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Too old ???? - - [quote=SUNRISE]The person(s) who outed you obviously has a profile themselves, otherwise they would not be able to see your profile. And if they can see any of your photos other than the first cover photo, then they have a paid membership. So by outing you, they have also outed themselves.
Except they don't care that people know about them being Swingers and believe it or not we used to be friends.
My husband has a high profile job and it was quite a blow to the face when we found out.
swingers parties - - Yeah a swingers club is not much place to go stag. Not many people go there lookin for a dude. You can find one at the gas station. But if you were to find a couple that was lookin to go out there are places that you can be escorted into. Send some emails make some contacts. You are close enough to Ft Lauderdale Miami Tampa and all the small stuff inbetween there are plenty of clubs throughout.
Friend collectors or swingers - - Hi we are from vernal and we would like to get to know u guys if u have a kik we can all chat together my kik is robinak1999 if u would like to chat we are looking to get to know a couple and have regular meet ups hope to hear from u
Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - No kidding, I almost dropped my phone hahahaha
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - I would like to point out one thing, when you are a single male you and you are straight and you want a couple then you bring nothing to table. You have nothing to offer the husband of the couple aside from a show but you are asking the man of the couple to share his wife with you with nothing more then a thank you in exchange, in most cases single men have a gf or wife but simply do not want to risk sharing them because they are afraid of losing them, having them leave or know thats what you want to start doing or will be trying to do or they do not want to take the effort and risk and time to get their partner involved.
There is also the point that alot of people have fetish's but I do not know alot of white couples that are interested in black men, not every woman like a cock over 8" either, there are some but we have not met very many and it seems to be a very select group and type of swinger. We have had single men in the past but those single men had the highest respect for our relationship, they also did not get anything right away and had to show their merit as a sincere person that wanted friendship but no emotional attachment. In this day and age of disease we also are very selective with the people we swing with for obvious reasons.
As a final note, if and when you find a female partner and she lives with you in a commited relationship if you are already not in one will you be willing to share her with another man with nothing in return? Ill be willing to bet like most couples you will seek only a single female to join you in a threeway.
Where on Earth are all the hot Virginia Swingers? - Show us what you have to offer VA!!! - Is this a role call.........lol
Friend collectors or swingers - - My opinion, which hasn't changed in ages, is this, and I'm not chastising anyone, just offering my 2 cents.
One of the recurring and biggest problem that swingers face is that they decide what they personally like, or want, and then assume everyone else should choose the same path or they don't understand why how everyone else doesn't feel the same way they do. I've read the forum posts for years and the same questions recirculate on a regular basis. "Why don't people want to be the type of swingers we are?" "We don't want friends, we just want to have sex." "We don't necessarily want to have sex until we are friends." "We really only want friends but rarely play." All valid forms of the lifestyle and perfectly acceptable to different people.
The lifestyle can take work. It typically isn't easy and will take some time and effort to achieve your lifestyle goals. Sure it's helpful to post your desires in your profile but I'm sure people read those only rarely, or maybe they are drunk searching, or maybe they can't read. :) There are all types. Try not to get frustrated because someone else isn't following you lead. Be patient. Within one or two convos you should be expressing your goals and figuring out the goals of the people you are trying to get to know. Get a system that weeds out the people you are't interested in, something that works for you. You will get better with time and hopefully someday what you are looking for will be much easier to find.
However, until then, realize life isn't black and white, nor is swinging. There are as many varieties of swingers as there are ice cream flavors, or flavored condoms. haha. Don't expect others to want the same thing as you but certainly look for those that do. Be patient, kind and realize everyone is possibly looking for a different scenario than you. Some people love to send blind requests, some hate it. Right or wrong, it's life. Accept that there is mound of bullshit between you and that perfect couple/single male/female/trans/group/poly/donkey/toys only/DTF.... (Well, you get the point we are all looking for something different)that you are looking for.
So don't be frustrated. Accept it will be a challenge and work on better ways to make your life easier. There won't be a good answer only many shades of grey.
"Don't try to bend the spoon, for that is impossible. Instead, only try to realize the truth... there is no spoon. Then you will see it is not the spoon that bends, it is only yourself."
And to the single males that post ridiculous stuff? WTF? Ugh. You make us all look like mentally disabled Neanderthals.
"Me have dick. Me like pussy. Stick it good."
Swingers In Uniform - Pay your memorial day respects here. - From one of those highspeed sons of bitches out there who make this all possible to you civilians who pay those damn taxes so I can have more fun than one man's lifetime can possibly bear... I miss way too much home time but when I'm home we make the absolute most of it!!!
THANKS FOR THE RECOGNITION but we truely do it all for YOU!!
Your 'not so local' Quiet Professional
is this legit?? - - Discretion (as basically defined by Websters Dictionary )
1: The quality of being discreet, cautious
2:Ability to make responsible decisions
3a: INDIVIDUAL CHOICE OR JUDGEMENT, to make responsible decisions
b: POWER OF FREE DECISION of choice
4: the result of separating or distinguishing
Discretionary
1: Left to discretion; excersing at one's own discretion
Swinger
1: One that swings as
a: a lively up-to-date person who indulges in what is considered fashionable
b: one who engages freely in sex
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Where some may want to be part of this documentary,
that is your INDIVIDUAL CHOICE OF JUDGEMENT, AND POWER OF FREE DECISION
some of us may not feel being part of a television documentary fits into our lives,
that is our INDIVIDUAL CHOICE OF JUDGEMENT, AND POWER OF FREE DECISION
We are swingers, that means we openly engage freely in sex, which is an act of discretion in itself, one most of us throughly enjoy,
that does not mean that being non-discreet means we must exploit our personal lives on the television.
But if that is your decision. Have a great time doing it!
oh and let us all know when the eposide airs, as i am sure many of us would like to see it. lol
just my 2 cents
xoxo
k
What Percentage Swinger Are You? - Maybe this is interesting - Pretty small. Some would probably consider us semi-retired or maybe even posers. We've been in the lifestyle for a long time and have pretty much fulfilled all or most of our fantasies so now we're sort of opportunistic swingers. We like to socialize a bit and if the mood stikes us or we meet a particularly enticing person or couple we go for it. If not we go home and have amazing sex with each other. :-)
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