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thinking of starting a local group - - whats in a name? I'm thinking of a name and I don't want something that screams "Swingers are Here." I don't want a name that makes newbies think they "have" to do "something" when they come to our parties. Intimate Associates Lifestyle Associates Shared Intimacies Fantasy Fun Fantasy Flirt PlayTime Time to Play Time Foreplay Pleasure players playmate playpal secret intimacies fantasy eden discreet intamacies wild in secret simple pleasures sensual secrets intimate secrets all sound kinda to me.

Swinging and Children Don't Mix With Me, What about You? - Unforgettable experience - I have to say, having children and trying to meet with couples can be very hard on your lifestlye. Family always comes first in my book, but it doesn't seem like every parent thinks that, which is why I'm letting you know why they should start thinking about it. We thought that maybe if we could meet with a couple that also have a child or has children, that we could have a better, lasting relationship and have other things to enjoy with these couples, besides just swinging. Well, one couple didn't work out with us and I don't know how to go about letting them know they were wrong in what happened. I'm the only one that even seemed to get upset about the situation and I wanted to get others opionion to make sure I don't owe an opology to them. Here's what happened..... Me and my husband met with a couple at a swingers club, which was off-premise, and we talked some and explained we had children and that we wanted to meet with couples, but it was hard with younsters and it was also hard to find a reliable and trusting babysitter to be able to enjoy the night out. They the told us they had a child and that if we wanted to talk more and get to know each other better, that we could come to their home for a dinner, with our kids. Now...we explained up front that we don't play seperate and we definitely did not play if we had our children with us. They said that it wouldn't be a problem, no hank-panky with kids around, because they too had a small one. This sounded really great to us, because we thought we found a good couple to be friends with and have some extra benefits too, if we wanted. Well, things started out okay. We were greeted at the door by the family, and our kids was introduced to their child, and was showed some computer games and such to play. That gave us time to talk a little to the couple and was shown the outside of their home and such before dinner. After dinner is when everything went WRONG. First, I had to go to the bathroom. Well, while I was gone to the bathroom, the Mrs. decide to give my hubby a tour of the rest of the house, mainly the extra bedroom....and when I asked the hubby where my hubby was, he said.."Don't worry about them, they'll be okay for awhile"...well, that really ticked me off, especially knowing our children were now mixed up in this...and our oldest asking where his daddy went with that lady.....that was about the last straw for me....but I was in these peoples home, not mine, and I respect others homes, but in this situation, I was ready to leave, and without my other half....because he too knew our rules of playing. Well, when the Mrs. and mine came back up, my other half knew I was mad, but for some strange reason, he felt like he had to still play around with her, and in the same room all the children were in!!!! Not to mention, she couldn't keep her hands off him, which was not making my situation of trying to calm down any easier. When I finally got my hubby alone, I "very persistantly" told him me and the kids were leaving...NOW..and if he was smart he had better be out the front door before me or I would leave him there, and I truely meant it. I was so angry and hurt by all of the happenings around me, I thought that if this is what it's like to try and swing...FORGET IT...my nerves or marriage weren't going to stay together if this is what I had to look forward to everytime. My hubby didn't get out the door before me..he was too busy kissing the Mrs good-bye....and I mean french-kissing..... but, thank Goodness I got the kids out the door before me....and that didn't help out any on his part, believe me. We stopped swinging for many years after that because of trust with one another and with other couples saying one thing and then doing another. This particular couple apparently feels that nothing was wrong with what happened, and actually contacted us again after many, many, many years after this incident happened. I'm not one either to "shun" anyone, but this expereince really bothered me then, and still does, and after them contacting us again, through an e-mail, not by phone, it makes me wonder about my feelings on the matter. Am I wrong to feel this way, even after all these years? I do trust my husband NOW, after the bad expereinces, because there was one more after that, but it took alot of talking, yelling, and regaining a trust that is hard to achieve after something that drastic that involved your kids in the process. I e-mailed them back, but I know it was short and blunt, nothing mean, I don't do things like that, but what if they try again to contact us...what do I say? Any help/advice/opinions is appreciated. Hope no one ever has to expereince something like this...most marriages would never have lasted unless you really had a great understanding with your mate, and we put ours to the test and passed.......barely.

Young Swingers Night - - Looking forward to meeting you guys. You can't miss amber, she's kinda tall! ;) We are looking forward to a fun night!

Hollywood Swingers? - - Discretion is the name of the game. You could go through my trash for last 20 years and never find one scrap of paper showing my wife and I were swingers. My computer would be a different story. I guess a dedicated "hacker" could get into my computer but which one would he choose? Anyway, I say that if the Hollywood types want to play it is none of my business, unless of course for some reason they want to play with me.

