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How Old Is Old - - hey blueeyes, from our perspective at least, we think you are probably right and probably wrong at the same time!!! . . . you are right about being in the minority relative to the kind words offered by most in this post, but we really believe you are also part of the vast majority of swingers who use age as a primary basis for discrimination . . . kind of a strong opinion we suppose, except that we can see at least 4 different ways anyone can pretty easily check for age discrimination providing some basis for that opinion . . . BUT, before we go into all of that, please understand that we realize that everyone is entitled to discriminate in any way they see fit . . . in fact, discrimination is not just ok, it is absolutely necessary!!! . . . you see, no one has enough time to sample from every cup (sigh!!!), so everyone has to establish discriminating criteria . . . and, for sure, we're NOT feelin' sorry for ourselves; we realize it's just part of the deal . . . there is one more thing to mention before listing ways to check for age discrimination: we think there is a pretty easy and logical answer for the OP . . . those tired of reading already, can skip to the bottom and get that opinion . . . however, we kinda hope peeps continue reading 'cause, sooner or later, age is an issue everyone will face . . . so, how does one check for age discrimination??? . . . try this: pick any population center (like slc) . . . open a bunch of profiles in that population from different age groups (say, 30's, 40's, 50's, and beyond) . . . record the number of times each profile was "recently viewed" (ya know, that little statistic conveniently provided by swingular) . . . then, simply compare the numbers for the different age groups . . . if your sample is big enough, you will see profile interest decreases with age . . . if you don't want to do the math, just talk with folks of all ages and ask them what they see . . . i know many (most???) complain like crazy about email (but somehow, everyone seems ok with tweeting, texting, facebooking, etc - - - hmmm???) . . . and, shit, there is always face-to-face (omg!!!) . . . so anywho, find an acceptable way to communicate, just ask, and keep track of what people say . . . we've done that to some extent, without any surprises . . . (although this method takes a bit more time, it has the added benefit of allowing you to connect with others) . . . another way to look for age discrimination centers on visiting other swing sites . . . we won't mention those competitors, 'cause we don't want to upset swingular management . . . but, hey, most all of us know where to look anyhow . . . in our experience, virtually all other sites list age preferences inside each profile . . . so, open a bunch of 'em and note age preferences . . . if your sample is big enough, you will see that there is almost no interest in those beyond 55 . . . it's almost like a cliff, and that somehow, sex, sensuality, desirability, etc, have an expiration date . . . we would like to think that it really depends on the individuals involved . . . and finally, there is an acid test: simply stick around the lifestyle . . . sooner or later, you will have a personal verification of the age discrimination issue . . . btw, we hope you do stick around, and we hope you have a great time doing it . . . so, how old is too old??? . . . we simply believe you are too old when finding suitable partners becomes too hard . . . what is "too hard" and who is "suitable" will vary for everyone, so the chronological marker for every swinger will be a bit different . . . but, the bottom line is the same: you are too old when this business gets too hard . . . btw, we certainly hope our time doesn't come too soon!!! . . . cheers!!! . . .

Swingers gone bad?? - - We agree these people are not swingers and should not be even close to the class of swingers.

weight approperate - - We have been in the lifestyle together for 10 years now and couples not being up front about just wanting to play with the wife alone has always been a problem with us. We let people know upfront we only play together. Now on the weight subject...We advertise ourselves unashamedly about being a BBW/BHM couple. We also let people know if its Ken and Barbie they want they need to move on down to the next profile. We have played with HWP couples as well as with Big Beautiful Couples like ourselves. The HWP couples we have played with in the past have been amazed at our level of inhibition and sensuality. In short it was an eye opener for them...Big people can be very sexual. One thing we have noticed is that lifestyle web sites, magazines and clubs seem to perpetuate the Barbie and Ken mystique. How often on a swinger web site have you seen a BBW, BHM of even a BBC on their front page? The same goes for magazines and advertising for clubs and lifestyle conventions and events. Even here on Swingular we have yet to see even a featured member that is a person or couple of size. In our humble opionion it's something swingers media needs to address. Our whole take on the topic is this...If your mind is so closed that you can not see beyond exteriors then its your loss. We started a Yahoo group called Big Beautiful Couples and Ladies a couple years ago with the idea that if membership grew large enough maybe organizing an event similar to Lifestyles or Hedonism II. Though the membership is small we still have the passion for the idea of a convention with Big Beautiful People as the primary attendees. We are still checking to see if there is a similar group here on Swingular and if not we'll be getting it rocking and rolling. If we want people in the lifestyle to be more accepting of size (both women & men) we have to learn to be our own best advocates. Have an erotic day Howie & Susie

Destiny's June 24th Birthday Party for Tammy-the hostess - On-premise swingers basement parties at Destiny's Basement - Hello All, It's a Birthday Bash for the hostess, Tammy, at Destiny's Basement tonight, so come and enjoy all the fun and festivites with the rest of us, and get to meet couples from all over the world. I have a couple coming from Britain that will be partying with us tonight, and they are really excited to be able to meet the group. The party starts up at 8pm, it's BYOB, and I have a small 4 x 8 foot wading pool to relax in under the sunroom, if you like. There is a small door donation for each gathering. The address for the party is: 1028 Williamson Chapel Road, Maryville, Tenn., 37801 You're welcome to google it from your place to mine for directions. Check out the web site for more information about our gatherings through-out the month and year...http://www.webspawner.com/users/destinyssocials/index.html http://www.webspawner.com/users/destinytw39/index.html Hope to see you there tonight. Take Care, Play Safe, and Enjoy Life. Your friend and hostess, Tammy

