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Swingers of Color - - Odd that you say that, because a good many of our experiences have been with African-Americans. Hubby is also half Asian. Guess it depends on what region you live in.
single males - - Thank you for opening the topic. I hope that it will be used shed some insight and not just complain.
In a place like Habits there are vanilla singles that have no clue that swingers congregate there. So there will naturally be more problem in that environment than a private party.
At a house party the only people that should be there are those that are invited by the host and hostess. Every one of the guests should have known the rules or etiquette of this lifestyle. If you had complaints, they should have been addressed last night with the hosts. Evidently the balance you were looking for was not there.
Sadly it is difficult for most singles to figure out how to talk to a swinging couple. There are no schools or training centers to teach this. As a single male, conversation at a vanilla party with a couple is much easier. Most often the men and women separate and we talk with one or the other without expectations on either side. Sometimes conversation is just conversation.
I find that making friends is generally more difficult in this lifestyle because of the sexual expectations of many. I think that you will find a number of the single men, after getting the cold shoulder from many husbands, find it easier to attempt to talk to the women because they lack the skills to talk with both. It is a mistake but it is also part of the learning process.
There is no excuse for rude behavior on the part of the single male but neither is there an excuse for the typical married male attitude. Single males are always and have always been a pariah and dam few couples want them at any party. I came into this lifestyle as a single male looking to make male friends to hang with that would help me understand the rules. I found most of the males were cold and suspicious and difficult to talk with.
I was not looking for women to play with nearly as much as I was looking for a girlfriend that was already in the lifestyle. But I am sure that as far as most were concerned all I wanted to find was their wife
LVSTRIPPERBABE IS BACK!! I missed you guys!! Any swingers in Col - - Glad to see ur back..Monica.. We try to reply but ur not accepting msgs for some reason..
Here or AFF - - [quote=IFTownFuck]Saw a few posts that seemed to cut out the words/sites. Which ones are they[/quote]
sls is swingers lifestyle. aff is adult friend finder, i am thinking this is what u are looking for
Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - Neat to see everyone's rides.
Mine. Hand built by yours truly, 302 Mustang. Daily driver. Been everywhere from Pensacola to Key West in this car. over 250,000 miles on the chassis.
[img]http://i39.photobucket.com/albums/e183/bluestreak363/Mustang/euro01.jpg[/img]
Question - do you talk about other swingers? - We never use names just describe situations to illustrate what type of things we do. The only time I could imagine using names is if you went to house party and all concerned know you were all there. Then would use general terms of what mutual experiences we had at the party but no specifics we may have done with the people on a one on one basis. Discretion is paramount.
In need of advice - sexual - [quote=ANDRAYWAY_SHANAYNAY]I just have to say it amazes me how judgmental swingers can be... you would think from the outside looking in that they wouldn't be. [/quote]
Not judging just yet, I do that and make a fool of myself more than I want to admit. But in this case I am trying to see something real..
Have you considered he might be a single male posing as married? We have seen that a few times over the years. My point is there is no one to validate him or his story. When we have differences of opinions or ask for advice on the site we recognize who we are talking about and can respect or have some faith in what they are saying.
I believe if your going to talk about a specific person in a negative way on a forum they should have the right to see it and defend themselves.
The let down. - - Tammy = Shy as hell
Blueeyes = Flirty Bitch
Buzzed Blueeyes = Horny Flirty Bitch
I think people react to how the situation around them makes them feel. For instance, I don't care how hot you are, if you are wearing a black business suit and their is a coffin anywhere near I'm not going to get turned on. But if you are chatty, flirty, engaging me mentally later over sliced ham, funeral potatoes, and jello salad, I might actually mentally go there....but you will never know it.
Meet and Greets are 6 one way, half a dozen the other. I react to the chemistry that is present. No chemistry, no playtime. I think people need to get away from the assumption that getting naked is a requirement just because 2 swingers are in proximity with each other. It's ok to hold out for a connection - physical or mental. It doesn't make you any less of a swinger if you don't fuck everyone you meet. Altho if you do, it might make you dehydrated.
There is a whole host of reasons why or why not. Control what you can, fuck the rest. Figuratively and literally.
xox
Tammy
Are you still interested! - Dynamics amoung swingers - We have experienced this also...I think it gets to be a friendship, which involves emotional attachments...Even though so many claim "friends first," they do not want friends, they want someone they can talk to and then jump into the sack with...but that is it...no emotions...
Just his opinion...not a fact nor something he has researched...just opinion based on experiences...
Other Swinger sites in Utah - Anyone tell us of other sites? - [quote=SUENDAN]Here are the sites we use and our username there. Look us up and we'll show you around (couples only)
swinglifestyle.com
2NParadisse. They offer lifetime membership. One of the best sites ever for USA and Canada, eh?
aff.com
2NParadisse and DanNSuzy. If you sing up as a couple your membership will turn into a gold membership after about a month. Don't spend your money there on memberships, just wait until your profile turns into a gold profile and you'd have access to everything. We've been there since 1998 lol. Still a very good site, always evolving and we meet new people there often. Met our first couple there. Good globally also a few profiles from Mars.
sdc.com
FlorDCanela. I think this site is best for the East Coast. We meet people there occasionally. U have to pay.
kasidie.com
2NParadisse. not our cup of tea but sometimes good for party info. Some people in SoCal swear by it.
reddit.com the swingersr4r and other subreddits
FunMachina. We had been super lucky there for over a year meeting couples in their 20's lol. This is a free and unexploited gem.
In Spain we used onswingers.com
FlorDCanela. very good but limited to Spain and is in Spanish.
UK/Europe c4fonline.com - not so good for us when we were in Spain.
fling.com some people contacted us from there once.
Locanto.com kinda like what CL used to be. Not much going on there. Weirdos.
https://www.newbienudes.com/ has some potential. I just have not looked into it yet because we always have something going on when we decide to get out and play.
Regular dating apps like tinder, kindle.. you can open a profile of your lady seeking other ladies, just say that you are married and hubby wants to join too. And then... Bingo! You entered the Unicorn Realm!
Also non website nor non swinger party contacts:
Just take your lady to a strip joint and have her make friends with the girls. This works good in SoCal where girls are less professional. Could work in Vegas but good luck, they are real hustlers there.
Also, the wife and I were on a non-swingers date the just 2 of us, went to have a beer and play pool. This other couple was checking us out. We started chatting normally and pleasantly. The girl told me my wife was very cute. So, I told the girl, "my wife just said the same about you, how funny!" Ended up MFMF later at their place.
UPDATES: Lifestylelounge.com: use it if is free. otherwise not worth a penny. old profiles, abandoned page.
trueswingers.com review coming soon.
bisexualplayground.com met a couple there once. Not sure if still up.
alt.com seen it looks like whips and chains stuff.
Gone but not forgotten:
Craigslist Personals. Those were good to meet couples but tons of weirdos.
SwingDater.com met a long term couple there.
playersxchange.com a buddy's site. gone.
swingerads.com
We don't do much apps. [/quote]Wow how do you manage being on all those?
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