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I Have A Question - Poly vs. Open - We have friends in both of those communities and dip in and out of both but don't actually consider either what we have or want.
Simply: Swinging is generally, ironically, too casual for us while also having way too many cultural rules (but we fucking love your parties), We also find that while we have fun with and enjoy the company of a lot of swingers, most are culturally pretty different from us. Polyamory, as people play it, is typically far too intense for us and that community also has a lot of cultural strictures and high expectations (but we've had great parties there, too, and have made really close friends, even though we're not into Star Wars 😜).
So we look for genuine friends, because that's how it started and that's how it's always been with us. We're as likely to go to coffee than get naked. And our lives are crazy busy, so we don't have a lot of time to give. But we each go out with someone probably once a week. That said, it's not necessarily the same person and actually getting together for a night out, rather than coffee or lunch, probably only happens twice a month each at most. Once a month is more common.
We don't really have rules. That's kind of antithetical to how our relationship works in general. Instead, we spend focused time with each other. We go to coffee together once a week. We go to lunch together once a week. And we go out together once a week. We plan that on Saturday over coffee or ok a run. We also talk constantly. We've always been completely open with each other. Having a mutually wanted and understood open relationship makes transparency easy for us. We also like to inevitably introduce anyone were seeing regularly to each other. We also don't pry at all but like to be sure the other person's spouse or primary partner is good and that they're relationship is healthy.
It sounds a lot like what people call polyamory except that it stays casual. For that reason, the other people need to realize that's all it will ever be. The flip side to that is making sure we only get involved with grounded and reliable people. We've been doing it long enough that we both have a whole set of friends we might go out with on and off. For us, regardless of their jobs, they're often artistic, musical, literary, dancers, etc..
Swingers In Uniform - Pay your memorial day respects here. - WOOHOO, that was FUCKING well said tequila Good job and keep it up! We'll see you soon.;)
OUCH - Anyone caught swinging bu family or friends? - On a boat a boat, fishing, with my boss and his wife when she starts asking Raychel about our swingers profile her daughter saw on the internet. Aside from all the obvious problems like why is their HS aged daughter cruising swinger profiles; the other daughter lives in boston and would not know us from anywhere; why are they talking to each other about this; and can I swim to shore. So that's pretty odd.
Bob
P.S. We went for the Clintonesque defense of what do you mean by "swinging".
Age differences - How do you handle it - We2, I can understand what you are saying. My first wife was 16 years older then I and my current wife is 6 years younger. First wife helped me to mature early and quickly and current wife keeps me young and on my toes. Seems like most everyone feels similar to us. Maybe the people having the conversation we were involved in should have said the younger swingers that were at the party they were referring to were not as mature instead of saying they are more into flirting and dirty dancing rather then playing.
FWB Anyone...??? - Seeking FWB - Couple to Date - ^ We hear you. A long time ago we reached out to the OP to just chat, not even sure we were interested beyond that. We were promptly informed were not a match. LOL. We just appreciate that the OP responded. We also think it’s great that they know what they want. Nothing wrong there. The challenge is this is a LS site...they are not “Swingers.” They state this in their profile. They seem to want an exclusive relationship with another couple. Like a quad in polyamory. They seem to want to separately date the other spouse and have this 4 way relationship. I’m sure they will find it but it will be WAY harder than finding 2 unicorns to come play with you at the same time. What they seem to want isn’t what most of us think of as a FWB...it’s more of a poly thing. We truly wish them the best of luck, but it’s going to be tough for them. They probably could explain this more clearly in their profile and avoid having to reject all the Swingers contacting them from their posts on a swinger site. 😂
another club under fire - club in peoria - PEORIA -- City leaders in Peoria will soon consider an ordinance aimed at outlawing private swingers clubs where couples meet and swap partners.
The ordinance is aimed at a local business called Club 307. The club sits a couple of blocks from the Police Department and is reportedly a swingers club.
