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Playing Alone - - Couples all have different rules. Many categorically refuse to play alone with ANYONE ever. This is their "security" place. They feel comfortable in the place where they can see each other and "protect" if necessary. It takes some people a long time to get passed this.
It's kind of a 'control' thing leftover from the vanilla life. I'm not saying it's bad, good or indifferent it's just the way it is. Some people take longer to get passed their histories as vanillas than others. As they progress and get more comfortable with themselves, the lifestyle, their partners then they will slowly open up and begin to trust a bit more.
Don't take it personally, that's the key. Many people still hang on to their vanilla background that their partners are their most 'valued' possession. I liken it to my $450 deep sea fishing reel. Sure I'll loan it to someone to use if I'm on the boat with them and can make sure they're taking care of it. Is there anyone I'd just let 'borrow' it out right for the day or weekend? Not a chance in hell.
It takes time to let go of that 'she's/he's mine' get feeling. I think my wife and I took almost 6 years before we got there successfully. We tried many times before that but it never worked out well for either of us. We finally came to a point where it's okay to play separately everything from next room to next state it no longer bothers us. I personally prefer within 30 - 50 miles so she get's home faster for the "after play" sex you're describing (which I really like too.)
You'll have to find a VERY secure, VERY established, VERY strong couple to fulfill your fantasy. They are out there, my wife and I for example but even though we're open to playing separately are we open to YOU playing with her or me separately? That's a different level of trust. Does it mean no? No. It means "maybe" in time it's a possibility. (I'm speaking hypothetically of course.)
Don't worry your "couple" or "person" will come along. You might also try investigating a subsection of the lifestyle called "hotwifeing" while I know few swingers who are hardcore into only hotwifing, there are quite a few that tip toe in that part of the lifestyle (quick def, she plays he doesn't except with her.) That's the post play joy for you and the play and post play joy for her. Most people just bounce between that and swinging. There are people out there just be patient and don't expect it from any current playmates that you have established rules with, they need to progress at their own speed.
Now that you're one of them there fancy swingers... - - [quote=DELICIOUSLYWET]Has swinging become too popular and become passe?
Oh, and fuck Crispy Cremes.....Banbury Cross all the way Evil. [/quote]I think fucking doughnuts is another thread.
Exotic Dreams Resort and Hotel in Palm Spring - - [quote=TRIZZLE]My wife and I are just exploring the idea of engaging in the lifestyle but haven't quite yet. Would a resort like this be a good place to "watch from a distance" amd maybe meet and chat with others in a similar situation?[/quote]
You can absolutely go to a resort and "watch". When we went to Hedo we were shocked at how many total newbies were there (outnumbered the seasoned swingers 2 to 1...but that could have been an anomaly for all we know). But we also saw more than a few inexperienced couples who caused some drama because they got there, got all hot and bothered, and weren't ready for the consequences (and weren't on the same page as far as the "what if's" of jumping into the lifestyle). YMMV
Male anal stimulation - - And some wonder why the norms of the world call swingers perverts. There a lot of women that don
Secret Swingers Club Ogden, UT - Clubs - The bar is called unspoken, but I can't find ANYTHING on it.
Big Love - - OUR favorite as well. THe only wife we don't like is Nikki (or however it's spelled). The new lady in Bill's life is really looking promising. Really like the look of her but also her personality. Shame this is the last round for the show....
What happened to the show about swingers..."SWINGTOWN". That was just getting interesting... I wish that HBO or the like would pick it up and run with it. Not only is/was it about swingers but it is/was a good story line/s as well.
Las Vegas - Swingers clubs ect. - [quote=Utahldscouple][quote=WOWMAMA69]If you're adventurous there's always The Green Door or the Red Rooster.[/quote]If you mean by adventurous you’ll have PTSD trying to get the images out of your head 😂, then yes by all means go! If you like to watch extremely sexy couples and women have sex and potentially participate, go to flirtslv or playhouselv. [/quote]
What happens at those places? Never been
Identifying Swingers! - Lots of talk and now some action! :) - I thought the necklace was beautiful & bought one the night of the christmas party. I have people ask me about it & where i got it. I'm glad that you put this up. Thanks..
swingin - thought this site was a swingers site - when i signed up for this site i thoguht it said it was a swingers site to meet different people and enjoy life, more and more i am here seems to be about everything but swing, other r here to meet others with same interests sex, friendship and things like that, not to discuss things to bring u down if i wanted that i would watch the news all the time,
am i the one that feels this way
bring on the comments
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - yeah we know ,,been there done that,,same here,,
but some are better at puting it in words,then others
and there spelling ant perfect along with there grammer.
but that does not make them a bad person..
we have seen single men but we like to pick them,
not the other way around,,
and will you ublock me as im not quoting emails in the forum anymore lol
Alton
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