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Jealousy - Coping tips for the beginning swinger - I've read the articles on the site about jealousy, but I am hoping that some of you more seasoned swingers can give me some advice. Remembering back to when you first started, were there any times that jealousy and hurt crept up, despite your willingness to let your partner play? How did you deal with this (obviously besides talking it through with your partner?) For me, I can logically work through it, and know how I should feel, especially given the fact that I've been on the other side of things for 4 years, but now having him play, it makes me feel insecure and a little hurt. Help :)
Swingers ski trip to Colorado - - Hi, we are going on a Swingers ski trip to Colorado Feb. 4th-9th. We are looking for a couple or couples to go with us because it's much cheaper that way. It comes to $900 per couple for 5 nights at 1 bedroom apartment, lift tickets for 3 days of skiing, Airport round trip transfer. (Skis rent extra around $100 per person if you don't have your own).
To take virtual resort tour go here http://tours.360house.com/Viewer_pr.cfm?ID=71455
Look for one bedroom or Colorado suite. Looks like very good resort.
Here you can find more info on the trip http://www.astraveloffl.com/
We have been looking to go to Colorado for a while and can tell you that's a very good price.
Only transfer from Denver airport cost $200 round trip per person, 3 days lift tickets cost $200 if you buy it on line in advance and over $250 at the door. So, price worth it. Plus, skiing such a fun and Colorado is the only place in U.S. that comparable to famous european ski trails.
If you are a couple and want to go with us lets talk about it.
Please, be under 40. We prefer local to us couples so, we can meet and see if we all can live together in one apartment for five nights. :)
Ways to point out Swingers in public - - We’ve also heard the black ring on right hand thing (no middle finger, that signifies asexuality). Mine is a black version of The One Ring from LOTR but I’m a geek.
First time stories, wanna share? - - You can go to Alt.Sex.Stories (http://www.asstr.org/) or the Kristen Archive (http://www.asstr.org/~Kristen/). There are tons of stories, a few of which are actually well written, about swingers first times. You'll have to wade through some garbage to get tot he good ones unless things have changed since I was last there several years ago.
Mr. Sexperimentors
B_k_lovers - Getting over first-time jitters - ^^Most definitely
Honestly, a large part of the lifestyle (in our experience) is figuring out what you want and how to communicate that with other couples. Personally, I would not just strip unless I'm sure all 4+ people are on the same page.
They did a few seminars on this topic at Young Swingers Week in Jamaica last week. There were some good pointers there, such as using body language/touch (shoulder is casual, elbow is more interested, small of back is intimate) and gauging reactions. Or giving the other couple plenty of chances to say "yes" either through word or action by opening up opportunities to do so.
One of the things that we like to do as a couple is invite another couple (or single friend, or small group) over to play naughty board games. Turns out you can turn any game into a strip game if you're creative enough, and that's a good way to allow people to ease into whatever their comfort level is. Every gets as naked as they feel is comfortable, then you can start swapping "favors" or "truth or dare" style challenges or whatever instead of stripping once you're as naked as you want to be.
Which Motorcycle Survey? - In the market and want your opinion... - Oh, I have strong thoughts on this subject folks. And I am really doing my homework and shopping very thoroughly. I'm taking my time because I won't be buying until Feb/Mar at the earliest. And I've been watching the Can-Am develop over the past 3 years now. One of our nearby dealers carries them alongside Big Dog Choppers and Suzuki. Interesting line-up.
It's not that what others think will make my decision or unduely influence it, but I am interested in reading others' opinions and thoughts to compare to my own. And I'm checking with a few different demographic groups. Let's face it: swingers tend to march to the beat of their own drum more than most folks! LOL
I brought up the "cool factor" and image stuff in the context of what our own perceptions are of bike culture. I mentioned that we are cruiser types, not crotch-rocket people. I wear western style riding boots and a black leather jacket. But my jacket has armor inserts, all the modern upgrades, and even reflective piping on a traditional cruiser jacket frame. I wear a Bell military-style open face helmet and goggles. My wife rides a blacked out (Raven) 2011 Star Stryker. So we sort of blend the old w/the new a bit. I guess I'm hesitant about the style change.
Thanks for the input and please keep it coming. You're helping me cogitate. LOL
Utah Nude Beach Sunday - hike first then time at the beach - Can we shoot at the naked swingers? I promise I won't use high caliber ammo. [em]Emo_84[/em]
Friend collectors or swingers - - Is it just us or does this website seem to have more people interested in treating it like a Facebook account, collecting as many friends as possible with no intention of meeting and truthfully pursuing a LS relationship.
“Wow! Honey look at us we’ve got a hundred friends, where popular”. 😀😂
Seriously, if you plan on approaching us, let’s get past the every six months “hello” and let’s honestly get to know each other. We only accept friends and keep them if we are interested in pursuing more, meeting, establishing or at least trying to establish more than an online/pen pal/chat friendship.
How do you spot a Swinger..?! - tell tell signs of the lifestyle - I hate the term "swingers" it is such a label....its like saying "Gay"...to much generalization.
Sexuality is so much more about the moment then some stupid label, besides we have had WAY more fun with people who don't even consider themselves "in the lifestyle." Don't rule "Vanillas" out, they are better at living in the moment, and not over thinking the situation.
"Swingers" are flaky and scared, I for one am not sure why 3/4Th's of the people on this site are even on here, when it comes down to it they are full of shit. They don't even respond or no call/no show...blah!
My advice is if you see something you like, go for it...the worst they can say is no. What are they gonna do turn you into the swinging police?
Anyone interested in BDSM - Anyone interested in Bdsm? - Hello sexy people. Before we get a ton of replies suggesting specific kink sites we are aware of them and are not satisfied w the results
With all the open minded , sex positive attitudes of swingers we are hoping to meet likeminded people interested in any or all aspects of BDSM. Surely there must be some overlap on Swingilar with folks that like more extreme types of play? Just wondering...
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