Mayor Jim Ardis told the (Peoria) Journal Star that the city doesn't have an ordinance preventing couples from paying to enter a club and swap partners. But he believes the city needs one.
City Councilman Eric Turner thinks many people are disgusted that Peoria has such a club.
Nobody answered a call to the phone number listed for the club on Friday, and there was no way to leave a message.
The council plans to consider the ordinance Tuesday.
this was in the state journal regeistor (sj-r.com)
swingin - thought this site was a swingers site - FLCPL4FUN; was there a misspelling there.... at the end...
"...... Soon Cumming" ???? remember this is a swinger's site and even the young adults have to understanding coming and cumming..... :l
I took my whack at the STUFF.... (remember George Carlin; "my stuff is stuff and everyone else's stuff is shit" routine.... Wasn't my stuff, therefore someone else's.....S#*&) Need a bit of humor when a pissing contest takes 9 pages......well 8 if you consider those that have said enough is enough..... Sad sad situation.... Someone mentioned the age of 12 or 13 as being the way people were treating others... I say, if the foo shits :v
Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - What could possibly a better car than a "Woodie". We have a 47 Pontiac Woodie wagon. Its a great car, fun to drive and yes we get a lot of jokes about having a woodie.
Certified Single Male Program - What do you think? - [quote=SEAKINGHER]That is why I think single males need to be broken down into two groups. Those that are polite swingers and those that are just fuckers.[/quote]
Not just single males....people in general.
This weekends party - Club Eurotic - November 22nd Swingers Date Club Party!!! @ Club Eurotic
This weeks party Nov 22nd look forward to being right at home as we
host The first Ever Swingers Date club .com party in SWFLA come meet
all your online friends. Chat,.relate, mingle and hook up. Let your
sexual side show!!! Be part of it. No other Lifestyle club in SWFLA
offers what we do so what are you waiting for. sign up and get the
polls going as SDC will be giving away Free Trips to Hedo and/or
Desire next month. Where do you want to go!!! look in the Forum
section of the page and voice your opinion!!!
Also we are looking do plan a group trip to some destinations with
SDC Travel please let us know where you would like to go. Either
Hedo or Desire. for information on the trips please go to our links
page and click on The SDC Travel banner.
SDC has set up a Guest list for the party if you are coming please
let them know. We had an incredible turn out this past weekend and
are looking for the parties to get much much bigger total couples in
attendance 62, total sgl Fems 12 Total Sgl Males 10 I'm sure there
are more of you out there come out and support your local lifestyle
club why because we only do it for you!!.
We also promise that if you missed seeing much of Mia >From Mia
erotica you will see MORE of her!! working the door didn't help
much.
Now see why we are THE BEST!!!!
Location Information:
Address: Click hereThe Ramada Inn Down Town Ft Myers
2500 Edwards Drive
Ft Myers, FL 33901
Phone: 239.878.0342
Don't miss this opportunity to meet Mia Erotica in person:
Snacks will be provided - Full bar - Music will be provided by
Dj Ted Spice the lifestyles Premier DJ
Playing all your favorite music!!
Dance, Club, Top 40's House, Trance and Salsa, Meringue
Ladies dress as sexy as you can imagine - Guys dress to impress
Party Starts at 8:00 PM until 2:00 AM At the club
Hospitality Suites open at 1:00 am
Price for our events are as follows:
Couples with membership are $20.00 without membership $25.00
Single Females with membership are Free without membership 5.00
Single males with membership are 40.00 without membership 45.00
(Only select Single male's will be allowed in this event - please
contact Administrator for details)
Memberships can be purchased at the door-Please Print and sign the
application that is provided here on this site look under the link
(application)
This is a non Smoking club should you wish to smoke there is a
smoking area.
Rooms are available at the hotel 59.00 dbl 69.00 suite please call
us to make your reservations!
We will have 2 hospitality Suites for meet and greet should you wish
to have your own room please call for your reservations.
If you wish to purchase your membership in advance please call 239-
878-0342 or email us .
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