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Where did it go? - - OMG....some of you amuse me. You've totally missed the point of this thread. It had nothing (as in nada, zero, zilch) to do with altruism and humanitarian efforts to relieve and help those in need from either economic misfortune or environmental disaster. Where along the lines was that miscommunicated? So please, for the love of GOD and everything holy...let's spare everyone the sappy and teary-eyed proverbial "Hero Story" of how swingers flock together to help the less fortunate. Yes, yes...I know that there have been some marvelous demonstrations of compassion, and that so-called "brotherly christian love" towards fellow-swingers, that we have all seen posted on the threads numerous times, and that's all good and I'm sure Jesus is happy about that....but trust me, that was in no way the intention of this thread. I should know, I originated it. :) This was a wholly tongue-in-cheek thread, meant to draw an amusing glance at a previously deleted thread that involved an "offer" of exchanging manual labor for sex. An offer of prostitution. Not a friend asking a friend for help to re-roof their house. If you want to revel in the friendship and altruism of your fellow swingers....please, start your own damned thread, and quit hijacking this one! :) J

LOOKING FOR LADIES THAT LIKE TO CAM FOR A JOB - MY SITE IS GOING TO OFFER WEB CAM SERVICE FOR ALL THOSE THAT LIKE TO PUT ON SHOWS - IS IT A SAFE JOB ???? THE SHOWS ARE DONE FROM YOUR HOUSE OR A FRIENDS OR WHEREVER YOU WANT TO SET UP A COMPUTER AND PUT ON A SHOW . THAT PART HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ME .. OR THE SITE ITSELF . U PICK WHERE U WANT TO DO IT FROM . THE SITE HAS FREE CAM AMOUNG MEMBERS . WE ARE SETTING IT UP WHERE PEOPLE CAN CHOOSE TO DO IT FOR FREE . OR CHARGE . WHEN WE HAVE IT SET UP SO PEOPLE CAN CHARGE . U CAN STILL DO IT FOR FREE FOR THOSE THAT U WANT TO IF U DID WANT TO GIVE THEM A FREE SHOW . OR U CAN CHARGE WHOEVER THAT WANTS TO WATCH U AND WHO WANTS TO PAY . . U CAN PUT ON NAUGHTY SHOWS WITH YOU PLAYING WITH A TOY OR PLAYING WITH A SPOUSE OR FRIEND OR U CAN JUST TURN ON YOUR CAM AND LET OR CHARGE PEOPLE TO WATCH U DO ANYTHING . LIKE CLEANING THE HOUSE OR WORKING ON THE COMPUTER OR TRYING ON CLOTHES . WHATEVER U WANT TO SHOW . THERE IS NO RULES . THIS IS NOT A CAM WORKING SITE . WHERE WE TELL U WHAT U HAVE TO DO OR NOT DO . . ITS ALL UP TO U ON WHAT U WANT TO DO OR SHOW . WE ARE JUST OFFERING A SITE TO DO IT OFF OF . WE DONT PAY YOU ANYTHING . U HAVE TO EARN WHATEVER MONEY BY DOING WHAT U WANT TO THE PEOPLE THAT WANT TO WATCH U . SOME PEOPLE LIKE TO WATCH LADIES CLEAN THE HOUSE OR STUFF LIKE THAT , OR DIRTY CHAT WITH THEM . IF THATS WHAT U WANT TO DO THEN THATS ALL U HAVE TO DO . IF U CAN GET PEOPLE THAT WILL PAY U TO DO THAT THEN GREAT . THERE IS NO HOURS OR ANY RULES ABOUT STUFF THAT U HAVE TO DO OR WHEN .. U CAN JUST TURN ON YOUR CAM AND DO WHAT U WANT TO DO AND WHEN U WANT TO DO IT . THE ONLY RULES IS NO KIDS ANYWHERE IN VIEW . LIKE IF U ARE A STAY AT HOME MOM DONT TURN ON YOUR CAM TO JUST CLEAN HOUSE IF U HAVE A TODDLER WALKING AROUND OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT .AND NO KINDA OF PLAYING WITH PETS OR CRITTERS . ANYTHING ELSE IS UP TO U . WHAT IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW OR FAMILY MEMBERS COME ON ?????? I CANT CONTROL ANY OF THAT STUFF . CAUSE I DONTKNOW WHO YOUR FRIENDS OF FAMILY MEMBERS ARE . OR WHO U DO WANT TO SEE U OR NOT SEE YOU IN THE LIFE STYLE OR ON A SWINGERS SITE OR ON WEB CAM ... THE SITE IS OPEN TO ANYBODY AND EVERYBODY THAT WANTS TO JOIN IT AND THEY CAN USE IT FOR THEIR NEEDS AS THEY SEE FIT . AS FOR YOUR CAMS . WHEN U ARE CHARGING PEOPLE THEN U WILL PICK WHO GETS TO SEE U OR NOT .U HAVE TO OK THEM TO SEE YOU . AND YOU WILL KNOW THEIR SCREEN NAME AND INFO . SO IT WOULD BE UP TO U TO SCREEN WHO U ARE PUTTING ON SHOWS FOR . AND I THINK IF U HAVE THAT MANY FRIENDS AND FAMILY MEMBERS LOOKING FOR STUFF LIKE THAT . THEN MAYBE YALL SHOULD GO INTO BUSSINESS WITH EACH OTHER AND START YOUR OWN SITE WITH CAM AND MAKE LOTS OF MONEY .. HA HA HA NAUGHTY DREAMS FREAKY KITTY

