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KEY PARTY - - We 'get' and actually applaud the effort to find some way to avoid the often typical cliquey swing party but still have to wonder how feasible it might be in practice. The problem, as we see it, is that swinging is an atypical social construct in that it is driven almost entirely by superficial factors such as relative attractiveness (age, height, weight, body type, breast size, cock size, and any number of other physical characteristics).
When we first started swinging, back around the time Cleopatra was busy inventing hookup culture and the term unicorn, we quickly discovered that swinging wasn't the sexual egalitarian utopia that many people believe it should be. Indeed, there was actually a broad, distinct caste system, if you will, that governed who hooked up with who and who was relegated to the sidelines at least in certain circles or situations.
This might be best illustrated by one of our very early encounters with two couples at a swinger meet and greet back east. One of the couples was loudly expounding on their utter disgust with the concept that people in the lifestyle seem to be so "stuck-up" (their term) and were too concerned about "looks" and other superficial characteristics. They went on and on for probably close to an hour before they, I guess, ran out of steam and decided to leave.
After they were gone, the other couple at the table laughed a little bit and gave us some fairly sage advice. They told us that we would likely meet three general kinds of swingers in the lifestyle. They said that the first couple was the "Hey, you're swingers and we're swingers so let's fuck!" kind of people and that on the opposite end of the spectrum were the extremely picky, "beautiful people" who spent more time "watching the door" at a swing function always looking for the BBD (bigger, better, deal) and who more often than not left without actually hooking-up/playing.
They said that the relatively smaller group in between those two extremes were those who had a little more realistic attitude and who were, while still giving a good amount of weight to initial physical attraction, actually looking a little more FOR reasons to play rather than for reasons NOT to play. They told us to decide for ourselves what kind of swingers we wanted to be and go from there but to never fuck someone that we really didn't want to fuck. *shrug*
As to your idea of making it more of a "speed swinging" type of party, I'm almost certain that there are at least a few people here on Swingular who have talked about, if not hosted, just such a party. It might be interesting if they or any of their guests chimed in as to how it turned out.
Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - We have done it with toys but want to try it with the real thing. I don't really like toys. Finding the right male or another couple were the female would reciprocate to fulfill this fantasy is proving to be harder than you think. Still trying to work out the logistics. Lol Sorry Hard_Stone you are to big. :-)
Game ON....which sign is Hornier...(is that a word?) - zodiac signs of swingers? - mike is Gemini
Sara is Aries
Now to answer your question about the Gem. It can be turned on and off like a switch, evil and good with in seconds. So the best of both worlds all in one night.
Happy hairless people - Opinions please -
The waxing is much easier and it does stay smooth for about 6 weeks once you do it a couple of times and the more you do the less the pain and it is not realy that painful anyway. Brazillian is the way of the future no iritation no razor burn the only thing is with guys we tend to get a few more ingrown hairs but man it is so clean and smooth. just make sure if you are a guy you have a pro or you can get hurt. We live on the east coast and among swingers and nudist from TN to Florida I think the % is very high.
Have you ever... - - OK, in the interest of playing, here you go:
Had sex outside? yes
Had sex in public? (movie theater, concert, theme park) yes
Had sex in an unusual location? yes
Had a threesome? yes
A foursome? yes
More than a foursome? yes
Had a happy ending? yes
Been tied up? no
Tied someone up yes
Been to a sex club / swingers club? yes
Watched a porno? yes
Been in a porno? Professionally? no
Wore a costume / role played during sex? yes
Recieved a spanking?yes
Given a spanking? yes
Paid for sex? No. (not directly, but dinner, drinks, etc...?)
Had sex with someone you weren't attracted to / didn't like? yes
Had sex with someone you didn't know / just met? yes
Traveled more than 50 miles to have sex? yes
How many States / Countries have you had sex in? 8 states
Favorite position? being straddled while sitting.
Had a 'nooner'? (skipped out of work / school to go have sex and then returned) yes
Had sex at work? yes
With a co-worker? yes
Slept your way to the top? no
Preferred location of "money shot"? Inside a nice wet pussy
Women - sexiest outfit / lingerie you own? describe in detail
Men - best pickup line? Pull my finger
Preferred hairstyle? (on you and on others) Shaved bare? Landing strip? 70's fro? Other style? shaved or trimmed neatly
Underwear choice? Ganny panties / tightie whiteys? Thong? G-string? Commando?anything easy to remove
Easiest way to get you turned on? her talking dirty to me
Worst mood killer? Him talking dirty to me.
Preferred style? Soft and romantic? Wham Bam Thank You Ma'am? Hard and fast? Hair pulling, ass spanking deep and rough? Yes Please.
Piercings? Love 'em
Tattoos? Love 'em more
Shoes / socks on or off?On. It means we can't even wait to get undressed all the way.
Do you fantasize about other people when having sex with your spouce / usual partner? Sometimes
Who is your fantasy partner? Who's available?
Describe the perfect sexual encounter... My next one
Willing to give me your answers in person? Naked? Absolutely!!!
Identifying Swingers! - Lots of talk and now some action! :) - We like what you are doing and agree that it does not stand out like something we tried before. We are curious to see what the new items will look like. Is there a way to get on a mailing list for your site?
We tried wearing a pin that was given to us from another site and forgot to take it off my jacket at the end of the night. The next time I wore the jacket we were with family and they wanted to know what the initials in bright colors stood for. In a pinch I replied it stands for the "safe drivers club ". Then my mother in law wanted to join but I further explained it was for us that drag raced and went a certain time with no accidents. So I invited her to drag race and earn her own pin but she declined.
And that is why we would appreciate a more subtle way of letting others know about our lifestyle choices. Please keep us informed.
Joe and Lori
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - I did unblock you. You have to unblock me. LOL!
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - I feckin exhausted on this one... LOL! Night e'one.
-D-
FREE STAY! Swingers Party in the Caribbean at our beach house on - We would like to host a few couples at our beach house in Culebra, Puerto Rico. - We would love more information!
Swinging/Polyamory - I just wanted to hear other people thoughs on this....... - Much of what has been said I agree with, but I do know poly couples in the lifestyle. Their swinging is a bit more complicated as far as the decision process because I would imagine that such a decision would need to be agreed upon by all partners involved.
The biggest difference I think between regular swingers and those who are involved in poly relationships is while most people who swing would shun the development of emotional ties to other swingers thinking it would be the doom of their spousal (primary) relationship, those who are also involved in or those who are open to the possibility of poly relationships would welcome the development of additional relationships for what they are knowing there is neither a need to replace their spouse or run off with the person they have formed this new relationship with. It does add further complication to their life, but it can also enrich it tremendously.
My .02 from an observers standpoint.
-SG
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