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Swingers In Uniform - Pay your memorial day respects here. - I can't thank you guys enough for all that you have done for us. I have countless vets and active military in my family and frienships. You guys ROCK!!! This is honestly my FAVORITE song and it make me teary eye everytime I hear it. And this thread is so fitting for it. http://www.sceniclasvegas.com/proud_to_be.html

What do you like about swinging? - - 1) I just like bangin' lots of peeps! 2) It's a total ego trip that lots of people will actually fuck me. 3) It's a huge rush playing chicken with STD's. 4) I like playing relationship Russian Roulette. 5) I simply get bored fucking the same person all the time. 6) It's my way of thumbing my nose at Judeo-Christian values and morals. 7) Simple. I HATE paying for sex. 8) I feel like I owe it to humanity to share my rockin' bod. 9) I just like those little swinger meatballs in the Crock Pot at the buffet table. 10) Well...I don't have any other hobbies. 11) I like having a deep dark secret. 12) I don't have a hot tub and most swingers do. 13) I don't actually swing. I just tease people and lead them on then CRUSH their egos. 14) I like swinging because it momentarily decreases the crushing loneliness of my life. 15) It makes my pee pee (or vajayjay) feel good. 16) I like it cuz I wanna see if everyone else's junk looks the same as mine. 17) Mommy/daddy issues. 18) I bought a pallet of condoms at Costco and hate to waste money.

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Slowing Things Down - An argument for taking your time. - That's a lot.... did ya'll cramp up typing this? Whew ! On the topic, we are always friends first... it makes the actual play much better ( in our own humble opinion ) [quote=DELICIOUSLYWET]A nice, slow, buildup might be ideal. In the vanilla world, the buildup often begins long before the first date. You meet a co-worker, or a fellow student, or someone who you see at the coffee shop, and there is some immediate attraction, and eventually you connect on a more physical level. If we are hoping to make those sort of connections, within the swinging lifestyle community, then we are going to have to find a way to run into lifestyle people frequently, and casually. If there is no, or limited opportunities to just run into swingers, enough to build relationships like that, then the way we end up meeting is through dating. If you are swiping right and you are vanilla dating, online, if there is shared chemistry and attraction, you will have a second date and so on and so forth. If the chemistry is super hot, even in the vanilla world, people sometimes fuck on the first date. If the sexual intimacy was superb, that might just accelerate the depth of the shared communications, the amount, and the quality of the time together. The way we see it, if there is some super hot chemistry, on a swinging date, if sexual intimacy happens, the same sort of acceleration in the relationship might happen. It might not. If it doesn't and the sex was good, well, good sex beats mowing the lawn. For us, we raised five kids, who all grew up to be happy, healthy successful adults. All but one of our kids have significant others. Some have kids, which makes us grandparents. Our kids and our grandkids, really like us, love us, and we really like and love them, so we spend a lot of time together. We have friends from work and friends from the neighborhood, and we have jobs. Seriously, dating, at the level we dated, when we were wooing each other, in terms of time, well we just don't have it. If non-monogamy was the openly celebrated norm, and friends openly fucked each other, as a normal part of a friendship, then we would all just naturally end up in those sorts of relationships. Well, except the assholes. Assholes don't flow into meaningful relationships. They take advantage of people's vulnerabilities and loneliness. Manipulation isn't friendship. Demanding people, who wish to break you into the vision of their expectations don't want to be your friend. No give, just take. You'll never be able to give them enough. You owe them nothing, and yet, they will shame you for not giving them exactly what they want when they want it. If we can all just avoid the assholes, then what we do get to share with good caring people, is a privilege and for lack of a better term, a blessing. Good people, reaching out, accept and defend each other's vulnerabilities, even if that means some disappointment and patience, and that takes an honest caring person. Sexual desire honestly expressed is surrounded with vulnerability, and romance even more. I changed subjects there for a moment. Since what swingers do is considered taboo, as a social norm, then that leaves dating. Let's face it. Dating is hit and miss, when it comes to making a lasting connection. When four people are involved dating becomes maybe a bit more complicated. We are not apposed to the slow burn buildup. If we meet someone and there is a spark, that is the motivation. If there really is a nice shared spark, and they want to jump ahead and build the fire, we probably won't say no. [/quote]

Am I hot or not.... - - :s Another SM looking for attention. What is this site coming to? I have not had a problem with the overly generous tolerance of SMs on this site, but lately it seems like SMs are getting out of control. If you have ever been to a nice swinger club in Florida, you will see the difference between Friday (SMs welcome) and Saturday nights (couples only). The reason: the SM "Towel Sharks" circle around the play areas looking to watch couples and maybe even get some for themselves. Sometimes the SMs get so aggressive with the couples, it often creates conflicts and drives couples away. On this site we are all supposed to be nice to the SMs and not bash them. I understand the need to be civil and respectful to everybody. I also know many of the couples here enjoy hooking up with SMs (we are guilty of that multiple times ourselves). Of course, many SMs are nice guys who lay low and don't cause problems. Having said that... This post, the Mr. "Save-A-Life" post, and all the other stupid SM "Look at ME" posts, are really screwing this site up. In our book (and probably the majority of other reasonable people's opinions) SWINGERS are "couples" looking for other "couples". Sure swinger couples often look for a single to join, but its usually a female (highly prized) and not a male (over supply). SMs are not swingers. They are looking for some poontang and all too often they assume that swingers have loose women to share with them. Come on guys... get your own girl and THEN join the party. Hanging around here, perving on pics, and hoping for some strange, does not make you a SWINGER! With an over-supply of SMs, they have to resort to aggressive self-promotion in order to get noticed. This silly thread here is another example of that. Come on people. Its time to stop "feeding the cats".

What is up with Utah?! - Swingers in Utah and nowhere else? - We just moved from Utah to Florida, hopefully we will meet and make some new friends here! We sure made alot of good friends there and do really miss all of you, I dont know if I will be able to convince the other half to go back for visits or not . Any way Utah does have alot of fun,nasty, exciting couples. We hope to find that fun here as well . D and J

Translating Personals/Swingers Ads - - ROFLMAO! Okay, now it all makes sense!

TOUGH MUDDER - We're putting together a team for a Tough Mudder - :( there has to be some athletic swingers out there. There just HAS to be. LOL

How to get over your hang-ups - - This was posted on the net and felt it was worth a fun read for a swingers posting, even though is was targeted to the mainstream of life. The advice given was a good theraputic read for all who desire to better themselves and their partners in this lifestyle. How to get over your hang-ups There are a lot of reasons that sex can be complicated. First off, different people have different drives, desires and expectations. Then there's the fact that we all carry baggage from childhood, past relationships and previous encounters. Add to this that our culture creates hang-ups about how we look, what we feel and how we act on it, and it's no surprise that what goes on in the bedroom can be a recipe for confusion. But it doesn't have to be. If you let go of your inhibitions - and these seven deadly sins of sex - you may find yourself in a closer, more intimate relationship

Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - What could possibly a better car than a "Woodie". We have a 47 Pontiac Woodie wagon. Its a great car, fun to drive and yes we get a lot of jokes about having a woodie.