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swinger ? or not. - - I am a widower. My late wife and I were swingers in the Seattle/Tacoma area for years. I remained a swinger when she died. A year ago I moved to be close to my grandkids and even though I would like to continue, the clubs out here don't want single men; even if they have 25 years experience in the lifestyle. Find me a private party though, and I will be there.

Android swingers apps? - - Can anyone else recommend some good swingers apps or just pure sex hook up apps they have had good results with? Who knows if enough of us use one app swingular can partner or arrange to work with an app. https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=emilio.swingers This is one i found it has some people but not many... And is touchy on the phones it works with... https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.desasic.whosfuckin this one has a few users listed locally but have not had time to test lol

Orgy Party by Swingers Circle in Las Vegas - - [quote=SLCCOUPLEFUN]We attended once, left at the break...comically bad, like something that swinger horror stories are made of. Words can't describe the creep factor vibe that the organizer gives off, we still laugh about it several years later.[/quote] Same here, wouldn't recommend. I'm still having nightmares.

How far are you willing to travel ? - - HOW FAR AM I WILLING TO GO TO MEET THEM HOOK UP ? ALL DEPENDS ON HOW GOOD THE ASS IS ..... HA HA HA HA JUST KIDDING . U KNOW SOMEONE HAD TO SAY IT ........ WE REALLY DONT TRAVEL MUCH TO SEE OR DO ANYTHING ..... SO I WOULD SAY NOT TO FAR . BUT WE HAVE ALOT OF PEOPLE THAT INVITE US OR EMAIL US AND TELL US THAT WE WANT TO HOOK UP THEY CAN COME HERE . TALK ABOUT PRESSURE . I DONT THINK I WOULD GO TO SOMEONE ELSE LIKE THAT UNLESS I HAVE CHATTED ALONG TIME WITH THEM AND KNOW WE CLIKC WELL . OR HAVE MET THEM BEFORE . CAUSE I DONT WANT TO TRAVLE FAR AWAY AND THEN FIND OUT WE DONT CLICK WELL. WE HAVE 3 KIDS AND WE ARE REDOING A HOUSE .I RUN A SWINGERS SITE .HE DOES BODY PAINTS . SO WE HAVE NO TIME TO DO ANYTHING . WE ARE BUSY ALL WEEK LONG . AND THEN THE WEEKEND IS TO DO EXTRA THINGS AND SPEND TIME WITH THE KIDS AND FAMILY AND STUFF LIKE THAT . WE GO TO A SWINGERS CLUB ON SAT NIGHTS WHEN WE CAN GET OUT . AND WE WELCOME ANYONE TO COME AND HANG OUT WITH US THERE . WE ARE MAINLY LOOKING FOR NEW FRIENDS ALL THE TIME TO MEET AND HANG OUT WITH. WE PLAY WITH THE ONES WE REALLY LIKE AND CLICK WITH . WE DONT MEET ANDPLAY . WE ONLY PLAY WITH GOOD FRIENDS . I REALLY DONT CARE IF THEY LIVE OUT OF STATE OR RIGHT NEXT DOOR . AS LONG AAS IT ISNT GOING TO BE A ONE NIGHT STAND THEN WE CAN HANG OUT WITH THEMWHEN EVER THEY COME TO TOWN . ALOT OF SWINGERS TRAVEL ALL OVER . FOR FUN OR WORK . AND ALOT OF THEM COME TO OUR ARE CAUSE WE HAVE ALOT OF SWINGERS CLUBS AND NUDIEST RESORTS HERE . SO PEOPLE TRAVEL TO COME HERE ALL THE TIME . THERE IS SOME THAT COME EVERY WEEKEND . SO WE DONT JUDGE PEOPLE BY HOW FAR THEY LIVE AWAY FROM US . CAUSE THAT CAN CHANGE ANY DAY . IF THEY ARE LOOKING FOR THE SAME THINGS AS IN FRIENDSHIP AND THEY ARE RESPECTFUL AND FUN WE WILL CHAT AND STUFF LIKE THAT . WHEN THEY COME HERE THEN WE MIGHT PLAY OR NOT DEPENDING ON THE PEOPLE . BUT I DONT HAVE TIME TO TRAVEL TO GO TO PEOPLE. AND IAMNOT TO WORRIED ABOUT HOOKING UP TO DO THAT EITHER . THE LIFE STYLE IS ALOT MORE TO US THEN JUST HOOKING UP AND GETTING SOME ONE NEW TOPLAY WITH . SO I SEE NO REASON TO TRAVEL TO ANYONE . TAMPA IS FULL OF SWINGERS THAT LIVE HERE AND TRAVEL HERE . WE JUST SAY LET US KNOW WHEN U COME TO TOWN AND WE WILL TELL U WHAT PARTIES ARE PLAN THEN . IF U WANT TO HANG OUT THEN GREAT . IF NOT HOPE YOUR VISIT HERE IS GREAT ! BUT PLEASE DONT TAKE OUR FREAKS BACK HOME WITH U . LEAVE THEM HERE FOR EVERYBODY ELSE .......... HA HA HA HA NAUGHTY DREAMS FREAKY KITTY

