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Do you have be like Barbie to be wanted? - - what i will tell you is that on these sights lots of folks look at the pics and judge the book by the cover. I know for fact that alot of folks don't even bother reading the profiles some may read part. We have had more fun in local clubs ( swingers type clubs ) where you get a mix. Confidence is a big thing and it doesn't take much to shake it. Just remember this is a place to attempt to meet folks , try to find some local groups or clubs that get together and see if that works for you. If you do go to a club do not be a wall flower again nothing happens if you sit on the sidelines... I will agree with everyone else tho, most of us got into swinging as a couple and 99 % of the guys are gonna want to participate not just sit on the sidelines.
real members? - - You've struck on an interesting topic. I call them cyber swingers. They are swinger wanna be's . They find the thought of swinging erotic and interesting but they don't have the balls to actually get involved in the lifestyle. They like to hide behind the safety of their computer screen. They'll exchange email with you as long as you're willing or dumb enough to keep writing them. They'll never actually meet you or anyone else. That would be way too personal and would force them to crawl out from behind the security of their computer. Or you ocasionally run into the single guy that has created this fictional "couple". It's all a big game for him. He's just there to collect photos or maybe trick someone into playing with him because his wifes is "unavailable " at the moment. Whatever their game they're all the same because they both violate the principles of honesty and trust that the lifestyle revolves on.
We get email all the time from couples that "have read your profile--think you guys are great and want to get to know you better". That generally sends off alarm bells for us. We'll respond and exchange an email or two. If the other couple doesn't have pics posted or pics of just one of them we ask for additional photos in the first email. Since we have good pics of both of us in our profile we never send any other pics other than those posted. If we get the "don't have any pics of him or he's camera shy or don't have a camera yet" or any one of the other lame excuses we've gotten over the past year or so--that's it--you're done as far as we're concerned. We'll give out our cell phone number right away and tell them to call us or give us theirs and we'll call them. We want to speak to both of them. If we can't because one's not there we'll call back at a more convenient time when we can talk to both of them. If everything seems ok during the conversation we'll make a date to meet at a convenient restaurant or club and take things from there. This seems to work well for us. It tends to weed out the "cyber swinger" right away.
John & Colleen
is soft swap swinging??? - - MO69,
Great answer! NO ONE defines swinging. Anyone that uses sentences that start with, "Your not a swinger unless.." or "Real swingers do...." or something similar. These people don't know shit. It's just a way to pressure you. It's sophomoric bullshit, used by kids to pressure each other. They're not unlike the morons that measure their worth by their posessions. Spare yourself the trouble.
-Don-
Proud member of "Free Thinkers"
Amusing - Fakes.. ugh.. DESPISE THEM! - Ya, we've had this problem a number of times...
but...what makes you So sure it's NOt the girl from the website you mentioned?...are celebrities not allowed to be swingers?
just food for thought
swinging: It's not for everyone - - [quote=EVILDOERS]Ain't THAT the truth? Swinging is NOT for everyone. Many people it seems are only one or two drinks away from major drama or worse! That's why it's so funny to see the threads from the "vanilla hunters". They think it's way more fun to go out and try to seduce vanillas (cause, hey, everybody really wants to be a swinger deep down, right?) than fuck other swingers, often using copious amounts of alcohol to accomplish their task and effectively taking at least some of their prey's free will away. Hey we're all consenting (with enough alcohol on board) adults. All's fair in love and swinging. Right? LOL[/quote]
Yeah, that's what makes me laugh about most 'pickup artists' seems like a lot of them do most of their work on a half-soused target.
Cuckhold? - - Usually a cuckold relationship is when the Wife finds 1 or more dominate lovers. She will usually find all her sexual needs outside of the marriage. Most common is that the husband still pays the bills, maintains the home but isn't allowed to "enjoy" his wife. many times it begins with the Husband being unable to satisfy his wife due to his lack of size or skill. He convinces his wife that she should seek others for her pleasure. She then may find the sex from others to be "better" and then no longer desires sex from hubby. He still loves her so her stays with her, and she loves him just doesn't need his dick, and finds herself bored with their sexlife. There are many websites dedicated to this lifestyle, most of them are just crappy interracial sites, since that is a common theme, but if you look you can find more information out there. Also try looking for the term "Hotwife" that is more along a line with the swingers lifestyle.
Game ON....which sign is Hornier...(is that a word?) - zodiac signs of swingers? - Wouldn't guess in a million years but Mrs. is a Virgo. VIRGIN??? I know, not really what cums to mind. lol. Mr. is Aries (it figures)
BDSM & group sex - - [quote=NIKITA]Just been exploring more of my fantasies. Been wanting to find out if anyone has had any luck on here getting their swinger fun with other fun. I like some light bondage, enjoy lots of sex, and lots of toys. But it seems that it's harder to find couples or women to have fantasies with on here. Years ago, it seemed a lot easier to meet and go from there. Maybe it's my age, size, or that I prefer to not host. Everyone has a type, I'm wondering if anyone finds them on here. [/quote]
We have found this site, not surprisingly, quite vanilla. A blindfold and having read 50 shades is pretty damn kinky for Swingular lol. We far more relate to the kinksters on Fetlife. I would look at making a profile there, but it is not a “swingers” site 😉
Signals, Identifying 'markers' - Do scarves, jewelry, or other items worn a certain way ID you as part of the lifestyle? - We have never heard of the gold ring but the pendant that is growing in popularity in Utah seems like a nice way to distinguish swingers in crowd. Being both straight, we prefer to be upfront and just say it like it is so there are no surprises. We have brought the pendant up in a few groups we belong to or run here in Florida and hope we can follow Utah and make this the universal way to find each other in a crowd.
When You're Shopping the Scene... - - [quote=SECRETCOUPLE801]We wear black rings on our right hands.[/quote]
You also have face pics where the general public can see them so you're likely in the minority who don't really care all that much if friends or family find out that your hobby is fucking other people that you aren't married to. Good for you. I think a lot of us secretly wish we could be out and proud but the brutal truth is that here in good ole Utahr it could easily be professional and social suicide to be outed as swingers. [em]Emo_79[/em]
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