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Comfort level of casual vs relationships? - - [quote=heathencouple]We are still fairly new to this whole lifestyle shindig; just under a year. Trying to figure what aspects we like, don’t like and are just meh. I’m curious though, when it comes to forming emotional connections with other people how open are you to the idea?
If it’s a scale of 1 - 10. One being completely casual, “what was your name again” sex and two being “I deeply love you and want you to come live with me and my other two wives” sort of deal... where do you fall?
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For us we are discovering that we prefer the more connective experiences and don’t shy away from words like “love” or “relationship”. But we also love just super casual fun experiences. All of it entirely contingent on the people involved. So not quite true swingers but also not quite true poly.
Trying to see how common or uncommon that is.[/quote]
Oh man if two is come live with me and my two other wives I can't imagine what 10 is ;). For us we definitely don't need "feelings" involved but I do want to have some sort of connection with the other people. I dont think I could do a wham bam thank you ma'am type of situation. That being said we have played on the first meeting so idk that probably makes me a hypocrite 🤷♀️
Age - New to the swingers community - is age a factor in how a couple is viewed? - We tried different ages. The young ones just don't have a clue, too immature and scared. A lot of the older ones have erection difficulties. People do tend to pick those near their own age. The biggest factor is how picky the women are, including my own wife. As a couple we have been turned down a lot because my hair is grey and thinning causing me to look older. My wife doesn't like large over weight guys or guys with short cocks, or those who shave their heads. I don't think its age that is a factor so much as overall looks. If the attraction isn't there it doesn't matter what your age is.
We like the 40 to 55 range.
New Yorker this weeknd? - - There’s an event at the New Yorker this coming Thursday the 19th.. not a “swingers”event but still going to be a lot of swingers in attendance. Thank me later
What Is Discretion To You? - Chime in - To play devil’s advocate. We are all members of a swingers site! That being said there are definitely people in here that we don’t care to know our business. As far as the couples we know and chat about or share stories with. It’s not a notch on our belt. For the most part we honestly enjoy and are proud to be friends with people in here. Now we never share without permission and we never Disclose who we are with without permission. But we do have a close group of people that we trust and are pretty open with. Now in public that’s another story a wink and a nod is fine but people really need to respect your boundaries.
Moab Utah - Swingers in Moab - We are thinking of setting up a trip last weekend of September. Who would be interested?
YOLO Cruise April 26 2009 - swingers cruise - WE WON the swingers cruise, from CLUB ELITE!! We are so excited!!!! This will be our first ever cruise and wanted to know who was going, and any advice to "virgin" cruisers... Hope to meet many long lasting friends..... hugs Liz :z :z
Dungeons & Dragons Online Game - anyone else or just us? -
anyone else play DDO? plays like WOW or everquest but free mostly and alot funner alot more of a challenge
We play now and again and wonder about other swingers that may play online games maybe group up and talk on there as we play? talk about multi tasking killin monsters and setting up dates lol///
http://my.ddo.com/referral/pepsi_phreak_79 if your lookin to try it out
otherwise we are on the sarlona server
My cleric is necrophiliak
she has a rogue named valitia
International Swingers Day - How are you celebrating? - I didn't even know this was a thing.
Pineapple Stickers - pineapple sticker = swingers? - [quote=ITSFUNTRYINGNEW][quote=Utahldscouple][quote=DIRTYCPLUT]I read a recent post on whisper that a pineapple sticker on your car means you're a swinger.
Any truth to this?[/quote]The pineapple is one along with pink flamingos etc. Secretly have wanted to order a bunch and place the on cars in the church parking lot 😀![/quote]that would be funny as hell[/quote]We wonder if anyone would figure out what they meant and catch on?!?! Or how long before they noticed! This way our car would r look out of place with it on 😂!
Partners with hall Passes - - [quote=HAMMER_AND_FQ]Bummer you haven't found single guys worthwhile. (This is the Mrs. by the way.) I guess we have just been lucky in that department. So many people bash single guys and I just don't understand why. We play separate more and more often. We have a harder time finding single women or women with hall passes. Maybe because I am the picky one :) I mean if I am going to share my incredibly sexy and amazing man she better be worth my night alone watching the kids! So ladies, please let me know if you're game to play. All you need to do is read our profile to see what "worth it" would mean to us. I also find it amusing how so many swingers claim to be open minded then are incredibly judgmental of people who choose to play separate. What is up with that? It isn't always easy finding couples where all sides are attracted and ready to get naked. [/quote]
As a single male, I approve of this message! LOL
But, in all seriousness, I think the discussion just boils down the the OP having a challenge finding the right SM that fits with their own personal interests and tastes, along with the stamina issue. I genuinely don't see an issue with having your own tastes and preferences as we're all human and all have the different things that attract you (or the couple as a whole) to someone else. My two cents is what WHITECOCOCPL shared above ... apply your own experience, your own attractions, and good referrals and start there, and don't be shy to test the waters with those you find attractive, and hope the whole package (pun intended) is as good as hoped!
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