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What is up with Utah?! - Swingers in Utah and nowhere else? - hats off to the masses :) gots to love people who get nekid
The New Neighbors Are Swingers - - That’s fucking hilarious! Great tips too!
Labor Day Weekend - - [quote=WITH_A_WHISPER]Oh someone told me it was basically a swing club.... Not the case?
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nope. not a swing club. its not any louder/pricier than the majority of clubs. only quieter spots are typically the smaller type bars. it used to be that a ton of swingers attended regularly but its never been "bascially a swingers club".
Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - ours are still a work in progress for the mrs. a 55 oldsmobile super 88 four door with the orignal 324 and 4 speed hydromatic and i have to have a truck so if thats how it is then for me a 56 gmc with a chevy dash small back window and a in line 6 with a McCulic supercharger hopfully both will be running by next spring and they will be daily drivers as for now a 91 acura integra it makes gas and handles like the tires are glued to the pavment
Swingers unnerve families at hotel - - Hey it made news in west palm beach too LOL
http://www.palmbeachpost.com/state/content/gen/ap/FL_Swingers_Soccer_Families.html
Hello summer - Swingers couple party - Next Friday is the event. There are couples coming from other groups as well. Looking forward to meeting new friends.
Single males do not apply, thank you.
Tooele swingers party 2 - Doing our second party - So were gonna go for the sunday the 21st of this month. Also this will be going on during the late afternoon since it is sunday and alot of us have work on monday. So this will be a bit of afternoon delight with all the dirty fun to go with it. If anyone is still interested feel free to reach out to us. We will have a kik group set up laterto get everyone familier with each other, at least a little bit. ;-)
Friend collectors or swingers - - We agree.
#1 we dont accept blind friend requests
#2 if we take time to message you and you ONLY send back a friend request, dont wast our time.
#3 if you are on our friends list, we do kinda expect to keep in touch even if its periodically. If we send you a couple messages and your on our friends list and we never hear back from you, we delete you.
Not hard to figure out but people can NOT get it.
Mixed Lifestyle Parties - - [quote=Cpl4Fwb][quote=WEWNT2PLAY]Although for those that would be concerned about being outed in the LS, what is the overall concern? I mean if I'm considering this type of party it's not like the bishop or pastor is going to be there, and the likelihood of being seen elsewhere would be slim to none.
None the less they are valid concerns and now I have to decide what to do.[/quote]
We are only speaking for ourselves here ...
Discretion - we would prefer to choose to whom we reveal our lifestyle actives with. Even on lifestyle sites and other social media sites, we enjoy a level of anonymity. We control what and to whom we reveal more identifying information (face pictures, names, contact info, etc).
Yes, there is a risk in going to lifestyle events and parties. However, most people in the lifestyle believe in mutual assured destruction. If someone tells their vanilla friends, "Hey, I saw Dave & Danna at a swinger party.", their vanilla friends would probably ask, "What were you doing at a swinger party?"
In our time in the lifestyle, we have run into three co-workers, two high school classmates, the mother of a child on our child's athletic team, and a woman who we shared a daily commute with on public transportation. So yes, there is a good chance people may run into others from their vanilla lives in the lifefstyle at some time or another.[/quote]
We agree with most of these comments.
Vanilla people have absolutely no reason to keep LS peoples secrets, and I think they’re more likely to gossip about something relatively foreign to them (like a LS party they attended). I’ve had two vanilla coworkers in my office talk about going to The NYer to people watch swingers, and that just made me cringe. I would not trust a vanilla person to keep our secret, and even less if we saw them at a “mixed” type of party where any conclusions could be made.
We would rather keep our vanilla friends and our LS friends completely separate for privacy’s sake. No matter how hard vanillas try, most of them cannot wrap their heads around our LS, and just avoiding vanillas while pursuing our LS hobbies is our safest bet.
Being fully open to the world about being a swinger is absolutely not something we want in a couples friendship either. We would avoid that as much as we would avoid any chance of vanillas finding out about us. Guilt by association could be just as harmful to our personal and professional lives.
As was said above though… your party, your friends. Just make sure all your LS friends are aware of what you’re doing. Some may not care, some could absolutely care if vanillas were there.
BUSTED! Your Kids Found Out Your Swingers. Now What? - - I don't think we could do the house party / Club with one of our kids being there... That would be just a little to off the wall for us, and as an earlier post stated that they had actually played with their parents swinging friends... That would be to strange
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