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March Madness at Hedo III March 16-23 - March Madness with SunCoast Swingers - Sun, March 16
Pimp and Ho night ... Guys Just pimp it up ... Ladies where your most Ho outfit the more ho!!! the better
Mon, March 17
Pirate night !!!! Arrrrrrrr mates, get yer sexiest pirate gear, Arrrr winches, make them rummies, desperate to show there daggers ... arrrr shiver me timbers
Tue, March 18
Lingerie and Pajama night ... Your sexiest and daring !!!!! and if you sleep nude ... thats OK at disco ... but the lingerie and PJ's are good for dinner
Wed, March 19
Fetish !!!!! OK bring out the leather, whips and cuffs ... What ever your favorite fetish wear is !!!!!!!
Thur, March 20
TOGA !!!! TOGA!!! TOGA!!! Bring your favorite toga ... or make one there !!!! Hedo supplies the sheets and some instruction !!! Remember the rule!!! No underwear under your toga ... there is the panty police !!!
Fri, March 21
Jamaica night ... Black, Yellow and Green. Black for the people, Yellow for the sun and Green for the vegitation ... find some sexy colors and show the love for Jamaica
Sat, March 22
Wet and Wild ...mmmm but its Glitter, metallic, sequin and shimmer night... guys ... this is pretty much the ladies night to show there sexy stuff ...but if you have it wear it ...
Some of the games we have planned for example is NAKED TWISTER, FIND YOUR MATE and NAUGHTY DICE. Remember to bring a wrapped erotic gift for our chinese auction limit $20. This will be held at the Piano Bar(date and time to be announced)
Please bring school supplies and or simple meds we take for granted ...eg: cold meds, asprin, Tylenol, iboprofin even cough drops !!!!! Anything to help our friends in Jamaica
Couples Copulating - How the hell do ya match up? - We must be very lucky I guess. We've only been around since April and we strictly play with couples or a group. Both the guy and gal need to be accepted by both of us, and yes it's a hard combo to find. Even in a group situation we need to feel ok with EVERYONE involved. So for us that has meant we go to A LOT of parties and put ourselves out there and meet people. Because of that we have had several foursomes and even a couple eightsomes, and some of those have been repeats too. As we have met people we've found that we're actually doing pretty good as new swingers because we've found that a lot of people who play with only couples don't get to play too often. So we say try to get out a little more. It's numbers, the more you're out then the more chances you'll find exactly the combo you're looking for. We haven't compromised ourselves yet (taken one for the team) and don't plan on it. Your combo is out there, just gotta keep looking. (Take this advice for what it's worth coming from the new guy...lol)
The thin line in the sand. - Where does "cheating" begin? - I wrote this somewhere else...but hopefully it fits here.
"Fidelity.
What is it?
Most of you (some of you) might think I'm gonna come off as a hypocrite on this one. But please, bear with me.
Fidelity is a key issue with me in relationships. It's one of the only lines that exist that is an instant kill switch. I've been in relationships where I've had to pull that switch and watch the bodies fall. Then again, I look at the insane stance I take in my "Sexual Play" life.
Swingers.
Kink that plays with submissives.
Dangerous, flirtatious chat.
Both Domme and I have regular communication with past lovers.
Yet...faithful.
How does that make sense you ask?
Even when "Swinging" or involved in Kink "play" we always play together. Our communications are open. And in the end it all comes down to one very simple thing.
Trust.
So where does that leave Fidelity?
As a personal choice between two consenting adults."
That's my line...hope it helps!
-Mr. K_T
Single male in this lifestyle.. - I have questions for couples and single females. - [quote=BMSHELL][quote]why is it that girls and couples look for girls more than guys?[/quote]
So you're asking why do swingers prefer MFF instead of MMF?
Because most women in the life-style are bi-sexual to varying degrees, and most men are not. Not even a little bit. Thus, MFF becomes the "third wheel" combination that most swinger couples can enjoy together. (Versus MMF, which is really more just about pleasing the female).
Why is is to hard for a single-male to find a couple to play with? Well, see above.. most couples don't want MMF... and those that DO want MMF have about 10,000 of you to choose from. Supply and demand.
This isn't that complex.
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Yup. Tons more bi gals than bi guys. Probably 'cause, for just bunches of reasons, it's a lot more "acceptable" for a gal to like playing with gals than it is for guys to like playing with guys. And, as much as some of us see ourselves as rejecting society's "norms" and doing what we ourselves think is right, or acceptable, we still grew up in that society, had its standards pounded into us for years, and just can't truly get completely away from all of them. So more gals are likely to try it out and find out they like it. ~ Terry
KUTV News Story on Swingers - News - "Dark side of the lifestyle?" Just in time for Star Wars. I see your schwartz is as big as mine.
Looking to establish a group of safe swingers - - We are interested in a setup like this as well!
Married & single? - single minded affrairs? -
It is a double standard. We have meet several couples that would never consider a cheating guy, but would a cheating woman. I think some people ignore the double standard because of the Law of scarcity.
Married/relationship bound men that are exploring without their spouse are no different from Single men has been our experience.
If anyone Male or Female is having a sexual or emotional relationship without their primary partner's knowledge then they are cheating. It's not a matter of the quality or quantity or even if the partner had suspicions or not. It's a matter of trust which they are breaking by having a relationship that their partner would not approve of.
And yes the Law of Scarcity is accepted by many swingers in regard to a female wanting to explore.....including us.
WoW guild for swingers and like minded peeps :) - - Hi everyone.. there are currently a few of us running a small guild Horde side on The Forgotten Coast - we are known as 'Dirty Little Horde'. We'd like to extend an invitation to other like minded dirty peeps to come join us, because as we all know, the more the merrier ;) Look for Fragility, Cowthulu or Saucey ingame.
Thanks!
"Black Ring" or other Lifestyle insignia? - - We used to go to lifestyle "conventions" back in the day. A thousand or so couples taking over a hotel. Theme dances, seminars, an expo hall with anything and everything sexual. You were given wristbands when you registered to get into all the venues. It usually took about 4 or 5 hours for people (vanillas) at nearby hotels and such to hear about what was going on start looking for who was wearing those telltale wristbands. It would get so bad people (swingers) would just take them off or try to hide them under watches and jewelry. Can't imagine something like this wouldn't fairly quickly (especially with the internet) turn out the same or worse and for some reason not too many people seem to want to be identified as swingers when they're at the grocery store or out to eat with their families or in ANY public place. Imagine that![em]Emo_67[/em]
Mexico! Come with us!!! :) - Trying to put together a group of Swingers to go to Mexico with us! - Oh also it will depend on what type of room people want as well. For us we had a ocean view swim out Jr. Suite that we loved (the picture above was the sunrise view from our room) but some people might be happy to opt for just an ocean view or a pool view or something else that would be cheaper for that couple. Sooo let me know! And if you want to see more pictures from our trip I have some posted in our private picture album.
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