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Friend collectors or swingers - - My opinion, which hasn't changed in ages, is this, and I'm not chastising anyone, just offering my 2 cents.
One of the recurring and biggest problem that swingers face is that they decide what they personally like, or want, and then assume everyone else should choose the same path or they don't understand why how everyone else doesn't feel the same way they do. I've read the forum posts for years and the same questions recirculate on a regular basis. "Why don't people want to be the type of swingers we are?" "We don't want friends, we just want to have sex." "We don't necessarily want to have sex until we are friends." "We really only want friends but rarely play." All valid forms of the lifestyle and perfectly acceptable to different people.
The lifestyle can take work. It typically isn't easy and will take some time and effort to achieve your lifestyle goals. Sure it's helpful to post your desires in your profile but I'm sure people read those only rarely, or maybe they are drunk searching, or maybe they can't read. :) There are all types. Try not to get frustrated because someone else isn't following you lead. Be patient. Within one or two convos you should be expressing your goals and figuring out the goals of the people you are trying to get to know. Get a system that weeds out the people you are't interested in, something that works for you. You will get better with time and hopefully someday what you are looking for will be much easier to find.
However, until then, realize life isn't black and white, nor is swinging. There are as many varieties of swingers as there are ice cream flavors, or flavored condoms. haha. Don't expect others to want the same thing as you but certainly look for those that do. Be patient, kind and realize everyone is possibly looking for a different scenario than you. Some people love to send blind requests, some hate it. Right or wrong, it's life. Accept that there is mound of bullshit between you and that perfect couple/single male/female/trans/group/poly/donkey/toys only/DTF.... (Well, you get the point we are all looking for something different)that you are looking for.
So don't be frustrated. Accept it will be a challenge and work on better ways to make your life easier. There won't be a good answer only many shades of grey.
"Don't try to bend the spoon, for that is impossible. Instead, only try to realize the truth... there is no spoon. Then you will see it is not the spoon that bends, it is only yourself."
And to the single males that post ridiculous stuff? WTF? Ugh. You make us all look like mentally disabled Neanderthals.
"Me have dick. Me like pussy. Stick it good."
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - That's where he got it. He broke out the thesaurus to show us all on the forum, how educated and deep he is. LOL! Someone used that word to describe him and he had to bust out a Websters... HAHAHA!
He wrote:
"Kristylynn... Alton... who really gives a shit if one's grammer and or spelling is not perfect..I would offer this.. " a pecksniffian"
I think anyone that spells grammar, "grammer", whilst trying to give people vocabulary lessons from a websters reference set, is fuckin' priceless in the dumbshit sense. Way to go buddy. Talk about hypocrisy. Look up the word "irony". Oh and sorry to keep you waiting. LOL!
He also wrote:
"Some people on here think way beyond their mental ability."
I think he proves that point himself. LOL!
-D-
New Swingers Club in Utah - Gauging interest in new club - We would attend as well about 2x a month or so. The ones we've been to in Las Vegas were fun but one was dirty and nasty. I would think a good dance area along with a pool table and seating area along with play rooms would be great. A big community type play room as well as individual play rooms or a room with windows would be fun. The main thing is keeping it clean! There's nothing worse than going into a dirty, disgusting play area.
swingin - thought this site was a swingers site - I think "Forum" is about being able to talk about any thing you want....doesnt have to be about just sex. If you want just sex or friendship, talk to people individually........ Just my thoughts :)
Jenn
Camp Dan - Adult Lifestyle Camping - Camp Dan is no longer just for men, Camp Dan is now a campground for all Adults who share a live and let live attitude. This Saturday night Sept 18th Camp Dan will be hosting a open house camp (free Camp night) for all men and women who are bi or swingers (singles or couples) we are in the possess of changing some of the info on our website to be more current so keep checking back for updated info on the site. But here is just some basic info.
Camp Dan is an all adult (21&up) campground. We are dedicated to serving open-minded free spirited men and women who share a live and let live attitude. Camp Dan offers an atmosphere free of children and is truly a place where you can be yourself and escape reality even if it
Swingers In Uniform - Pay your memorial day respects here. - We salute and appreciate all the members of the military. We know that our very lives and our hard earned freedoms are a direct result of what thay sacrifice in order to keep us all safe. We have attached our Memorial Day Salute to all veterans..........
AZ nudist resorts - - Resort might be a stretch. Shangri La Ranch in New River is more of a trailer park with a pool. Pool is well kept, rent able rooms are available but are dated and just OK, well maybe just a little less than OK. Weekdays the residents are a little bit more mature. On weekends the day pass folks are a little younger. We have never encountered any swingers but enjoy the pool and sun. Usually stay off site and day pass, but you haven't lived until you have seen naked karaoke.
Question - do you talk about other swingers? - Smoke....
It's a fine line, being discreet and wanting to share bad experiences. I think you hit the nail on the head with your 'share with friends' comment.
I have a few couples that I spend time with who 'look out for me'. They know that I see single guys and are pretty frank with me when they have a bad experience. In fact, recently, I got an IM from one of them that started, "in your ongoing quest to find the ultimate single man, AVOID _______ at all costs" It was pretty funny.
I appreciate these people who look out for me...... you know who you are !!!
Better to share the great experiences eh?
Enjoy!
-Te
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - AKLIM,
Saying pitbulls are a dangerous breed would be as inaccurate as saying all mexicans are illegal and are on welfare, all blacks like fried chicken and listen to rap music or all whites live in a trailer park and fuck their sister.
There are dangerous Pitbulls, just as there are dangerous German Shepards and Golden Retrievers. It does not make it right to assume all are just because some are. Pitbulls are not the "most dangerous" breed by nature. The have a higher risk of attack, because many people mistreat them because of how they fight. Mis/Disinformation, ignorance and insecurity is what perpetuates intolerance
-D-
Why are there so many swingers from Utah? - - personally, we believe that it has something to do with how conservative this state is. it is our belief that ultra-conservative enviroments result in built up tension that is then released in a more risque manner. i think you would find similar type issues in a highly catholic area or the bible belt, etc.
but we consider ourselves lucky. you just never know when that hot little mormon girl is going to decide to live out some fantasies. we have been on the receiving end of a few of those and hopefully will with a few more.
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