S#!% swingers say - - CDI is awesome. They've made some really funny stuff over the years. Of course this one is the first and the best. [video]http://youtu.be/FKkCyVPju1k[/video]

WTH over? - Private picture debacle. - So we recently did a post on bareback and cumming in strangers. 😉. Hot, we know. And we have to say WOW! Thanks for all of the incredible messages and forum posts. I don’t think we’ve received that much mail in a long time. We’re flattered. But to the subject of this post we have to ask. And here goes. Why? Why oh why oh why do couples and/or singles have private pictures when they are the same thing as your public pictures? If we add or accept a couple, that means we are interested and like what we read and saw in your public posts and pics and now want to see the rest of you. If it’s nothing else to look at then honestly what’s the point? You are swingers. Stop being shy and show yourselves. If you’re truly worried about “your job” or others seeing you than maybe you’re in the wrong place? We don’t say that to be snarky. But I’m pretty sure your conservative neighbor or corporate manager won’t be viewing your profile. And if they do than they’ll want you to be just a discreet as you expect others to be right? Show those beautiful mugs! Let us see who we’re courting. We’re looking to share our spouses in the most intimate of encounters and we’re not meeting up in the hopes that we are attracted. Don’t be shy. We don’t bite. Ok we may nibble a little bit we don’t bite. Show yourselves or we’re calling the swing police. Next is the requests with no pics or single males with no pics. Two words. Nope - Delete. End of story. If you have nothing to show or share we’re not here to provide entertainment for your impending jerk off session. Buy a flesh light and some lube and go away. 😉 To those with the beautiful spreads (pictures and pussies) we thank you. And for taking the time to write some very nice messages. We will be answering everyone. If you don’t hear back than that’s usually a good sign that you’re just not our type. Nothing personal. But I think that’s how most people do it. We can say no thanks but that feels harsh so we avoid it. But so far we’ve seen pretty much all good. Yay! I can say there are some gorgeous couples on here. We really look forward to possibly meeting some of you. Or meating some of you. Either or. But seriously, we’re excited to meet some new friends. And then violate them in the most licentious sort of way. 😘. Thanks for sharing and being vulnerable with us regarding a real delicate subject. We’re blown away by the honesty and all the like minds. Now let’s all have some kinky fun!!! K & A.

lost with people - florida wanna be swingers - I will add my bit for what its worth.........we will answer any email that comes our way but if you simply ADD us to your friends list without even a comment we dont even consider a reply, we simply delete it without even opening or looking at the pics.

Tooele swingers party december - Looking to meet other local swingers and have some party fun - So weve decided to try and host one on the 14th since it will be easier being further away from the holidays. So tge party will be on the 14th of dec. Let us know if your interested. Couples only at the moment. There will be no theme or anything. Just good ol' fashion fun ;-).

BiCouple2018 - Texas Swingers? - Anyone from Texas in here? Looking to meet new people.

We have heard about it many times........... - Couples that are swingers - It's unfortunate that you've had this happen to you, and apparently twice with the same couple, no less? While unfortunate, it's also par for the course. Perhaps one of the most cliche and over-used phrases we see appear on profiles is "drama free", and we always take that with a grain of salt. The truth is there is no such thing as 100% drama or issue-free couples. Even if they insist on their drama-free status, we also realize that we are all human, and these things are bound to happen from time to time. The key is not to find the ideal couple but to find the couple that deals with life (swinging) ideally. Find couples that are efficient and adept at dealing with issues between themselves, and are not so selfish to let things get as far as the bedroom before unresolved issues they have in regards to swinging arise during play. We've had a few situations like that...and they've always been deal-breakers for us. We simply don't have fun if we have to work that hard at making something happen. However, as a consequence, we've become very successful at filtering and weeding out those couples from the get-go. It's really not that challenging, because there is so much that you can read from people simply by observing them, their body language, how they interact with each other, how they compose themselves while you talk about a potential play dates with you, etc. Even if they're not inclined to be verbally honest up front with you two in a direct fashion, it's typically obvious in their behavior what their true expectations are. Asking direct questions about expectations has been mentioned and is always an excellent idea. We've found little things along the way that we take for granted as being non-issues for us are actually huge issues for other couples. Preferences for foreplay, whether or not kissing is allowed, and if so...kissing with tongue. What about oral, is that acceptable? You see, for us they are acceptable, but we must establish that they are with other couples. We've also found that more drama tends to be centered around the males in couples (sorry fellas). I'm not stereotyping here, but this has been our experience. We've had more than our fair share of guys that are ok with everything from girl on girl play, to my girl on him play, to both girls on him play, but once his gal plays one on one with another male besides him....oh Lord, the drama starts! Swinging has been one of the funnest decisions we've made, cuz we've made it that way, and we elect to avoid the drama at all costs, and that keeps things light and fresh. We know for every couple or bad experience we come across, there are 10 more good ones just around the corner. :) ~J~