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Single male in this lifestyle.. - I have questions for couples and single females. - At the risk of restating for the millionth time...
Cold hard truth time, JOSH. Single guys in the lifestyle are a dime a dozen (that's a really old fashioned way of saying there are a LOT of you). And believe it or not you all claim you're super spiffy dudes (you're not...not all of you anyway). If you all WERE super duper All American boy-next-door stud muffins you'd have girls falling all over you and we wouldn't be having this (single male) conversation for the bazillionth time.
So let's do the math. There are a LOT of single guys in the lifestyle (despite some who would argue that singles aren't really swingers). There are fewer couples in the lifestyle and even fewer single ladies (again despite that 'swingles aren't swingers' argument). So even factoring in the fact that ALL swinger females are insatiable minxes who have sex almost continuously there just isn't enough time in the day for them to get around to fucking each and every single guy. Sorry, man.
My advice to you, and you aren't gonna like it, is to take all those amazing qualities you possess and find a hottie of your own that you can go out into the wild world of swingdom and share with other people. Swinging really is a couple centric activity. There's a reason it used to be called "wife swapping" and people wearing like disco clothes and gold chains and stuff used to go to key parties. Can you imagine the chaos that would have ensued if a bunch of single guys threw their keys in the bowel at a key party?
ps- If you'd rather not find a woman to swing with and prefer to keep your single male status my advice to you would be to grow a very thick skin, become more patient than a Buddhist monk and never ever ever come across as desperate or WORSE pissy that you don't feel like you're getting your fair share of hot swinger tail.
Is this one of your rules? What is it? is it fear? or something - Does everyone feel this way? - For the record, we're fuck first, friends later types. We didn't become swingers to make new friends. We could have joined the Rotary Club for that. LOL Frankly, we like our non-swinging life. We became swingers to add a few special "others" to our already great sex life. It was about fulfilling some group fantasies and the wife's bi-curiousness that did it for us.
It's a LOT more serious for us to decide to be friends with someone than it is for us to decide whether or not to fuck them. It takes a LOT longer than deciding "do 'em/don't do 'em" does.
With that said, we HAVE made a few great friends from swinging that we wouldn't have met otherwise and wouldn't trade for the world. And that fact that we are good friends AND swingers makes these relationships really cool.
But we have found that most folks don't actually "get real" until after the first sex anyway. Before that, everyone is guarded and on their best behavior. We're too old and wise to choose our friends based on first impressions.
Young swingers party - sold out, who still wants to party ? - [quote=EVILDOERS][quote=LOOKIN4FUN369][quote=RECON]It's funny how it says young swingers party for those under 45. Such a percentage of the peeps who RSVP'd are over that, or are lying. [/quote]
They are wanting to creep up on the attractive 20's and 30's olds. [/quote]
Well they ARE pretty easy to creep up on. Most of them have their noses buried in their phones 24/7.
[img]http://sd.keepcalm-o-matic.co.uk/i/be-very-calm-because-i-m-creeping-up-behind-you.png[/img] [/quote]
Welcome to modern society
BUSTED! Your Kids Found Out Your Swingers. Now What? - - IMO, you wouldn't explain yourself about your monogamous "vanilla" sex life or activities, so why would you about this?
The subject of this thread was about your kids finding out. I'm not sure what age group of kids we're talking about and that can make a big difference. If they are adult children, you can simply tell them you are sorry they had to find out about it and regret that it makes them uncomfortable but it is your private life and will leave it there...in private. I think it is wise to reassure them that you will not do anything to embarrass them (start acting differently around them or other family members, etc.) and that nothing between you and them will change. Before they found out you were still the parent they loved and this will continue now.
If they are young children, it can be a little more complicated. The questions aren't just about the lifestyle but also about sex since they are probably learning and curious about the topic in general. But, you could keep it very simple (& age appropriate) and explain that sex is something adults enjoy privately and that if they have any questions about sex (emphasis not on swinging) you will be happy to answer.
