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Thank you Lifestyle. - A commentary about our journey - Thanksgiving just passed us by and Xmas and the New Year are quickly approaching. I thought I would take a long moment of my time, and your time if you are reading this, to tell this massive entity, called the "Lifestyle" how it has changed me this year. We have been in the Lifestyle for a little over a year and a half. We don't even like the name lifestyle. We prefer "kinky" or "adventurous" or even just "fun as hell", but it seems the term will be around for awhile longer. The wife and I often ponder what exactly the Lifestyle is. Is it a certain set of rules and guidelines that we all live in? Is it the same for us as it is for everyone else? How often does it hurt marriage or relationships and how often does it help? Do we regret our decision to enter into it? When we first tip-toed into the waters we were intimidated, in awe and totally unprepared for what we would experience. It all seemed magical and sometimes scary. We have and had a great marriage and thought we wanted a new, kinky adventure together. We planned to go slow and we would be fine, we were certain. But we were nervous. We were so sloshed at our first Sinful party that we irritated a few people there, no doubt, and probably made asses of ourselves. We still do that sometimes, but now we do it conscientiously. But we grew and learned quickly and have morphed into what we are today (huge asses). Interestingly enough, a few years before we entered the LS, we thought swingers were all gross, dirty, sexually infected people ( I am still not ruling some of you out). We had met a couple that harassed us at every opportunity and were the "creepy" type. Now we know people may think of us the same way if they found out, which is sad, because we like to be honest and open with all of our friends. So, like many of you, it is a secret we keep. It is a trade off for doing what we do. So what have I learned? How have I changed? I have always been a non-judgmental person by most standards, but still I had strong opinions about certain things. One spouse, one partner; that is how it should be done. So what changed? First off, our communication started to blossom about all sorts of things once my wife left her religion. I won't mention names, but it begins with an L and ends in DS. We talked and talked and talked and the more we talked the more we realized that we both had kinky minds and that maybe we should "experiment". So, we made some rules, actually a LOT of rules, and entered the ring. Still thinking one spouse, one partner, but maybe, just maybe we could play in the same room as other people. How kinky is that? Hence our name...sameroomonly. Well, as some of you know, the lifestyle is a monstrous, living, breathing beast and can quickly drag you to places you never thought possible. We made some mistakes, had some great times and just fumbled our way through for a few months trying to figure out where our lines were and what we should or shouldn't do. Then we got smart. We learned to communicate again, like we used to do privately, only now we could do it with other people around. And it was refreshing. No more secret code words (well, sometimes) and no more wondering if what one of us was doing was not condoned by the other. So that is the first thing I think the LS has helped us with. Communication. We communicate like mother fuckers. Better than all of our non-lifestyle friends, for the most part. Are we always amazing and never have bumps? Of course not. Anyone who says they never have drama are either liars or delusional. So thank you lifestyle for our ability to exchange ideas and to be more honest with each other, always. The next thing we found was that we were making friends at a very fast pace. We made a kik group and had our first party with about 40 people up in Park City only 5 or so months after joining the website. It was a blast. We still host parties and invite new people all the time. We enjoy introducing new friends with old friends. Wait, did I say friends or fuck buddies? Don't we sleep with all of our friends? Isn't that the expectation? Not for us. We have made friends that we know will be around until we are all old and gray. We have lost friends because we wouldn't fuck. There are whole discussions on these forums about how some just want to meet and fuck, because this is a swinging site, not a friend site. And to each their own. We don't judge, but for us the rewards of our friendships have far outweighed the 10 or 20 seconds of amazing sex. We have friends around the world that we never would have met without the LS. So to the lifestyle, I say thank you for all of the wonderful friends we have made. Love you all, some more than others ( you know who I am talking about). :) The LS has also taught me to be less judgmental and to avoid using words like "never" or "always". Life is full of gray areas and has lost much of its black and white features. Oh sure, I still judge, have preferences and prejudices, but we all do. I just really believe in walking in another's shoes before I make any decisions about someone's life. So lifestyle, thank you for making me more understanding of other people. Last of all, I just want to say that the sexual journey has been amazing. We have shared many hot, sexy and intimate times with some of you and we have come to realize how similar we all are. We all like sex, we all have a kinky side, or else we wouldn't be here. I have done things that I never imagined would ever happen, with some of the sexiest, most beautiful people I have ever met. I have shared intimate moments with people I care deeply about and others that were just passing through. All have their high points. I have experienced more than most people would even dream about, as have most of you. We are the select who choose to follow our dreams and fantasies. I think we are fortunate. So lifestyle, thank you for all the amazing sex. In the end the lifestyle is different for everyone. It is a whole sub universe in the middle of a "normal" society. Sometimes we have to walk among the shadows to keep our secret, but totally worth it. I would never trade the LS for my wonderful marriage and think I am the luckiest man alive to be married to my beautiful, amazing wife who has shared this journey with me. Love you, Babe. As with everything in life, there will be people who read this and like it, some who don't care and some who disagree or will want to pick it to pieces. That is what makes this amazing. There are so many wonderful, different people and the lifestyle is a perfect diving board to jump into the sea of waiting bodies and personalities. So if you are new, jump in, explore and learn. If you are old school, help others to weather the bumps and keep exploring. Long live the lifestyle. That is a little about my journey, how about you? I encourage anyone to add what they think or feel the LS has done for them, even negative things. Merry xmas to everyone and hope to meet some of you new people. And to my friends, I care about each and every one of you. The Mr.

