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Swinging/Polyamory - I just wanted to hear other people thoughs on this....... - Posted By: XPLORR94248 Reply posted on:
Nov 10, 2007 - 12:11 pm
Poly people generally take issue with swinging as be strictly recreational SEX! and no love where as poly, supposedly, is love based not necessarily any sex....but sex usually is involved at some level. The attitude is that swinging is not a good thing that swinging is diametrically opposed to poly.
So while there are some similarities in swinging and poly in that more and more swingers are looking for relationships, i.e., "friends with benefits" ; "Friends in and out of the bedroom". These friendships are based on attraction and sex after the attraction. Poly people take the concept that poly is based on loving someone and if sex happens then OK, but that love is the key and sex is at best secondary.
I would say that swinging (full swap, soft swap) IS recreational sex. It ISN'T about falling in love with someone. That poly people would think swinging is bad because it is diametrically opposed to poly doesn't surprise me one bit. Kinda like me being a Grand Dragon of the KKK thinking that people who even can think of having a relationship with a black person are sick in the head. To a poly person, the only difference between them and a "normal" person is that they have more than one person with whom they have love in the relationship. "Normal" people also think spouse swapping is a bad idea too. Again, no surprise.
I would say that swinging and poly have only one similarity and that is that they are having sex with somebody that they are not legally married to and the spouse is fine with it. Beyond that, I don't see the similarities.
How to find other swingers - - those are cool, we never knew:)
Carnival Inspiration out of Tampa - 5 day cruise Nov. 7th - 12th - We are doing a 5 day cruise on the Carnival Inspiration with a small group of swingers from Nov. 7th through the 12th. We got a great deal of $299/person. Can't wait to kick back, relax, and have some sexy fun. Would love to see some more sexy people join us on board.
Taking one for the team - Put a picture of your male half in your profile! - [quote=EVILDOERS]First of all, NOBODY should fuck someone they don't want to fuck. Having said that, though, we've found that "taking one for the team" is usually somewhat relative. It seems to quite often be the case that if you actually LOOK hard enough for attractive qualities in other people you are apt to find them. At least one or two qualities! LOL
We've almost never encountered another couple where one of us was attracted to one of them and their partner was completely unattractive. I guess if someone is reasonably attractive they're pretty unlikely to end up with someone who isn't attractive at all.
But we've also found (and yes, we're guilty of this sometimes as well) that many people sort of get in their own way, so to speak, when it comes to looking for people to play with and, often, almost look for reasons NOT to play and, in effect, end up talking themselves out of playing.
When we first started in the lifestyle it was FAR more labor-intensive (no internet swingsites) to look for other couples and there were far fewer swingers as well so if you were extremely picky you pretty much didn't ever actually end up playing. By the time most people jumped through all the hoops you had to jump thru to find other couples most people were pretty predisposed to playing, unless they were really turned off for some reason.
Now, it seems like there are just so many options, literally right at our fingertips, that perhaps it's just a little too easy to keep swiping left...always looking for the bigger, better deal. Again, don't fuck someone you really don't want to fuck but also, maybe, consider digging just a little deeper and see if you can't find something compelling about a person that could lead to a really great time in bed. What's that old saying about sex and pizza? [em]Emo_70[/em] [/quote]
Very well stated EVILDOERS.
Camper talk - Swing parties in campers have you done it - [quote=2F4U]Where do you find these groups[/quote]
There is a group on Facebook of RV swingers and nudist... called PERVs, Pineapple Express RV group. You can request to join. It’s a PG group but if you want some people that camp and swing then it maybe just the thing your looking for.
friday night - whats everyone doing - Drinks games pool hottub bedroom fun :-) anyone have a pool or hottub :-)
not just another night at a bar listening to drunks trying to sing lol. Swingers party at the bar however is always good.
maybe BBQ with some drinks and a fire pit.
Throwing ideas out there :-)
Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - [quote=JACKANDJILL69]I love dp and dvp, would love to find a couple where the F half is into the same. It would make for a real fun evening. [/quote]~hand waving like hailing a taxi~
We have heard about it many times........... - Couples that are swingers - SWEET!!!! I would chalk that up to plus for me. It's like getting popped for prostitution as a male. I would love to have that on my police record.
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Swinger & 🦄 Bait - An experiment to attract swingers and unicorns. - unicorn bait won't tell lure me in;)
Another way to identify swingers - Totally hot T-Shirts - they look like nice party wear.. or swinger event wear.. I would buy a few The main problem is We would have to buy like 5 tops for her. and well a couple of items for me because we're always looking for something different..
Maybe we'll just get one of each of the buttons..
on a side note I do like my pendant I got at the bliss NYE party.. Those are awesome and discreet. The main problem is getting ALL Swingers to embrace a certain LOGO
Its like AFF VS SWINGULAR VS SWAPPERNET VS SLS>. Etc..
All pretty much the same Yet different too
LOL
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