Single Men Meeting Couples - Are Single Men Treated Un Fairly In The Lifestyle - Yeah, This subject has been beaten like a dead horse. It just comes down to a few simple things. 1. If single guys doesn't get invites, they feel rejected on sites like these. 2. It's couples choice. The couple have probably talked and decided what they are looking fore before posting an ad. 3. Get over it. Yes I know from personal experience that single men aren't always looked upon in this lifestyle in the brightest of light. You can thank those that don't respect the boundries of a couple for that. I have years of experience from going to swingers club in San Diego that did allow single men. I've witnessed the pushy single male, the "voltures" circling the carion. I would always tell the ones that would listne to me what it takes to play with a couple. 1. Be respectful. Respect the couples rules and wishes. 2. Be freindly, don't go up starting with " do you want to play". Introduce yourself, and spark a conversation about something completely off topic. 3. No is no. Don't pleade, or beg if a couple says no. Accept the answer, be polite and move on. Wow, it's just that simple to get respect from a couple, and maybe an invite to play.

Swingers Dares - Text for cards in the game - Question? Why do a lot of these dares have to do with taking a "shot" in them? Why can't they be done without one? That is more of a dare for most people we find in this lifestyle - LOL ;) What about those that don't drink? That is one thing we have found in this lifestyle is some people have to get so fuckin drunk to play, that it does become a turn off. Especially when they want to kiss you and or be all over you and use the excuse they were and or are drunk! Just our opinon, and have found many share it as of late about comments after some parties, and after parties. :P Don't get us wrong we do drink, just not excessivly to where we offend others. Now for our suggestions. We do a lot of games and have many in our FunDo kit we have created. Most we have found have to at least be respectful that if someone doesn't want something to happen that it is not forced, Swingers or not. We do realize these are DARES and they have a choice not to do them. But what about the ones that don't want it done to them when the other is dared? Example - "......to slap everyones ass ......... that is OK with it" Some don't like this type of play and if they are subjected to it out of pressure and or aggressiveness the party and games go down hill fast. Now if EVERYONE is OK then party on!

