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Friendship vs. spontaneity? - Are you here to make friends or just to fuck? - The perception of this lifestyle is that there is a whole lot of sex going on between everyone. Maybe if you are young slim and trim and willing to go to bed with everyone at the drop of a hat that is true. But that pretty much describes the young anyway. If that is your perception of all swingers, and you are here in Utah, then you are bound to be disappointed.
I think that this question comes up a lot because it is not a simple question for many of us and it seems to be posted by those seeking friends first. The end goal may be sex. But if that is your only goal then why do you say you are seeking friends. Friendships are not made in 30 seconds or a drink over at the pub. If that is what makes friendships in your mind then you are really just here for sex.
For us it is finding friends. Some folks that we meet we will play with and some we will be just friends with. It really boils down to a 4 way vote when it comes to the bedroom and maybe even being friends in the first place. And that is what makes finding friends and bedroom partners difficult. There is always the added fear of rejection that gets in the way when you want to anything anyone.
I look at all the complaints of one-nighters and couples that never speak again after sex. I can only surmise that for those folks sex is the only yard stick of friendship. You do not have to be sexually compatible to be friends.
We have found that if what you are looking for is friends, then it is easy to be part of the lifestyle. If what you are looking for is based on having sex then it is easy to be disappointed and difficult to be part of the lifestyle.
Furthermore we look at those that just want to screw and think how lonely their existence must be.
thoughts on Pictures - - Just our 2 cents on the subject.......Some people have to protect themselves for reason of job, family, community and what have you. Here we have no problem with a genital shot AS LONG as they have facial or g-rated full pics to back up what they show. We have g-rated that we are glad to send to others once we get to know them a bit and b/4 we would meet. We have seen on other sites, people using other peoples pictures and have seen some pictures that were removed from a certain site and openly posted on the internet. We are sure that most people do not want their pastor, mayor or next door neighbor to receive a picture of them shouting to the world that they are swingers!
Again, just our 2 cents on the subject.
Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - 2010 F150 Lariat, 2012 Jeep Wrangler Rubicon Unlimited, 2012 Street Glide, and 2007 Heritage, All broke in except for Jeep
Help us out.. Take this Survey - For Utah Swingers - Did it and thanks for helping us have more fun
LDS Swingers Survey - Will any former/active LDS swingers take my survey? - and done!
What sets you apart from other swingers - Lets see whos looking for what. - I think ironhorse needs to cum to UT for a visit....I LOVE the single men ;) Oh wait the thread....LOL
What sets me out from the crowd: Well I dont think Im better then anyone else, but I do like to make sure everyone around me is having a good time. :) I have a "bouncy" personality. When I do get to go out, I make the most of it and have a GREAT time whatever I'm doing.
What gives me an edge: I think because I am VERY expressive sexually. When Im being pleasured you can see, hear, feel, taste, and smell the enjoyment. I have been told that I am better then watching porn.
I LOVE being on cam. I LOVE knowing that I can excite people just by them seeing me. Maybe it's a little power trip, but its fun, and I sometimes do pretend while I'm on cam but that's only at night after the little ones are in bed and I can REALLY show off. ;)
My talent is the ablity to turn on everyone in the room. I am great entertainment. I love to make sure everyone is having a good time. I have also been told I give great lap dances. My weakness...... I'm not going to let out ALL my secrets hehe.
My spot is my neck just below my ear. Lightly kissing and licking that area sends zingers down my legs and makes them quiver. Oh my. hehe
Of course my G-spot gets me squirting like a faucet. Better have lots of towels handy around when you even get close to there. ;)
What is up with Utah?! - Swingers in Utah and nowhere else? - There are some here in OHIO! Go Bucks!
How close is too close - - FITZNBELINDA
Actually, swinging will very quickly bring out and magnify flaws in a relationship, even in good relationships. The difference is that a good relationship/marriage will use this info to increase the trust and communications and make that relationship stronger.
You asked about swingers as compared to the general public... The divorce rate in the general public is between 66 and 77% depending on which figures you are looking at.. THis is both for 1st and 2nd marriages. Approx 70% of all married people, both male and females, in the general public, now will admit to extramarital affairs. Since extramarital sex is the essence of swinging that is not an issue but marriages in the swinging community are stable approximately 85% of the time or only 15% of swingers marriages fail... as compared with 75% failure in the general public... In other words non swingers are 340% more likely to get divorced than swigners... or 3.4 times as likely.
Respect is one thing but sometimes Stuff just happens. We don't ask for it we are not open for it but still it still happens.... My love for others has no effect on my wife and my relationship.. She understand who I will be going home with and that I don't wish to cause others grief.. If people are honest with themselves as well as others and you respect people enough to understand what's going on and care about their feelings you just walk away before any damage is done...
Creating an Amazing Swingers Profile - How to market yourself better - Glad this thread had some current comments. It's very funny with an aweful lot of truth. What more could you ask for.
video chat rooms for southeastern couples - ??? - does anyone know of any good chat rooms for swingers on this side of the country?
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