Naughty Horoscope - - Both Scorpios (despite our STATED birthdates...yeah we're sneaky that way). Sounds like Ms. Evil and I should be pretty much fucking each other to death 24/7...oh wait. THAT'S why were such lame swingers. Nothing left in the tank for anyone else.[em]Emo_49[/em]

Creating an Amazing Swingers Profile - How to market yourself better - [quote=BMSHELL]I think my advice above boils down to: 1) Be honest.. Don't try to mislead people about who or what you are. 2) Make an effort to give others a chance to get to know you and trust you. 3) Don't be gross. And this stuff is nothing more than my opinion.. While I would love a world where everyone is required to agree with me, that probably won't happen for at least 5 more years, if things continue to go well. ;)[/quote]What'd people beat up on you for your suggestions or something? [em]Emo_54[/em] I liked 'em and thought them useful. Our profile used to include mostly goofiness -- but then that was OK 'cause that's pretty much been our approach to this whole swingin' thing. It's not all that important in the scheme of things and seems to always work out best for us if we don't take it or ourselves too seriously. We're pretty comfy with where we're at now with friends and all -- so I've toned it down to reflect that but if I were back into a voracious hunt again I'd certainly take your remarks into consideration. Good stuff! :)

Black Ring, Right Hand - How to tell if someone's a swinger - [quote=TMACA]The thing is, even though people in the vanilla world may know about something like black rings on the right hand, they probably won't notice it, especially with all the people wearing multiple rings nowadays. Most people just aren't all that observant. On the other hand, swingers who know about it will probably look for them. And if someone who doesn't also have one on asks you what's with the black ring, you can just say,"I like it." And if they then say "Did you know that it can mean ....?", you can say something like "Why do you think that?", or "Where'd you hear that?", which can lead to them saying they swing, or let you get out of the conversation without admitting anything yourself.~ Terry[/quote] That may be true up to a point but think about what other cues you see when you see an attractive couple and wonder if they're swingers. Dress a little sexier than normal, act a little flirtier or maybe dance a little dirtier (if they're at a club), are constantly looking around checking out other people. That doesn't happen in the vanilla world. Most guys would at very least get an elbow to the gut if their lady caught them openly checking out an attractive girl. In swinging, the lady will often check out the attractive girl right along with her husband. I still think that the majority of swingers wouldn't wear the rings even if they became "a thing". As someone mentioned this isn't a new concept. People have been talking about ways to make it easier to identify other swingers when out and about almost since the day we started swinging decades ago. On another swing site we're on they even made a mobile app that people could put on their smart phones that would alert them if another swinger was nearby and also had the app turned on. If the app showed (by GPS) another swinger near you you could send them a text. It was a colossal failure to say the least. I know there are definitely a small percentage of swingers who would wear black rings and/or use an app but the majority would likely not due to fear of discovery. Why do you think many or most profiles have face pics only in the locked sections and mention discretion so ubiquitously? Especially here in Utah where the prevailing religion has such strict morality codes, many people would rightly be afraid of losing their jobs and social standing if discovered. JMO

