Hereford Swingers in Texas

To whom it may concern,

I think we swingers have no right to make moral judgments. After all, we are not following what the majority of our society deems morally sound. I do not agree with cheating either, but who am I to judge. All of you may not agree with me. I'll bet my life that many of your families, friends, employers and churches would not agree with your lifestyle choices. Who are we to judge? Think of it this way. It's a given that many of you partake in the marijuana plant. This is a violation of criminal and moral law. Yet many many people here proudly boasted this fact in the D&D forum. So much so, that they mistook my posts as anti-marijuana, when I said that I didn't want it around me because of my occupation (military). I highly doubt that if Rob were to post a link to a Caf

Polyamory - Please share your thoughts.... - polyamory Definition: participation in multiple and simultaneous loving or sexual relationships bigamy Definition: marrying while one has a wife or husband still living, from whom no valid divorce has been effected. polygamy Definition: 1. the practice or condition of having more than one spouse, esp. wife, at one time.. 2. the habit or system of mating with more than one individual, either simultaneously or successively. swingers Definition: a person who engages in the exchanging of spouses for sexual activities. monogamy Definition: 1. marriage with only one person at a time. 2. the practice of having only one mate. 3. the practice of marrying only once during life. (btw. i didn't write these myself. they were on dictionary.com)

This lifestyle - What are we really? - I guess we are Poly-Swingers. Basically we are and have been swingers for some time now, I however, am quite poly and have several lady friends who I love deeply. Finding 2 couples is not as difficult as some might think. One of my lady friends is married and our families are quite close. Fact is they are not swingers at all but she is poly and he is poly friendly. The other is separated and both my wife and I love this lady to the ends of the earth. So we are poly. Now, we are also swingers . We do have sex with people that we are not in love with. We do, however, care about people and we prefer to get to know people first before sex. We have been known to get it on on the first meeting if the chemestry is right.... I don't see any division in swinging because someone may be poly but enjoys sex with people that just hit it off. Swingers are such a diverse group of people and there is room for whatever ones heart desires...from love to just sex. Find what's right for you and enjoy... Ray

Site Weirdness - A thousand less members online than usual? - There's typically 1600-2000 members online when I login at any given time; but there's less than 600 online today. The layout appears to have changed slightly as well, (Log Out button moved for example) though no functionality updates I can find. Has there been a swinger apocalypse? A Rapture in which more swingers were caught up than one would cynically imagine?

Amusing - Fakes.. ugh.. DESPISE THEM! - Ya, we've had this problem a number of times... but...what makes you So sure it's NOt the girl from the website you mentioned?...are celebrities not allowed to be swingers? just food for thought

Black rings. Does anybody even wear them? - - [quote=SKICOUPLE][quote=Gunthercouple]Is the black ring well known in LS groups, we are new to LS and have not heard or noticed.[/quote] Not as frequently as you might think. You probably see it on swingers that have been active for awhile. You see a couple with black rings on the right hand and they probably have some good stories to tell.[/quote] over 20 yrs playing with couples and girls, never wore anything like that we figure being on swinger sites and attending swinger events with my wife wearing her sexy little dresses sends clear clues plus if we are in public we would find it very creepy to be asked about the LS by total strangers unless they hot lol

What a difference a Gay makes... - Our first foray into the swinging public, not what I expected. - Reading all the posts here and looking at the photos on the profiles make us wish we were in utah.You truely are a lovely lot. The couple in Spring Hill look good too...And Texas.......stc We went to a swingers club once..ONCE!!We found it rather cliquy. We didn't know what to do there,people were wandering off to rooms,we didn't know if we should follow,wait to be invited or whatever. My wife got more interest than I did(from single guys usually),and being basically shy,I just stood back.Everyone seemed to be chatting and ignoring us. We travelled quite a way to get to this place,and we won't go again that's for sure. It seems to us that house parties are the best way to go to meet new people.we tried those with some success. We once went to a lesbian bar just to see what it was like.I tell you,they were really friendly.People chatted to us,wanted to know where I was from because of the accent.We didn't go to pick anyone up(fat chance for me,they were all gay girls..LOL)But had a great time.

Discretion a Must?!? - Let us know - We post a face pic even though we both have high profile out there jobs,I am a bailbonds woman and hubby does city contract work talk about hell storm if we ran into someone who said OMG i saw yall on a swingers site,but then me being me I would turn it around on them,if they were there looking then obviously they were looking for the same thing. In saying that it tends to shut them down with a quickness,think about it if they are at a lifestyle function or website they are there why...HELLO cause they are in the lifestlye also LOL. As for being outed to family and friends we don't hide the fact,do they like it *family that is* proably not doesn't fit into their cookie cutter world but they don't look down on us either they accept the fact we do what we do and it's none of their business. I have a friend right now going through a divorce and her soon to be ex is trying to bring her bisexuality into the proceedings and wants everyone to testify well I told him don't bring me there or I will just bust you out what about the blowjob in my den you got from so-so,its pissy when in the lifestyle together then bring it up in a divorce. Becky

Swingular Hacked! - profile and email revealed - Googled AZWETNWILD...came up with Real Swingers and LoveVoodoo profiles for them, but no MAVENX. No Swingular either...

Swingers Dares - Text for cards in the game - Alright...let's push the limits. Dare: Name 2 things (sexually) you've never done before and name 2 people from the group to do them (You can join in or be one of the two). To help move that one along, you might want to have everyone playing list 3 or 4 things they've never done (but wanted to) on a piece of paper before the game starts.