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Alex - New to the lifestyle looking for my first encounter into couples and single females - "I just don’t understand how single guys can be swingers" Like this, DUH! ;-p
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Frappr Web Toy - A cool free Google thing - That site is neat. I was in there already under my str8 handle in a cycle group but added the both of us to both the cycle swingers and U.S. swingers.
Age - New to the swingers community - is age a factor in how a couple is viewed? - Age...hmmm.
I (Mr.) have a pretty wide range in age. I usually gravitate towards older rather than younger (yes, I'm attracted to older women rather than younger.)
As for Mrs. I know some of her fantasies, but I won't pretend to answer for her.
On a couples perspective, I have seen that couples tend to gravitate towards their own age range. Why? I don't know.
-K_T
Soft swap - Soft swap vs Full swap - Top definition according to our Unabashed Urban Dictionary via google search and everything is according to google, right?
SOFT SWAP:
To share spouses/mates with another to the point of digital and/or oral copulation only.
This term comes from the home of Stephen, SuperGenius, who invented it spontaneously while referring to timid wanna-be swingers unwilling to take the PLUNGE
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HARD SWAP:
When you trade sexual partners...as opposed to soft swap where you just watch, or be watched, the other couple having sex. Sometimes soft swap does entail the trading of oral sex between the different couples.
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No Seriously, everyone most likely has their own definition of these "soft swap", "hard swap" terms. So rather than leave it up to each individual's own version or opinion...wouldn't it be a good idea to simply discuss with all what each is comfortable doing and what the boundaries may be on a particular night and/or with a particular couple or play partner? We believe communication is the key and everyone should feel comfortable and that there should be no pressure and no expectations.
network swingers - - We cant wait!..should have a "Swingtown" party instead of an "American Idol" party..lmao
Thank You and Goodbye - - I JUST WANT TO SAY A FEW THINGS .
FIRST OF ALL I HAVE SPOKEN TO THIS GUY AND HE IS REALLY COOL AND SWEET AND IS ALSO LOOKING FOR FRIENDS AS WELL .AND I HAVE ALSO SPOKEN TO OTHER SINGLE MEN ON THIS SITE AND STUFF THAT I HAVE HEARD OTHERS SAYING TO THSE SINGLE GUYS IS VERY RUDE AND UNCALLED FOR . IT IS ONE THING TO SAY THAT U ARENT LOOKING TO PLAY WITH A SINGLE MAN AND LEAVE IT AT THAT . BUT SOME HAVE GOTTEN VERY RUDE AND IN DETAILS . AND TO ME IT IS JUST SOMEONE ACTING CHILDISH AND HURTING OTHERS FEELINGS . THERE IS A WAY TO SAY NO TAHNKS . AND THERE IS BEING RUDE AND PUSHY AND HATEFUL . AND THERE IS NO REASON FOR THAT IN THE LIFE STYLE .THE LIFE STYLE IS HERE FOR US ALLLLLLLLL TO SHARE . FIND THE ONES U CLICK WITH AND HAVE FUN . BUT THERE IS NO REASON TO BE RUDE TO EACH OTHER . EVERYBODY IS LOOKING FOR DIFFERENT THINGS .
AND IAM THE ONE THAT SAID I HAVE MORE PROBLEMS WITH MARRIED MEN THEN SINGLE MEN . I LIKE LADIES . I PLAY WITH LADIES . IF AND WHEN I FIND A GUY I WANT TO PLAY WITH THEN SO BE IT ILL DO IT . BUT FOR NOW I DONT NEED IT OR WANT IT . AND I TELL EVERYBODY THAT UP FRONT . THE SINGLE GUYS (MOST OF THEM ) ARE VERY RESPECT FUL TO MY LIKES AND DISLIKES . AND NEVER TRY TO TALK ME INTO IT OR ANYTHING . I CHAT WITH ALOT OF SINGLE GUYS AND WE HANG OUT WITH THEM AT CLUBS AND PARTIES . AND FOR THE MOST PART THEY ARE VERY WELL BEHAVED AND JUST WANT TO HANG OUT WITH (NICE PEOPLE ) THAT WILL TREAT THEM LIKE A PERSON .
AND AS FOR COUPLES . YES MOST ARE LOOKING FOR OTHER COUPLES OR FEMALES BUT NOT ALL ARE . AND IF U ARENT LOOKING FOR A SINGLE MAN THEN U CAN SAY IT NICELY .
BUT KEEP IN MIND THAT WE WERE ALLLLLLLLLLL SINGLE ONE DAY . AND WE CAN ALLLLLLLL BECOME SINGLES ANY DAY . AND TO JUDGE SOMEONE OR TREAT THEM BADLY CAUSE THEY FALL IN THE SINGLE GROUP IS JUDGEING A BOOK BY ITS COVER . AND SOMEONE THAT IS SINGLE AT TONIGHTS PARTY MIGHT FIND MRS RIGHT AND BE THE HOTTEST COUPLE AT THE NEXT PARTY . AND I HOPE THE FIRST THING THEY DO IS TELL ALLLLLLLLLLLL THE COUPLES THAT THEY ARENT LOOKING FOR COUPLES . THAT THEY WANT TO GIVE A SINGLE GUY A TRY .
