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[quote=PALS4FUN]Yeah, swinging can cause huge pressure on a marriage and totally screw it up. I'm sure that's why most swingers, myself included, would never recommend swinging as a way to "spice-up" a marriage that is having some difficulty. You definitely have to be on the same page as your partner in order to give swinging a go -- and then be pretty damn quick on your feet and adaptable as things get going -- perhaps in a direction that you didn't expect.
I don't get though, why the OP is back here if he's not interested in swinging for the long term or looking for a woman who is interested in it? Seems this OP is more suited for a singles-type site.
And Evil, yes I'd like to see your listing 'cause I'm guessing that at least one of the items involves a douche-canoe going over a large peefall before crashing into a turd log. Or other such silliness, much funnier than what I've just described! ;) Yes ... I know your personality here![/quote]
Facebook and the lifestyle - Can Facebook be TMI with the lifestyle? - Ms. Evil and I were talking this morning about the the lifestyle in the age of Facebook. She mentioned that she kind of feels like there is the possibility of learning TOO much about your lifestyle friends when you're also on their Facebook feed. Especially in the hyperpolarized world we live in right now she thinks that maybe knowing too much about other swingers can make it harder to connect sexually with them. In fact, more than once, I've walked into the bedroom to find her on her laptop reading something a swinger friend has posted on Facebook with steam coming out of her ears (yeah we made an appt. with an ENT to get that checked out). I think it's gotten so bad at times that she's totally lost her 'lady wood' for a few of our lifestyle friends. I'm not really on Facebook so it hasn't affected me (other than her maybe not being as excited about possibly hooking up with some couples because they are so adamant in their views and express them so vigorously on Facebook). Just wondering what everyone thinks. Does Facebook (and learning all the dirty details about other couples) affect how you start to think about them? Ever not wanted to hook up with someone once you realized how different your viewpoints were or when they maybe posted some things on social media that you found offensive?
Fly-fishing Swingers - New Swingular Group - This new group is for all swinger couples who also fly-fish. Common interests make for the best encounters.
One month till Xmas! - - What do you want Santa (or Satan, for the dyslexic) to bring you for Xmas?
1) A foolproof way to turn vanillas to the dark side.
2) Lots of DVDA (double vaginal, double anal).
3) Some brand spanking new titties...double E please!
4) A new Mercedes...with heated seats and live streaming porn.
5) Some of that shit you inject into your dick so you can stay hard for hours and hours.
6) An all expense paid trip to Desire and a case of Magnum condoms.
7) A Hitachi vibrator with TURBO!
8) A giant stocking full of nasty swingers!
Why is being a YOUNG SINGLE MALE so difficult enter the swinging - Just a good random converstation starter :-) - This is the mister speaking...
I have issue with singles males, How are they swinging? They are just looking for a cheap fuck. No courting the woman, no taking her out to dinner, flowers, just hay let me come over and fuck your wife. Oh sure they say I love to please. I'm slow, well hung, etc. So what are they saying? I have all the attributes that your husband doesn't.
I admit there are times when a single male has their place. But to call them swingers is just not accurate. How by any stretch can they be called swingers?
I just think they should be place in a category! Allowed to receive emails when they are requested, then only allowed to reply.
Then they can show up, not have to pay the cost of a prostitute, no dinner, flowers, and fuck the wife.
Bit harsh. I'm on pain meds today for a surgery, will likely wake up in a few hours and delete the whole thing.
WHY????? - - I thought this was a swingers website.
Sexy swingers closer to our age - 20-30 year old sexy swingers - 38/38 with a Bi female
Scuba, Nude Beaches, Swingers - Scuba, Nude Beaches, Swingers - If you aim is other than to be seen by others we know several deserted beaches on the south shore of Jamaica that you could have an all day beach orgy on....never seen another person there and have walked for miles.
Ways to point out Swingers in public - - I like the black ring idea! Although my husband had a reaction to the silicon one we bought him so maybe would have to be something else.
Body Size - - [quote=DRAR09]So I'm unfortunately a chubby girl, but I'm working on it. Hopefully this doesn't sound shallow because eveyone has a type they're attracted to, but are most average men in the lifestyle looking for girls of a smaller body type? Are us bigger women disregarded just by a picture or headline before anyone tries to get to know us? This isn't meant to be confrontational, but does a woman's personality matter more or less than her body?[/quote]
It depends on the man, of course. Some men do value personality over body type and some definitely value body type over personality. It's the same for women too. In fact, on average, we've met more women who are extremely picky about body type, etc. than men. And body type isn't the only thing that can be a deal breaker for people. Age is also a line in the sand for many swingers. For others, things like smoking or drug use can be big factors in choosing play partners. And there are MANY quite minor factors that people use to weed out people they may not want to play with.
I think it's probably because swinging is more or less a fantasy activity and people are looking for a certain type that hits most or at least some of their checkmarks for a fantasy partner.Those may be body type, hair color, ethnicity, age, or one of many other criteria.
The really interesting part, to me, is how people are often FAR more forgiving of certain physical characteristics in their own partner than they are in someone they want to have sex with. Yet they often get upset when other people also have that same attitude.
I do think, though, that people kind of get in their own way a little bit and in their search for the perfect swing playmate often overlook someone who is on many levels a good or even great match but not a perfect one. I think they're probably missing out on a lot of fun and a lot of good sex.
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