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Burnt out from searching - - [quote=ThroughTheVeil]Maybe the problem is that you're shooting too high?
I mean, don't get me wrong, everyone has their preferences, and at the end of the day, you shouldn't do anything (or anyone) you don't want to, but were in a similar boat of having to reach out a lot and getting rejected, a lot... even after making quick contact (or even longer contact) with a couple. Now if we didn't care who we met up with, we'r would have a different couple every night we had free time and some to spare, so having standards is important for time management also. What I'm saying is, if you're frustrated with how little (quality) contact, maybe you should give more people the benefit of the doubt.
I can think of couples that we initiated contact, 4 or 5 times before meeting, and then when we finally did, had a great time and became good friends, but that also meant reaching out to couples 6 or 7 times before realizing we were wasting our time swallowing our pride over them.[/quote]
The Lord and Lady of the Veil (Vale?) make a very good point. We've found that MANY swingers (Ourselves included.) are somewhat predispositioned (Yes, I know that's not really a word.) to constantly be on the lookout for what we might consider the perfect or ideal couple/connection and thus ignore people we might actually end up having a fairly great connection with because they didn't check one of our boxes for things thought we were looking for. Far too often it's too easy to overlook a good or even great couple when searching for the perfect one (That might not actually exist!). How much great or even just good sex might we be passing up in the pursuit of perfect sex? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
swingers helper... - I know some of us need this every now and again... - Would you wear this?
Traveling - Finding other lifestyle couples while traveling - [quote=SNOEFUN]We are traveling to Atlanta for New Years and was hoping to find some lifestyle couples there[/quote]
Lots 'o swingers in Hotlanta. You could prolly find out if there are some local swingsites there and get like a trial membership announcing your travel plans in your profile header. Just a thought.
Profiles? - - We had the same problem, but I titled my thread "how to get started"
We received some good advice on how to change our profile. Some do's and don't's.
Swinging wasteland! LOL! That's a good one, I like that. I've been through Elko and with the Casino's there, one would think there would be a lot of action, but I guess maybe not. Maybe it's where people go "to swing" but not where swingers "are?" Just a thought.
And I thought Boise was a wasteland! We all have our ideas of what a wasteland is.....
Nice profile changes!
Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - [quote=TNT4FUN2][quote=RLF1234][quote=TNT4FUN2]A Yugo and 74 AMC Pacer.[/quote]
Hey we got the same cars. [/quote]
Sounds like a party![/quote]
You know we can fit 6 people in the Yugo. 3 in the front and 3 in the back (ouch!)
Friend collectors or swingers - - We’ve found lots of different personalities and histories with the Las scene here in Utah. Some couples love the titillation and thrill of window shopping, while others couples may be a little unbalanced (with one partner way more into it than the other). But we have made some great friends and had some once in a lifetime experiences, which make this journey exciting and so worth it!
KUTV News Story on Swingers - News - The article stated that there are alot of that nasty stuff taking place in Kaysville and Farmington. Now why have we not been invited to these sleezy events? We can't imagine our 3 parties a year was what the article was referring to.
Simples
Edited for Evel, looking at it called for a revision.
Swingular Changing name to: - I think Swingular should change it's name to "Hateular" - We have seen some of the more negative posts. We have also made the mistake of stating our position on a subject and had some folks come down on us. It is nice to see that most of the folks on Swingular take exception to that behavior.
As for single guys ......... Right time, right place, from time to time ........ we enjoy the company of a polite single male. Unless they whine about being a single male on a swingers site designed primarily for couples.
It is simply a social expression of an economic law -- Supply and Demand. Within swinging the supply of single males far exceeds the demand. Thus their value within the world of swinging is greatly deminished.
It is not my intention to demean any single male as an individual. As individuals each has their own worth. It is just that we are in the "business" of swinging here and business is business.
Preferences? - - Posted By: BEANYKATT Reply posted on:
Jan 27, 2008 - 1:02 pm
AHHH.NO! DON that is not what I am refering to..anyone who thinks eating Human or any other bodily waste IS EROTIC is very MUCH DISTURBED.
I think there are ALOT of SO-called SWINGERS who are nothing more than self centered people.
As for me I am an equal oppurtunity swinger..
TO exclude anyone..just becaue your dick dosent get hard at the site of them is purely ludicrous..
because that is the whole basis of marriage to be married to that ONE person that DOES everthing for you..so why would you Wife-Swap..Swing or participate in ANY extra marital activities?At one time or another EVERYONE thinks about someone or something else besides their own mate..
NOW that dosent mean that you love or desire your mate ANY LESS..We all have little nuances that our mates dont have..
so just to say that I HAVE to be attracted to someone JUST to have sex ...
I dont know sounds sort of suspect to me of something else involved .
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You know, there are those that think that anyone watching someone fucking his wife's lights out and thinking it IS EROTIC is very MUCH DISTURBED too.
We live in a self centered world. We do this to avoid that because we find it undesirable or to get that because it is desirable TO US.
Good for you.
IF my dick can't get hard with this person, what do you want me to do? Take one for the cause of being equal opportunity? I might take one for the team but to have me take one for a cause is kinda difficult, don't you think?
I don't follow. Haven't you answered your own question?
OK. That is fine. Maybe I have an average dick and she might want a change of pace with a guy with a thick dick once in a while or maybe she wants a change of guy. What do you want me to do about that? Grow a couple inches of girth or be schizophrenic for a bit?
What??? Even Cialis cannot get you hard if you are not attracted to that person. What do you expect? The person looks better as you drink more??
Like what else involved are you refering to?
Stabbing at swingers party? - - A stabbing in Herriman over the weekend has the media reporting it was a "swingers party". I am assuming this is because as the news reports a few couples "got frisky" in the basement, causing several people to reportedly leave and return less than an hour later and stab the party's 22-year old host. The three suspects were all 20 to 22 years old, also.
Does anyone know anything about this? Was it a vanilla party gone wrong in a drunken moment, causing some guys to get extremely jealous and now the media is blowing this up to be a "swingers" party? Or was it really a swingers party?
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