DO U HAVE ANY ADULT GOODIES THAT U WOULD LIKE TO SELL ? - NEW OR USED 4 MEN OR WOMEN ??????? - I RUN A SWINGERS SITE THAT ALSO HAS AN AUCTION PART ON IT . ANYBODY AND EVERYBODY CAN USE THE AUCTIONS . U DONT HAVE TO BE A MEMBER OF THE SITE TO SELL OR BUY STUFF . ANYBODY CAN SELL ANY KINDA OF STUFF ON THE AUCTIONS . IF U LOVE TO SHOP U CAN PICK UP A FEW EXTRA NEW THINGS TO TRY TO SELL . OR IF U ARE CLEANING OUT YOUR CLOSETS OR DRAWERS OR FILEING CABINET HA HA AND U HAVE STUFF THAT U DONT NEED OR WANT ANYMORE OR MAYBE SOMETHING JUST DIDNT FIT RIGHT ON U . U MAY PUT IT UP FOR SALE . IF IT IS USED PLEASE PUT THAT IN YOUR AD . AND U HAVE TO LIST ANYTHING THAT MIGHT BE WRONG WITH THE ITEM . MISSING BUTTON , FADEING IN THE COLOR OR WHATEVER LIKE THAT .BE HONEST ABOUT THE COND OF THE ITEM . THERE IS MANY DIFFERENT AREAS TO LIST YOUR STUFF IN THE AUCTION PART . IF U DONT SEE AN AREA THAT U NEED THEN PLEASE EMAIL ME AND ILL ADD IT TO THE LIST FOR YOU . THE SITE IS ALWAYS LOOKING FOR STUFF LIKE ... SEXY OUTFITS SHOES OR BOOTS CLUB WEAR PORN HOME MOVIES OR STORE BOUGHT OR PORN MAGS . NAUGHTY ART WORK . CANDLES OR CANDLE HOLDERS VASES ANYTHING LIKE THAT . U CAN ALSO SELL REG EVERY DAY STUFF ALSO . CLOTHES ,CURTAINS , BEDSPREADS ,BIRD BATHS WHATEVER U WANT TO SELL . THE SITE OFFERS MANY DIFFERENT WAYS FOR PEOPLE TO CHOOSE TO PAY U . U ARE IN CONTROL OF WHICH WAYS U WILL ACCEPT THEIR MONEY . CREDIT CARD , PAY PAL CHECK , CASH ... IF U RUN A ADULT STORE OR SITE OR SELL ADULT STUFF U MAY SELL STUFF ON THE SITE . IF U ARE A DANCER OR WEB CAM LADY U MAY SELL YOUR PICS , OUTFITS , MOVIES TO YOUR FANS AND TO OUR MEMBERS . IT WORKS JUST LIKE EBAY . BUT WE LET U TAKE NAUGHTY PICS TO SELL YOUR ITEMS . HA HA U CAN PICK TO CHOOSE TO SELL IT TWO WAYS OR BOTH . U CAN LIST AN ITEM FOR A BUY IT NOW PRICE . OR U CAN PICK A RESV PRICE AND THEN HAVE IT IN OPEN AUCTION AND SEE IF PEOPLE WILL BID AND WANT TO PAY MORE FOR IT . WHEN U LIST IT WITH A RESV PRICE . U PICK A PRICE THAT U WILL NOT SELL LESS THEN THAT PRICE . THEN THE PEOPLE BID ON IT TO TRY TO GET TO YOUR PRICE . IF A FEW PEOPLE ARE BIDDING ON THE SAME THING THEN THE PRICE MIGHT GO PAST YOUR RESV PRICE AND THEY WILL HAVE TO PAY AS HIGH AS THEY KEEP BIDDING ON IT ... EX. IF I WANTED TO SELL A NAUGHTY OUTFIT . IF I PAID $20.00 FOR IT . SO I WANT TO AT LEAST GET THAT OUT OF IT PLUS A DOLLAR OR TWO EXTRA . SO I CAN LIST THE ITEM LIKE THIS . RESV PRICE .... $22.00 BUY IT NOW PRICE $25.00 THIS IS JUST AN EX. U CAN CHARGE OR MAKE WHATEVER U WANT TO . THATS ALL UP TO YOU . IF THERE ISNT A BUY IT NOW PRICE THEN THE BIDDING CAN KEEP GOING UNTIL THE AD STOPS OR THE PEOPLE HAVE WENT TO THEIR HIGHEST PRICE THEY WILL PAY . THE HIGHEST BIDDER WINS . ONCE SOMEONE HAS MADE A BID ON AN ITEM U CANT TAKE IT OUT OF THE AUCTIONS UNELSS SOMEONE USES THE BUY IT NOW . OR THE AD HAS ENDED . U CAN BID ON AS MANY THINGS AS U WANT TO . BUT YOU ONLY HAVE TO PAY IF U WIN THE ITEM . AND U DONT HAVE TO SELL ANY ITEM UNLESS YOUR PRICE HAS BEEN MET . IF U HAVE ANY QUESTIONS FEEL FREE TO EMAIL ME ANYTIME AND ILL HELP YOU . NAUGHTY DREAMS FREAKY KITTY WWW.SWINGERSOFAMERICA.COM

Another Swingers Show on TV - - [i]"The more main stream swinging becomes the more support swinging will have in the community at large. Once swingers have a beloved, adorable, polite and sexy out of the closet, celebrity, hosting a variety show on a major network it will probably become very cool to let all our friends and co-workers know we are swingers and it will become very politically correct for non swingers to defend and support us."[/i] There will be an openly gay man signing laws in the oval office along with his polygamist vice pres. and transgendered Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff...all smoking a joint LONG before there is anything close to that kind of acceptance towards swingers. [em]Emo_67[/em]

KUTV News Story on Swingers - News - And just how many couples converting into the Mormon church has caused a divorce? Just sayin'