Any swingers advise for Spain? - Swing clubs in Madrid - Well, crap. Sorry, we live in Germany and know where they are here, but have not been to the Spain locale yet. Let us know if you guys head to Deutschland.

Soft swap - Soft swap vs Full swap - Top definition according to our Unabashed Urban Dictionary via google search and everything is according to google, right? SOFT SWAP: To share spouses/mates with another to the point of digital and/or oral copulation only. This term comes from the home of Stephen, SuperGenius, who invented it spontaneously while referring to timid wanna-be swingers unwilling to take the PLUNGE ------ HARD SWAP: When you trade sexual partners...as opposed to soft swap where you just watch, or be watched, the other couple having sex. Sometimes soft swap does entail the trading of oral sex between the different couples. ------ No Seriously, everyone most likely has their own definition of these "soft swap", "hard swap" terms. So rather than leave it up to each individual's own version or opinion...wouldn't it be a good idea to simply discuss with all what each is comfortable doing and what the boundaries may be on a particular night and/or with a particular couple or play partner? We believe communication is the key and everyone should feel comfortable and that there should be no pressure and no expectations.

Swinging capitol of USA - What state is the Swinging Capitol of USA and why? - We read in Playboy a few years ago believe it or not but per population Michigan has or had more swingers then any other state in the union. I guess it gets pretty hot up there in the winter.

Swingers Kickball Society - - I haven't played since grade school. Sounds like fun. count us in.

Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - [quote=HARD_STONE][quote=EDANY0178]DVP? [/quote] I'll take either opening that I'm allowed in. [img]http://www.swingular.com/photos/h/HARD_STONE%7B19832287654f28ccd1ec598%7D.jpg[/img] [/quote] Holy mother of hello!! um YUMMMY!!!!!! pick a spot, any spot!!

Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - [quote=HOTTIEHOGANS]I LOVE dp :) love love love. I would like to try dvp too. but we don't do single guys and finding girls that want to do it/allow their hubby's to do it is difficult. :([/quote] well maybe you need to loosen your standard a little bit? just sayin. I dont mean to be rude but the overall stigma on swingular of how single males are big pieces of shit gets old. I mean that is your choice just dont get on here complaining how rough it is for you to accoplish your goal. Thats like me complaining i am not getting laid because i will only do jennifer anniston, carmen elctra, or megan fox and none of them are returning my calls...lol know what i mean?

Where are all the MEN - looking for men that arent afraid of furthering the aspect of sex - Where are all the couples with men that are looking to further SEX. Most women would agree that they would love to give a man the sensations that they (if they do) enjoy of anal sex and dont be fooled women all know that the male prostate is basically the same as a womans G-spot and you know how they are about that lil goody HIT IT RUB IT ABBBBUUUSE IT PLEEAAASE!. I do not believe that women enjoy watching men kiss however. You want your lady friend to enjoy anal dont you. And if she does I am sure that she would want to give you the same pleasure. If nothing else I am sure it is one of her dirty lil fantasies. Women have more and dirtier fantasies than we have ever tried to cum up with guys. I was told about 9 yrs ago by a regular swinger in the lifestyle for yrs. that all swingers are bisexual. Which made sense, swingers are people that enjoy the fullness of sex and wants to share the diversity of it with others. So where are all the men that are comfortable enough with their sexuality to at least be interested in what women are enjoying about sex. We cannot be the only couple in SE Mi that feel this way. Do we need to move to UT there seems to be lots of nice profiles there! Congratulations Utah!