WE HANG OUT WITH ANYONE THAT IS RESPECTFUL AND FUN . THE SINGLE MEN ARE FUN TO HANG OUT WITH . AND THE MARRIED MEN NEED TO REALIZE THAT IF IT WASNT FOR THEIR LADY AT THEIR SIDE THEY WOULD BE ON THAT SINGLE MAN BOAT AND WOULD BE SITTING IN THE CORNER WITH NO ONE TALKING TOTHEM . WE TRY TO MAKE EVERYBODY FEEL WELCOME TO THE LIFE STYLE . AND HELP EVERYBODY HAVE FUN . AND MEET NEW FRIENDS AND PLAYMATES . JUST CAUSE THE LIFES TYLE PEOPLE SHARE SEX AND IS LOOKING FOR DIFFERENT THINGS DOESNT MEAN IF THEY DONT FALL IN OUR WANT GROUP THAT WE HAVE TO BE RUDE TO THEM . AND IHOPE U ARE NEVER WALKING IN THEIR SHOES . CAUSE THE WALK IS ALONELY AND HARD WALK TO WALK ALONE .
I DONT PLAY WITH NO MEN . AND FOR SOME REASON THE SINGLE MEN UNDERSTAND WHAT THAT MEANS . BUT I JUST CANT GET THE MARRIED MEN TO UNDERSTAND THAT ..... AND IF AND WHEN IAM READY FOR A (MAN) ILL PROB PLAY WITH A SINGLE MAN BECAUSE HE WAS SHOWING ME RESPECT ALL ALONG AND NOT JUST KISSING MY ASS TO GET SOME WHEN I ADDED ON MY PROFILE . HEY I THINK I WANT TO BE WITH A MAN . A MAN SHOWS RESPECT . MARRIED OR SINGLE . A DOG MISBEHAVES ALLLLLLL THE TIME . STRAYS AND TAKEN ONES . BUT I WOULD UNDERSTAND MORE IF THE HORNY SINGLE GUY WAS THE ONE BEING A DOG .
IAM SORRY THAT THE PEOPLE ON THE SITE HAS MADE U FEEL LIKE U NEED TO LEAVE . BUT U DO WHAT U HAVE TO DO CAUSE ITS ALL ABOUT FUN . AND IAM SORRY FOR PEOPLE THAT WANT TO CALL THEMSELVES OPEN MINDED LIFE STYLE SWINGERS CANT ACT SO DAMN CLOSED MINDED MOST OF THE TIME . KEEP LOOKING CAUSE U WILL FIND THOSE THAT ARE LOOKING FOR U .... OOOPPPSSS SORRY. IAM SURE THEY ALL SAY THAT RIGHT .
WHEN WE WANT U WE WILL FIND U . WELL DAMN WHO IS TREATING WHO LIKE A SEX TOY AND BEING RUDE . I THINK IT IS THE OTHER WAY AROUND . COUPLES TREAT SINGLE MEN LIKE HOW THEY SAY SINGLE MEN ACT TOWRDS THEM . I JUST DONT GET IT .
I WORK FOR A SWINGERS SITE AND U ARE MORE THEN WELCOME TO JOIN THE SITE AND TRY TO MEET SOME NEW FRIENDS . THEIR IS A PHOTO CONTEST GOING ON NOW SO PLEASSE ADD SOME OF THOSE HOT PICS OF YOURS ... I PROB WONT BE ABLE TO GET ANY WORK DONE... BUT IKNOW THE MEMEBER S WILL LIKE TO SEE U TO . HA HA
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WE WELCOME ANYBODY AND EVERYBODY THAT IS FRIENDLY AND FUN .
NO RUDE OR PUSHY OR STUCK UP PEOPLE .
NAUGHTY DREAMS
FREAKY KITTY
I SENT IN A PIC OF WHAT I THINK ABOUTMEAN PEOPLE
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - AKLIM,
It's just as "rude" for you not to click "ignore single males". If you expect them all to read your profile, you take the time to read your settings thoroughly enough to see that you can block them LOL!
raw statistics can be flawed. You show me stats that say today in LA, 1000 pitbulls attacked children and only 400 were committed by other various breeds. What does that tell you/me??? It says nothing of the circumstance. Were the animals mistreated and trained to attack??? How many pits are trained to fight???? Show me your stats. Stats can be skewed to fit the bias. Show me some.
Maybe that is why we get hardly any single guys here. On AFF you cannot ignore them so we get them all. Here I forgot we blocked them a long time ago
That is why I said that people use these statistics to JUSTIFY their opinion. I hate Pit Bulls. Wow. It is convenient for me that the CDC has that list. Now I use that list to tell you why I hate Pit Bulls. That list, in some terms, mitigates my prejudice. Now if the guy is using the statistics in an honest fashion to FORM, not justify but FORM an opinion, I might be more tempted to believe it. However, as you and I know, it is used to JUSTIFY their opinion
Christian Swingers - - DREW.. isnt polygamy a form of swinging? OOOHHH... wait... they are all wives of one man, guess thats not really swinging. No one is swapping wives, (as far as we know).
On a more serious note. Religion, (regardless of what name you give it, ie: jews, mormons, catholics, whatever), is your belief in a supreme being. How you believe is personal. Although we may not follow the rules of our church, who's right is it to determine wheither we are christian or not? Any true believer in any religion knows that every great religious leader had emphisized over and over... its not ours to judge.. thats up to the supreme being you follow. We know alot of wonderful people who are wayward according to their church, but exhibit more respectable behavior than some of those people who claim to be so strict in their obediance to their church rules.
A wise man once said.. there are three things never to discuss ... Politics, religion, and sex. So when do we start the forum on the Presidential race?
Swingers Kickball Society - - My wife and I are interested
Game ON....which sign is Hornier...(is that a word?) - zodiac signs of swingers? - wife in gemini...husband is leo
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