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Habits + Candi - Missed connection with couple at Habits months back - Checked out Habits on a whim and met Candi. I found out later it was a swingers place and this led me to check out swingular. If you remember a tall, young, dark hair, and handsome guy dancing with you on the dance floor hit me up. I would like to reconnect. You were wearing a short skirt and enjoyed flashing everyone.
Kik group for UT swingers. - Contact me if your interested in joining a KIK group for Swingers - Boulder0622 -we’d love to join! Brand new and excited to get to know more people.
Alaska Swingers - - Finding men in Alaska should be easy since they outnumber the women about 15 to 1. Finding couples might be harder and single women will be nigh unto impossible.
What sets you apart from other swingers - Lets see whos looking for what. - He eats pussy so long and so good at the last party, the whole place was applauding the gal screamed so loud when she came he felt like he was on stage. What sets my wife above the rest simple, she is just so much fun when she role plays "Dominatrix Style" the people at the party's we go to beg for her to role play bug her all night till she gives in. To be honest, nothing makes us any different than the rest we simply are in the lifestyle to have fun so we do whatever it takes to make that happen when it is no longer fun then we will go back to just us but for now we have only one question "who's next" fun cpls apply within lol.
Norm&Sharon
BUSTED! Your Kids Found Out Your Swingers. Now What? - - IMO, you wouldn't explain yourself about your monogamous "vanilla" sex life or activities, so why would you about this?
The subject of this thread was about your kids finding out. I'm not sure what age group of kids we're talking about and that can make a big difference. If they are adult children, you can simply tell them you are sorry they had to find out about it and regret that it makes them uncomfortable but it is your private life and will leave it there...in private. I think it is wise to reassure them that you will not do anything to embarrass them (start acting differently around them or other family members, etc.) and that nothing between you and them will change. Before they found out you were still the parent they loved and this will continue now.
If they are young children, it can be a little more complicated. The questions aren't just about the lifestyle but also about sex since they are probably learning and curious about the topic in general. But, you could keep it very simple (& age appropriate) and explain that sex is something adults enjoy privately and that if they have any questions about sex (emphasis not on swinging) you will be happy to answer.
If they pursue asking about swinging, I would just share that this is something better explained when they are a little older and that honesty and communication are valued so you will try to be as honest as you can be. However, you don't need to go into detail IMO. Often, kids are looking more for your reaction and some reassurance and aren't quite as concerned with the actual "words". They want to know their world isn't being disrupted.
The rest of your post mentioned family members, etc. Again, you would never feel obligated sit around and discuss the details of a vanilla sex life so it isn't necessary to discuss the details of swinging.
You could share that if someone has a private question they would like to ask they can if that's the kind of relationship you have with them. But, you can also add that you will only do so if comfortable.
I might stress or emphasize that you and your partner have an open and honest relationship that you enjoy together. There are a number of factors that go into enhancing that relationship making it so special and that they've stumbled onto one area that you've incorporated/explored. You appreciate that it might not be for everyone and you wouldn't expect everyone to understand but that you sincerely hope they would also be as considerate to not judge the two of you. I might add that while you've tried to be candid when answering their questions, you only ask in return that they respect your privacy and not share what they've learned or discussed with anyone else. Include them into the agreement by explaining that you will extend to them the same discretion they extend to you.
Who knows...one of them may have been curious about exploring the lifestyle and you might just be that one person they feel comfortable asking about it.
At the same time, people can be very judgemental so protect yourselves. However these family members found out...it could happen again if that avenue hasn't been fixed. I'm sorry this got so long-winded and I could write so much more. Whew!!! Good luck with this!
Looking to establish a group of safe swingers - - If my profile interests you, I am in
single male's showing on cam - curious on what you think - my initial thought is,what does it matter who shows what. this is a swingers site
Public display/playing - Playing in public places - [quote=JIMBOUT]I really enjoy playing in public places. A lot of people talk about it, but do they actually do it?[/quote]
By "playing" I assume you mean fucking? Have ya tried Temple Square? DEF a bucket list item for swingers who like to live dangerously! [em]Emo_49[/em]
International Swingers Day - How are you celebrating? - Love the family thang!!!!
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - K_T, hmmm...now I can't wait to see what you and Mr. Two come up with, though remember Mrs. K_T and I probably have a few really good ideas of our own too ;)
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