Single Males - - [quote=CTA313][quote=EVILDOERS] ...get a girl to join you....Not only do you now "bring more to the table", but you have the added credibility that if you can find and finesse a girl into joining you in this little adventure we call swinging (whether it be a girlfriend, a wife, a second cousin twice removed, or just a hot fwb) you might just not be a giant douchecopter.[/quote] Ignoring the need to "finesse" someone and unhealthy gender stereotypes in general, this line of reasoning is a little troubling as it presumes that a male's company is inherently worth less. Or that an absence of semi-romantic relationships somehow speaks poorly of his character. I personally think approaching someone whom you aren't already fairly close with and soliciting to go to a swingers party is a bit out of line. Especially if her company is sought as an accessory to demonstrate to others that he is not, as you say, “a douchecopter”. Call me old-fashioned. [quote=EVILDOERS] I know we can't be the only people who secretly wonder just a little bit about some single guys and why they aren't with somebody. Do they secretly hate women (yes, we've met some that actually do), are they just too lazy (or busy, maybe...but hey, we're all busy) to find someone, are they serial killers and/or just not very nice guys? [/quote] Oh, I hope you are! That's a really unfortunate outlook to have. Promising relationships take time to find, let alone build to the requisite amount of trust and stability to try things like this. In the mean time, I don't see anything wrong with someone pursuing their interests while still holding out for someone worthy of their emotional investment. To me, that behavior is quite attractive should be respected! It doesn't get any better than someone who is confident, self-actualized, and motivated to pursue their desires. Sadly, it sounds their gender influences whether this is seen as a desirable trait. I'm not sure how long you've been out of things (30 years?), but it's easy to forget the struggle when you're comfortable in a marriage. Things are more fluid. People don't feel the need to settle down like they used to. [quote=EVILDOERS]I know many will say they've tried and swinging is a deal breaker for most women. After almost 3 decades in the swinging trenches meeting and talking to other people, both couples and singles, we would disagree....many, if not most, women could eventually come around to the idea of swinging once they feel safe and secure in a relationship.[/quote] This is just confirmation bias if the evidence comes from a sample of people you have met while swinging. [quote=EVILDOERS]...those of us who DID put in all the blood, sweat, and tears into a relationship and allow it to grow to the point of daring (don't think for a second we aren't risking a LOT in opening up our relationships to other people!) to allow others access to our significant other sometimes wonder why some others want to take a shortcut to all the sweet swinging bennies with little or no risk on their own part.[/quote] If you're not comfortable sharing your wife with someone you might view as a potential competition, you definitely don't have to. On the other hand, there are a lot of people enjoy it :) This smacks of the old “you must suffer as I did” chestnut. [/quote] Yes, I agree, "finesse" was a poor choice of words. In my defense, I was at work and rather in a hurry to make a point...that apparently I didn't make well (and my attempts to also be humorous apparently fell flat too). Rereading my post it does smack a little of mild gender bias but I can assure you that it wasn't my intent in any way and most certainly is not my outlook on women, relationships or life in general. My intent was simply to advocate approaching swinging as a mutually desirable activity that two partners desire and share equally in. And not that it matters, but I've shared my wife with probably over a hundred men, married and single, and I've never thought of any of them as competition. But I never thought of swinging as "sharing" my wife either, but instead as her deciding to be sexual with another person and me being totally okay with her decision to do so. Sharing her, to me, almost denotes some sort of ownership or at very least some kind of permission that I would have to give. Both those ideas are not a part of our relationship. Perhaps the concept of "competition" in swinging interactions is a single male attitude? I don't know. And I didn't mean it in any way, shape, or form as a "you must suffer as I did" trope but simply as the idea that we invested a LOT of hard work and time making our marriage what it is and together deciding to risk opening it up to the excitement and also the possibility of harm that is swinging. I think, perhaps, that sometimes single people in the lifestyle don't quite understand the very real possibility of permanent damage (or worse) to the relationship that couples who swing are flirting with. For many (most?) of us, our marriages/relationships are THE most precious thing we have. What, if anything, are you risking? A bruised ego?

Age - New to the swingers community - is age a factor in how a couple is viewed? - Being that we are in the older bracket, I would say that yes age can be a factor. It depends on the individuals involved, but many times people put upper limits on play partners and anyone over that age is a null factor. There are several women on this site over the age of 50 who may make some couples rethink their age limit or make an exception for them. Weare very active in the club scene here in NC and people know us and age doesn't seem to be much of a factor. I don't think that staying in ones own age bracket is the thing so much as the perception that older people are over the hill both in looks and performance. Just remember if you get too old to cut the mustard, you're never too old to lick the jar it came in.

The People of Whoville are Swingers! - Adult Humor In Movies - So funny, are they wearing black rings as well?

We have heard about it many times........... - Couples that are swingers - AMEN to that....alex