ROMAN CULTURE) ROMAN CULTURE: Sexual orgies RUBBER Condom means of contraception; sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D. SAFE Used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy; Naturally or surgically sterile. S.A.S.E. Self-addressed stamped envelope. SBF Single Black Female SBiF Single Bisexual Female SBM Single Black Male SGL (see SINGLE) S&M or S/M Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM). SINGLE A swinger without a partner, does not refer to marital status. SOCIAL A party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no swinging at a social, but privately arranged swinging may follow a social. SOCIAL SWING CLUB A swing club, generally private membership that offers social and swinging activities including a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. They may also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples though the marital status of the couple is rarely important. SODOMY Non-coital, especially anal or oral, copulation with either an opposite sex or same sex partner. SOFT SWINGERS Couples who only have intercourse with their own partner. No swapping for intercourse. SOFT SWINGING The term used to describe same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples some type of soft-swinging. (see HARD SWINGING, HARD CORE). SRS Same Room Sex (see SOFT SWINGING). STD Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many. These social and moral implications interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem. STR or STR8 (see STRAIGHT) STRAIGHT Any person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or A person who does not use drugs; also used by swingers to denote non-swinging people. SUBMISSIVE Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive) SWAPPING Two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity. SWEDISH CULTURE: Use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate another SWF Single White Female SWING MAGAZINE A periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of general interest to the swinging community. SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners; single men and women are sometimes involved. SWINGING LIFESTYLE Style of living with swinging a major component in recreation, choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships. SWINGING MARRIAGE Marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals. SWM Single White Male TAN Tested Antibody Negative for HIV virus(AIDS) THREESOME Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a swinging encounter. (see Menage a Trois) TICKET A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the male to gain entrance. The ticket generally has no intention to swing or is not free to swing. TOYS Sexual aids (see MARITAL AIDS) TRANSEXUAL Individual who has undergone conversion from one gender to another through surgery and hormone treatments; or one who is in the process of gender conversion TRANSVESTITE A person who receives sexual gratification by wearing clothes identified with the opposite sex; not necessarily homosexual. TRAVEL (see CAN TRAVEL) TRIAD Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome. TRIOLISM Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD) TUBAL LIGATION Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian tubes to make a woman infertile. Also called a Band Aid Operation in reference to the small incision made just below the navel to enable the cutting and ligation. UTOPIAN SWINGER A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals. VASECTOMY Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens to artificially sterilize a male. VERSATILE Bisexual. (see AC/DC) VIBRATOR Electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another. VOLUPTUOUS Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips. VOYEUR A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts. VOYEURISM Sexual gratification by watching or peeping at others engaged in sexual activity. WAY-OUTS/ WEIRDOS Those people interested in activities usually considered by the majority to be bizarre, kinky, unusual, or unconventional. Hope this helps :)_

Curious Question - - Mogar, You have just described the lifestyle as it should be and is in many parts of the country... not just UT. It does seem, however, that the people on this site, particularly from UT are very very sexy. There must be someting in the water or that mormons are particularly good looking people... Might have to do with the survival of the fittest.... A long and perilous journey out there and then setting up and getting things started in the wilderness... Only the best genes survive, I guess. Hat off to UT... Sexy women.. I think that many areas, besides UT, are very hot beds of swinging activity.. OHIO, NC, WV, PA is comming out as a hot area.. FL and there are several areas of concentration in FL...Different areas of NY state all seem to have large contingents of swingers... From all of the activity that we see thru various sites, it would seem that swinging is on the rise everywhere.

Was it all our fault that... - - ...Moroni got hit by lightning yesterday? [img]http://img.ksl.com/slc/2591/259143/25914376.JPG[/img] [img]http://pbs.twimg.com/media/CjGSq3UUoAAINev.jpg[/img] 1) Yup. We were VERY naughty at the party Sat. night. Sorry, Moroni. 2) It's not us swingers who are evil, it's all that gay marriage and war on Christmas stuff. 3) OMG, that's the funniest thing I've seen all day. 4) That does it. We're confessing and going back to church...just as soon as we have the gang bang we're planning for our birthdays. 5) Actually I'm 100% shocked I haven't been struck by lightning yet! 6) (Insert apocalyptic end of the world scripture here) 7) Why couldn't it have hit the capital rotunda...while the legislature was in session? 8) I KNEW I should have given up masturbating for Lent. 9) Oh well, they'll likely put up a statue of Donald Trump there now anyway.

searching for... - - hummmm just so we dont get crucified for diferent aspects of this post we will kinda poll first to see if the majority is open to the vanilla aspect in witch it is conveyed..... I grew up in utah brighamcity.. then i moved to live with other relatives in eden (above ogden for those who dont know).... we lived on a dairy farm and were a close family... yes LDS.. not to mix or go pro or con... but that was how it is.... to the point.. I am in search of the siblings i grew up with... they may or may not still live in utah... probably ogden.. clearfield area.... to my knowledge not swingers but i havent seen them or had contact for about 25 years....So who knows... but the main point there is enuf peeps from the northern utah on this site someone will know them if they are still in the area... wether it be friends, co workers or in the same ward. question is are we going to be crucified for mentioning their names on here (even tho its not sexually related) as a attempt to locate them? Dennis

Jewellery, logos, etc to identify other swingers - We would like info on websites catering to discreet items to let others "know" we are in the lifestyle - Another site, SDC sends its members a pin with a butterfly and SDC on it. If there is another around we will sure know it. :-)