If they pursue asking about swinging, I would just share that this is something better explained when they are a little older and that honesty and communication are valued so you will try to be as honest as you can be. However, you don't need to go into detail IMO. Often, kids are looking more for your reaction and some reassurance and aren't quite as concerned with the actual "words". They want to know their world isn't being disrupted.
The rest of your post mentioned family members, etc. Again, you would never feel obligated sit around and discuss the details of a vanilla sex life so it isn't necessary to discuss the details of swinging.
You could share that if someone has a private question they would like to ask they can if that's the kind of relationship you have with them. But, you can also add that you will only do so if comfortable.
I might stress or emphasize that you and your partner have an open and honest relationship that you enjoy together. There are a number of factors that go into enhancing that relationship making it so special and that they've stumbled onto one area that you've incorporated/explored. You appreciate that it might not be for everyone and you wouldn't expect everyone to understand but that you sincerely hope they would also be as considerate to not judge the two of you. I might add that while you've tried to be candid when answering their questions, you only ask in return that they respect your privacy and not share what they've learned or discussed with anyone else. Include them into the agreement by explaining that you will extend to them the same discretion they extend to you.
Who knows...one of them may have been curious about exploring the lifestyle and you might just be that one person they feel comfortable asking about it.
At the same time, people can be very judgemental so protect yourselves. However these family members found out...it could happen again if that avenue hasn't been fixed. I'm sorry this got so long-winded and I could write so much more. Whew!!! Good luck with this!
Sexy New Year's Photos - Post up ur sexy NYE or NY pics! - . . . then we were destined to become swingers because . . . I think 'gnome' is the sound my boys made while racing their trucks along the kitchen floor . . . you know . . . gnome . . . gnome .. . . gnoooooooommmmeee!
Be safe - Get vaccinated as soon as you can - Stay sexy in the New Year
Why swingers are happier. - - A study from New Zealand proving that swingers are happier than other people.
[url=http://now.msn.com/sex-makes-people-happiest-per-new-study]Swingers are happier![/url]
BUSTED! Your Kids Found Out Your Swingers. Now What? - - ok, if i wanted you to know more about me i would put my pic. on the site and tell you more about me ....i don't....!!! as for children that found out about your lifestyle and successfully continued life as normal good for you , you had good luck...as for my job and spelling i bet you a d.p. fuck that obama knows less spelling then i do ... .lol. as how do i know what i say "I successfully striped parents from the right to live with their children and placed them in foster home care , got it?????? "
If That's What You Are Into Video - Just seems perfect for swingers - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pY8jaGs7xJ0
Seeking Single Males in Tampa - Looking for single guys for gangbang group in Tampa - We are putting together a group of single guys to provide groupsex/gangbang parties for those ladies who are inclined in our area. We have many friends in the Tampa/Orlando area that are looking for this.
Here are the rules:
1. You must contact us and provide pictures of both your face and body. We are looking for attractive, in-shape guys between 25 - 45 for this group.
2. You must be willing to provide documented proof of no STD's.
3. You must understand fully that these parties are no strings sex and not an invitation into any relationship with any of the women.
4. You should be comfortable performing for the ladies in a group environment. You will be expected to be straight, but ok with performing oral and anal sex on the ladies. You will also be expected to participate in DP with those who seek it. Special consideration will be given to those singles who have done this in the past and have recommendations from couples in the lifestyle.
5. You should be comfortable with pictures at the events as many of the couples will be interested in taking photos of the fun. The pictures will not be used for anything other than private collections, and faces will always be removed.
6. You will be required to meet me and my husband at a bar (or something similar) first to verify your real, punctual, and who you've said you are.
We are hoping to get a core group of 6-10 guys who will be able to attend these parties every month or so. They will sometimes take place on weekends and sometimes on weeknights. You will not be expected to make every event, and will never be expected to do anything beyond your comfort level.
Lastly, there will never be any charge for anything at these events. This is a service for swingers, and as such is for fun only. No amount of money will get you into the group, and once in, you will never be charged for anything.
If interested please send us information about yourself and we'll begin putting the group together. Once this gets going, I think it will be a lot of fun.
Swingers of Color - - Trust me... we're here... just too busy to take pics of the action....LOL
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