How far are you willing to travel ? - - HOW FAR AM I WILLING TO GO TO MEET THEM HOOK UP ? ALL DEPENDS ON HOW GOOD THE ASS IS ..... HA HA HA HA JUST KIDDING . U KNOW SOMEONE HAD TO SAY IT ........ WE REALLY DONT TRAVEL MUCH TO SEE OR DO ANYTHING ..... SO I WOULD SAY NOT TO FAR . BUT WE HAVE ALOT OF PEOPLE THAT INVITE US OR EMAIL US AND TELL US THAT WE WANT TO HOOK UP THEY CAN COME HERE . TALK ABOUT PRESSURE . I DONT THINK I WOULD GO TO SOMEONE ELSE LIKE THAT UNLESS I HAVE CHATTED ALONG TIME WITH THEM AND KNOW WE CLIKC WELL . OR HAVE MET THEM BEFORE . CAUSE I DONT WANT TO TRAVLE FAR AWAY AND THEN FIND OUT WE DONT CLICK WELL. WE HAVE 3 KIDS AND WE ARE REDOING A HOUSE .I RUN A SWINGERS SITE .HE DOES BODY PAINTS . SO WE HAVE NO TIME TO DO ANYTHING . WE ARE BUSY ALL WEEK LONG . AND THEN THE WEEKEND IS TO DO EXTRA THINGS AND SPEND TIME WITH THE KIDS AND FAMILY AND STUFF LIKE THAT . WE GO TO A SWINGERS CLUB ON SAT NIGHTS WHEN WE CAN GET OUT . AND WE WELCOME ANYONE TO COME AND HANG OUT WITH US THERE . WE ARE MAINLY LOOKING FOR NEW FRIENDS ALL THE TIME TO MEET AND HANG OUT WITH. WE PLAY WITH THE ONES WE REALLY LIKE AND CLICK WITH . WE DONT MEET ANDPLAY . WE ONLY PLAY WITH GOOD FRIENDS . I REALLY DONT CARE IF THEY LIVE OUT OF STATE OR RIGHT NEXT DOOR . AS LONG AAS IT ISNT GOING TO BE A ONE NIGHT STAND THEN WE CAN HANG OUT WITH THEMWHEN EVER THEY COME TO TOWN . ALOT OF SWINGERS TRAVEL ALL OVER . FOR FUN OR WORK . AND ALOT OF THEM COME TO OUR ARE CAUSE WE HAVE ALOT OF SWINGERS CLUBS AND NUDIEST RESORTS HERE . SO PEOPLE TRAVEL TO COME HERE ALL THE TIME . THERE IS SOME THAT COME EVERY WEEKEND . SO WE DONT JUDGE PEOPLE BY HOW FAR THEY LIVE AWAY FROM US . CAUSE THAT CAN CHANGE ANY DAY . IF THEY ARE LOOKING FOR THE SAME THINGS AS IN FRIENDSHIP AND THEY ARE RESPECTFUL AND FUN WE WILL CHAT AND STUFF LIKE THAT . WHEN THEY COME HERE THEN WE MIGHT PLAY OR NOT DEPENDING ON THE PEOPLE . BUT I DONT HAVE TIME TO TRAVEL TO GO TO PEOPLE. AND IAMNOT TO WORRIED ABOUT HOOKING UP TO DO THAT EITHER . THE LIFE STYLE IS ALOT MORE TO US THEN JUST HOOKING UP AND GETTING SOME ONE NEW TOPLAY WITH . SO I SEE NO REASON TO TRAVEL TO ANYONE . TAMPA IS FULL OF SWINGERS THAT LIVE HERE AND TRAVEL HERE . WE JUST SAY LET US KNOW WHEN U COME TO TOWN AND WE WILL TELL U WHAT PARTIES ARE PLAN THEN . IF U WANT TO HANG OUT THEN GREAT . IF NOT HOPE YOUR VISIT HERE IS GREAT ! BUT PLEASE DONT TAKE OUR FREAKS BACK HOME WITH U . LEAVE THEM HERE FOR EVERYBODY ELSE .......... HA HA HA HA NAUGHTY DREAMS FREAKY KITTY