Professionals - - That's just it Chibones: no we are NOT all looking for the same thing out of the lifestyle. People are as diverse as the imagination...and then some. And we have learned that in the lifestyle there are a myriad of things people want and don't want. No two couples are exactly the same and many are polar opposites. Some people do not want to limit the possibilities or their options. But MANY do want to limit them. Some...like yourselves...say almost nothing of substance about yourselves in their profiles. Others write auto-biographies. Some are looking for that one special couple or single. Some are looking to have sex with everything they get within arm's reach of. Some only want dark-haired ladies with large breasts. Others only want men over 50 years old and over 6' tall. Geographical and regional cultural differences play a strong role in how people craft profiles and conduct themselves in the lifestyle. In our town, you could not be a "professional" and be open about being a swinger. You would be harassed and heavily discriminated against in business. Preachers would tell their congregations not to patronize your business from the pulpit on Sunday mornings, and most of your customers would be church-goers who do what their pastors tell them. Your kids would be tormented in school. Interestingly, if you were an entertainer or a construction worker or truck driver, nobody would care. Your life would go on without incident. This isn't Safety Harbor, FL! (we used to live in St. Pete) The big fight right now in town is over the new Hilton hotel and whether or not they should be allowed to offer PPV adult movies in the hotel rooms. Also, we have a very large element of...how show we say...under-achieving whites...in the lifestyle in this region of the country. I would be willing to wager a month's pension check that you would not associate with them. By comparison, when we look at FL swinger profiles and talk to our FL swinger friends about it, we get the distinct impression that swinging is more of a middle class and upper class past-time down there. So, in a desire to both clue the right people in and not offend the rest, around here white collar couples tend to use the code-phrase, "We are a _________ professional couple who like to..." It's sort of a polite way of saying "No illiterate toothless hillbillies strung out on methamphetamines who cannot behave in public, please!" So, if "professional couple" offends your sensibilities, you should try walking in OUR shoes for awhile before judging us based on a phrase. Around here, a lawyer who is outed as a swinger would be in serious jeopardy of losing his bar certification. An elected official would be toast. A political appointee would be fired immediately. A real estate agent would see their business shrivel to nothing in weeks. A doctor would lose 3/4 of his patients within a month. And the funniest/saddest thing about it all is that we have one of the highest concentrations of swingers per capita in the US...3rd highest I believe. This is why PC thinking is so unwise. We judge others based on OUR realities and not usually on THEIRS. In a desire to encourage more "tolerance," we actually become intolerant of anything WE find the least bit offensive. Personally, I celebrate everyone's right to be offensive, wrong, and dumb. That doesn't mean I agree with them or enjoy their company, either. It just means I accept people for who they are and acknowledge their right to be who they want to be. It means I hold the individual's right to self-determination and freedom of expression above almost all other values. It means I am TOLERANT.

Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - Yeah, a lot of insecurity showing here and generalized statements. I like reading people's opinions and their own take on these discussions. But if you do it, please don't paint everyone with your brush. Really, we're adults and can speak for ourselves. :D There are those of us who really like to watch our partners pleasured. There are women who like more than one man at a time. And of course, there are women who want to play with another man, alone. Or, perhaps the single male can teach them something or offers something another man can't. The reasons some seek single males is the same as people seeking single females. They want something different. A new twist or perhaps fulfill a fantasy. Don't let a few bad cases of Overt Manliness taint the many single guys and women on here who are respectful, not crazy and won't throw bullshit at you. They are there and they're fun! And that's what we're all here for, right? -K_T

Swinger Board Games - - There's a game called sex stack. It's like Jenga but the tiles have numbers on them and then you match it up to a sexual type act that is listed on these cards that come with it. It's not necessarily made for swingers but could easily be turned into one where the person selecting the tile chooses the act and who they do that act to or with. I found that on Amazon. It's fun to play with your partner too! 😉

Indiscretion - - we have a male friend we have known for years. he got a new girlfriend who seemed to be eager to try swinging, she had a few experiences, mostly with us, but then they broke up for other reasons. we still see him but didn't try to stay in contact with her. so just a couple of weeks ago we go to our favorite biker bar, where we are regulars, the band was playing and the place was packed. and there she is, all sexy and looking for a new man, and about half drunk, with horny guys hanging all around her. she was overjoyed to see us, the only people she really knew in the place. so she makes it a point to introduce us to all her new friends, most of them already knew us but not about the swinging part of it, they were just playing along with the drunk chick. then she announces in way too loud a voice "and they're swingers too!" it was actually kind of funny, 2 other swinger couples we know were there and started sniggering. it is a biker bar, so no real harm done, and some other couples that we barely knew have been making it a point to get more friendly with us lately. so we got outed at our favorite hangout and the skies didn't fall in and nobody even seemed overly surprised or shocked. I didn't want to spoil her good mood, but the next day we called her and let her know that we would prefer to decide ourselves who we want to be privy to that information.

Where to go, what to do. - Non club activities - We through a Halloween party with vanillas and swingers we used glow stick brackets they are cheep and you can get them almost any place they worked great.

Pink flamingo - How many swingers have a pink flamingo in their front yard? - We’re not that cool lol but we have a solar pineapples now that’s cool 😀

The definition of cheating - - Interesting discussion. Certainly from a relationship standpoint the classic definition of cheating is being with someone other than your partner physically and/or emotionally. As swingers, however, we often hold ourselves above others and fall back on the lying and/or sneaking around aspect. Personally I feel that being dishonest with the person you hold most dear in this life to be the essence of cheating for me. When information is withheld you take away that person's prerogative to choose whether or not to stay in the relationship with you based on your actions outside of the relationship. There are a million ways people rationalize cheating. I find that a person's attitude towards cheating is a very good litmus test for the depth of their character. Now should we talk about cheating on a test or cheating other people out of their hard earned money? How about cheating on your taxes or at a poker game with friends? At what point DOES cheating become morally reprehensible or should it be "all's fair in love and war" and "every man (or woman) for himself"? Or as SIRNEWBY asserts, is self deception/lying/cheating really the only valid metric? Or did I misunderstand your point, SN? It would be interesting to get feedback from people (I'm sure there are plenty) who've been cheated on.

We have heard about it many times........... - Couples that are swingers - No drama here, drop us a line;) ~T&D~