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Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - [quote=ISSUE152]The couple times I've done it, I've had such a better time the more I knew the two guys, and j had that comfort level, that being said, I'm moving back to Utah and hopefully getting back into the swing, of things if anyone will have me?[/quote] We would love to have you
Creating an Amazing Swingers Profile - How to market yourself better - Maybe I'm just a dirty girl or something... but I like some junk pics! Not ALL junk pics, but a couple are good. I like to know what I'm getting into... or what's getting into me! ;)
Black Ring, Right Hand - How to tell if someone's a swinger - [quote=EVILDOERS]We used to go to the occasional lifestyle takeover/trip and would invariably be issued a wristband upon arrival so that we could get into events at the hotel or resort. It usually took about half a day for word to leak out, first among hotel employees and then later the general public, that swingers were around the area and that they could be identified by their wristbands. I guarantee if the black ring thing took off that very soon there would be multiple internet stories as well as likely regular news outlets that "swingers" wear black rings on their right hands and there goes any anonymity. The VAST majority of swingers would then not dare wear the accessory for fear of being seen/identified in public as a swinger. MUCH easier to just attend private swinging events where you have a reasonable assurance that all or most in attendance are indeed swingers rather than spend a lot of time cruising the bars or whatever looking for people wearing black rings. [em]Emo_67[/em] [/quote]
Yeah, i point this out every time this is brought up. As soon as the secret hand shake is out, it becomes useless.
I heard about the black ring, upside down pine4, flamingo, and white rocks almost twenty years ago, before I ever dreamt of considering swinging. (I keep seeing people say it was created recently, but it has been around for a long time).
Thing is, you can think you've got some kind of secret code, or secret meeting place, but the public already knows.
But if people want to wear black rings, I say go for it. Unfortunately, I still have to value discretion, so advertising of any kind in public won't be happening any time soon.
Do you mix your vanilla and lifestyle friends? - - Though I have to add that we have been to a few parties/bbq's where it has been mixed...never really turned out that well cuz everybody knows after a few drinks us swingers can't keep our hands to ourselves or our own partners...hehehe
sexy cities - favorite travel destinations - I thought about Vegas or Palm Springs.
But, Cap d'Agde in southern France is the place to go. It's a nude city. Everywhere you go, people are naked. It has also attracted a large community of lifestyle and swingers. 30,000 naked people! We're looking for travel buddies!
https://www.capdagdeguide.com/swingers/
what if I want to but he doesn't - - [quote=NU2THEGAME]the worst part is that I consider myself intelligent with good common sense, so why can't i repress this- why is this so important to me right now? my hormones are taking over my common sense!! don't want to ruin a marriage for a cheap thrill- but also know that sex is a very important part of a marriage... part of it i'm sure is that I've been with him since i was 14..... i know this.[/quote]
There are many little things that we all do without that do not really affect our lives to any degree. But sometimes the little things turn out to be really big things. I would say that you have found one of yours.
I sounds like you are telling us that you everything your husband wants sexually. But there is something you need that you are not getting sexually. We could guess as to what that is but it would not help to guess. You need to examine and define what it is that you are lacking. Otherwise all we can do is talk in generalities. Some people only feel safe when things are neatly defined and unchanging.
I think that most swingers will tell you that sexually we get into a rut or pattern with any lover and that for many of us that is like the end of life. Most will also tell you that this lifestyle helps to keep you feeling alive and part of the world. You learn knew things from different people and your world opens wider.
Marriage changes how many think or act. Why that is would take many pages off topic. A marriage like good government should be one of give and take and compromise. Once one side had decided not to compromise or find a solution that makes their partner happy, then they have decided that the marriage is no linger important.
As an example: A woman once told me that after marriage her husband only touched her once a year on a specific day. The rest of the time he was a cold fish. That is all he wanted and what she wanted did not matter. In a way that was sexual abuse of the worst magnitude. To choose a celibate life for one
LDS Swingers Survey - Will any former/active LDS swingers take my survey? - Done...guilty!!!!
Can you be in love AND swing? If so, tell us how! - - I guess I will make a much stronger response. The lifecoach is full of shit! My wife and I are both on second marriage and the previous ones fell apart because of cheating. It wasn't the sex it was the lies, the betrayal of trust. My wife and I love each other like crazy. Swinging is a recreational activity we could do without if we no longer like it. Even during swinging I am only sharing my wife's body, her heart belongs only to me and vise versa.
