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Best swingers club for a 26m/36f couple - - [quote=Utahldscouple]Agree with you on this! Flirts definitely depends on the night and if you went when it was newer it may have been that way. Still a little older crowd but when we went last time we had to wait to use a bed/room![/quote]
Maybe we will have to give it another go
lost with people - florida wanna be swingers - ok now that i have everyone in florida looking around ...i have been here for a lil bit but i have noticed that it's all about pic's and / or club... are we swingers or advertisment ,, this is really getting old for me i have been a memeber on other groups and this is not what i paid for .. i add people to my friends list because i feel we have the same interest ... but yet i have had no e-mails or at least a meeting or anything but been added to there friends list ..sorry to be so harsh but we are not here to just be on a list ... no we are not ken and barbie ... but we do know how to have fun even .. tho i work 7 days a week ... i dont have time for games ,, it's either u want to play or u dont ... figure out what u are and stop playing games .. to those who are like us i am sorry for being so blunt but i have had enought of the kid's games ... if anyone is really interested in who we are please send a message to us because it's seems to me it's all about pic's and who can put who down the most or make them feel like they r someone and then blow them out the water and not use thier lips...i am vary up frunt and say things the way i feel if u can't handle it i guess u should be here and should be somewhere else
sorry for those who are here for the real thing and just wanting to find that specail friend , but those of u who r here to play game and try to be a player i have some words for that i wont put here but u know what i want to say ....
thanks for everyones times
tezzinanplezzin
aka : jason and beth
Shower Time Pics - Let's See Your Shower Pics - JJSEXYTIME said:
"Hmmm... what kind of fun makes you all need a shower afterwards???"
Glitter bombs? Won't work. You'll NEVER completely get rid of glitter. It's the herpes of craft supplies and the scourge of swingers the world over. [em]Emo_8[/em]
Black Rings - Do Swingers really? - We heard Garden Gnomes are a sign of swingers …. Hmm I wonder if any of our neighbors suspect anything hehe.
Help us out.. Take this Survey - For Utah Swingers - Not done. God I hate multiple choice tests. Is there a time limit? [em]Emo_8[/em]
(pssst! what did you all get for question number seven?)
what the f#%@ was he thinking? - swingers still deserve respect - Well, ya gotta admit your wife has a FINE ass so I can see what set this perv off ...but yeah, that's fucked up!
Evil
Polyamory - Pro's and con's of Polyamory - Friends with benefits are friends who sometimes have sex together.
Swingers might be friends, or not, swinging is an encounter based on sex with multiple partners where everyone knows.
Polyamory is about long-term loving relationships with multiple people and these typically include sex.
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=FWB
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=swinger
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Polyamory
Yes, they're very close to each other.
Single Males - - [quote=EVILDOERS]
...get a girl to join you....Not only do you now "bring more to the table", but you have the added credibility that if you can find and finesse a girl into joining you in this little adventure we call swinging (whether it be a girlfriend, a wife, a second cousin twice removed, or just a hot fwb) you might just not be a giant douchecopter.[/quote]
Ignoring the need to "finesse" someone and unhealthy gender stereotypes in general, this line of reasoning is a little troubling as it presumes that a male's company is inherently worth less. Or that an absence of semi-romantic relationships somehow speaks poorly of his character. I personally think approaching someone whom you aren't already fairly close with and soliciting to go to a swingers party is a bit out of line. Especially if her company is sought as an accessory to demonstrate to others that he is not, as you say, “a douchecopterâ€. Call me old-fashioned.
[quote=EVILDOERS]
I know we can't be the only people who secretly wonder just a little bit about some single guys and why they aren't with somebody. Do they secretly hate women (yes, we've met some that actually do), are they just too lazy (or busy, maybe...but hey, we're all busy) to find someone, are they serial killers and/or just not very nice guys? [/quote]
Oh, I hope you are! That's a really unfortunate outlook to have. Promising relationships take time to find, let alone build to the requisite amount of trust and stability to try things like this. In the mean time, I don't see anything wrong with someone pursuing their interests while still holding out for someone worthy of their emotional investment. To me, that behavior is quite attractive should be respected! It doesn't get any better than someone who is confident, self-actualized, and motivated to pursue their desires. Sadly, it sounds their gender influences whether this is seen as a desirable trait.
I'm not sure how long you've been out of things (30 years?), but it's easy to forget the struggle when you're comfortable in a marriage. Things are more fluid. People don't feel the need to settle down like they used to.
[quote=EVILDOERS]I know many will say they've tried and swinging is a deal breaker for most women. After almost 3 decades in the swinging trenches meeting and talking to other people, both couples and singles, we would disagree....many, if not most, women could eventually come around to the idea of swinging once they feel safe and secure in a relationship.[/quote]
This is just confirmation bias if the evidence comes from a sample of people you have met while swinging.
[quote=EVILDOERS]...those of us who DID put in all the blood, sweat, and tears into a relationship and allow it to grow to the point of daring (don't think for a second we aren't risking a LOT in opening up our relationships to other people!) to allow others access to our significant other sometimes wonder why some others want to take a shortcut to all the sweet swinging bennies with little or no risk on their own part.[/quote]
If you're not comfortable sharing your wife with someone you might view as a potential competition, you definitely don't have to. On the other hand, there are a lot of people enjoy it :) This smacks of the old “you must suffer as I did†chestnut.
Game ON....which sign is Hornier...(is that a word?) - zodiac signs of swingers? - Gemini here
Vaccine - Do you take vaccine status into account when deciding who to play with. - [quote=Farkeltwins]Wow, we were under the impression that swingers were smart progressive people but this thread has educated us. It appears that some swingers are racists, knuckle draggers, selfish and just plain stupid. Please keep posting comments as it has been very helpful to us on what we want and don't want![/quote]
In our experience, most swingers ARE "smart progressive people" but, alas, we're not a homogenous group. Think of this thread as a sort of 'canary in the coal mine' in that it is not only giving you a heads up but saving you a LOT of time sorting thru a somewhat large group of people to point the way towards those you are most likely to get along with and possibly even eventually want to see naked. [em]Emo_12[/em]
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