We didn't get into swinging to FIX anything. We got into it because we wanted to add to what is already great for us. It was not a replacement for something missing. our premise is making friends and if we have sex fine and if not we have a friend to do things with.
Also if anything swinging made me love my wife even more. Her love and trust for me cannot be affected even by me having sex with others. We have a couple of times swung (if that is the word) separately and she came back to tell me about it and did so with my knowledge that is what she was doing. And of course vise versa. We still trust each other and love each other. Plus while swinging I can see other men, or women, pleasing her and get a view of what she looks like from a different point of view than I have when making love to her.
As others have said, as long as you communicate, don't take things too personal, and maintain trust swinging will be fun and not hurt your relationship.
When I say don't take it personal I mean like one poster said you should be able to say "she give good head" or she is talented. LOL we had been with a guy in a threesome and the guy did something that I have never done and made the wife Cum really fast and hard. When she had recovered she blurt out without thinking "You have GOT to learn how to do that!!!!!"
It kind caught us both off guard but we laugh about it now. She didn't say "I love him more" She said "DAMN he has a technigue that send me through the roof!"
I have learned from the guy how to do it and have used the technique several times. Even if I can't duplicate it so what? She still LOVES what I do to her too. More importantly we still LOVE each other totally.
OK OK I willget off the soapbox. It just ticks me off that people who are supposed to be great at teaching relationships most of the time have relationships that suck yet they can tell you how to do it. BULL. Save the money for the LifeCoach and take a trip with a plane full of swingers and go to HEdonism III. It would be money better spent.
LOL I will quit now.
Any Swingers out there? Golf swingers that is... - - [quote=BLUEEYESINUTAH]Can I drive the cart...I tend to get distracted while playing games involving equipment long and hard. I don't play pool or baseball either. I will just be the ball girl. Wait. I'm not going all over chasing your balls. I will just hold onto the ones you're not using. xox Tammy[/quote]
I think if you held on to those, they'd get used...
swingers of ameriica is being work on - sorry it is taking solong - OK EVERYBODY THE SITE IS BACK UP . BUT WE STILL NEED A FEW MORE DAYS TO FINE TUNE THE CAM PART . SO PLEASE DONT ADD ANYTHING TO THE CAM PART RIGHT YET . WE WILL POST WHEN IT IS READY . BUT THE REST OF THE SITE IS GOOD TO GO .
I TOLD EVERYBODY DUE TO THE SITE BEING DOWN FOR THOSE TWO DAYS . THAT THEY WILL HAVE 48 HOURS TO BUY ANY ITEMS FOR AN EXTRA DOLLAR OFF EACH . BUT SINCE THE STORM CAME I KNOW ALOT OF PEOPLE ARE OUT OF POWER AGAIN AND ALL THAT STUFF . SO I WILL MAKE IT FOR A MONTH .SO ANYTHING U BUY U WILL GET A DOLLAR OFF AT TIME OF BUYING PLUS STILL GET YOUR DOLLAR OFF COUPON FOR THE NEXT ORDER . SO IF U BUY MORE THEN ONE THING I WILL ALSO TAKE THAT EXTRA DOLLAR OFF AT TIME OF BUYING ALSO .SO THAT WOULD BE $2.00 OFF OF EACH ITEM U BUY . AND FOR ANYONE THAT LOSES POWER U CAN USE THAT DEAL WHEN U GET BACK ON . JUST EMAIL ME AND TELL ME AND THEN U CAN GET THE DEAL .THATS WHY I TRIED TO MAKE IT FOR A MONTH . BUT IF U DONT GET YOUR POWER ON IN THAT TIME JUST LET ME KNOW WHE U DO AND U WILL BEABLE TO GET THAT DEAL .
AND IAM TRYING TO ADD TO THE COSTUME COLLECTION BEFORE HALOWEEN . IF U HAVE ANY COSTUMES U DONT WANT NOW WOULD BE THE TIME TO ADD THEM FOR PEOPLE TO BUY . I WILL BE GOING SHOPPING SOON TO GET NEW ONES SO LET ME KNOW IF U NEED SOMETHNG OTHER THEN WHAT I ALREADY HAVE .
I WISH EVERYBODY THE BEST DURING THIS STORM . PLEASE BECAREFUL .
NAUGHTY DREAMS
FREAKY KITTY
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