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Do your friends and family know about your lifestyle? - - I found this thread timely, as I just had my first "scare" with being found out by my snooping sister. Instead of typing in Myspace.com she decided to go to the history of our computer and came across Swingular. Curiousity won and she went there, where the opening page shouts "Swingers". She promptly came into the family room where the rest of the family was engaged in prebirthday celebrating and said "anything new?" staring right at me. I of course had NO clue what she meant, to which she proceeded to ask if we were swingers. The only thing that made everyone else in the room tune out is that she started ranting about how 'ever since she's moved she's out of the loop and all hell's broken loose... I sell sex toys, my brother drinks, my sister's stopped going to church (can I call her a self righteous bitch?) Probably good to note here that we all grew up Mormon and now four of the five kids have shaken off the brainwashing in adulthood... thankfully we all just ignored her and I made up some line about my girlfriend having me look up some guy she was dating and dropped it. I spent the rest of the day with my insides in a knot wondering just how much she saw... the saved usernames, did she enter the site and look around? Needless to say that night we removed our public photos and I was in a panic. By morning my panic had turned to rage. Why did I feel the need to run and hide, why should I need to defend myself?! My hubby and I have been married for going on 16 years, 7 of which have been spent in the lifestyle. We are the happiest we've ever been. Our vanilla friends, who have no clue that we practice sex as a team sport, all ask us what our secret to such a happy marriage is. They can see that we have something special. Needless to say, I put the pics back up on the profile the next day. Let 'em look for us. I love my life, I love the sex that is a big part of it, and I wouldn't change a thing. I'm still not standing up at family parties to announce my choices, but I wouldn't stand up and talk about my marital bed anyway. What I do naked is my business and my husbands, that's what counts. I'm proud to be in such a committed and honest relationship. They should all try it! Maybe they'd use less prozac and smile more often! Tricia btw, I feel grateful that I have 2 friends outside of the lifestyle that know what we do. They are valuable to me and prove that they are true friends leaving the rest as just 'people we know' Besides, having a wingman now and then is helpful! Thanks for sharing in my babble...

Combining Lifestyle & Non-Lifestyle Friends - - This seems a bit more "adventurous" than I would likely try. There are just such different standards ... comparing swingers and vanilla friends. Recipe for possible embarrassment, trouble ... or whatever, if you ask me.

Destiny's October 14th Halloween Motel Party at Quality Inn in K - Meet and Greet social party with On-premise, no pressures/obligations - Destiny's Private Parties Door Donation Gatherings Motel Halloween Party and Contest When: Oct. 14th, 2006 Where: Quality Inn on I-75 North 2nd Floor Meeting rooms Time: 8pm until 1:30/2am Party info: BYOB, On-premise with no pressures/obligations, fingerfoods and drink set-ups provided, coolers welcome, and NO DRESS CODE. More info on web-sites...... http://www.webspawner.com/users/destinyssocials/index.html http://www.webspawner.com/users/destinytw39/index.html Hostess: Tammy Williams Co-hosts: Samantha B. Jesse J. Rick and Sabrina R. Matt and Angie L. http://www.webspawner.com/users/destinyssocials/index.html http://www.webspawner.com/users/destinytw39/index.html http://www.swingular.com/JEFFANDTAMMY/ http://www.hometown.aol.com/tenaseestripper/myhomepage/profile.html http://adultfriendfinder.com/go/p49785c Ice on hand in a large cooler Black lights and disco ball in dance floor area, with 300 watt sound system. Private and open play areas, with air mattresses. Banquet tables with plenty of seating. Motel Rooms Are Available, for guests and members of Destiny's Private Party at a discounted rate, as long as you mention you're with the party group in the meeting room. I have 5 rooms on reserve, just let the front desk know you're with the party, so you can get one of the rooms for your overnight stay. You can also use AAA discounts. Just have my name removed and have yours put in it's place, if you decide to get a room. * * * * *You're not required to get a room to attend the party.* * * * * * Please DO NOT mention "swingers group" to any of the office staff. I rent the meeting rooms for a "Private Party", and that's all anyone needs to know there. We do not run around outside the meeting rooms naked, we are respectful and discreet in our playing, and we want to keep it this way, to have a place to meet at monthly, so please be dressed appropriately when you go to the restrooms, outside the meeting room, above the lobby. Take care and see ya'll soon. Have a great and wonderful day....your Hostess, Tammy Contact information: [email protected] [email protected] [email protected]

...or do i just suck? - Site Slow? - My son has a t-shirt that says, "It's not lag, you just suck!" Is it just me or has Swingular been REALLY laggy of late? 1) Nope, you suck, Evil. 2) In fact your sucking sucks so bad it sucks! 3) Yeah I blame constant monitoring by the NSA (and prolly the Family Research Council) for the lag. 4) Try logging in on something a little newer than that Commodore 64, Evil. 5) Whine, whine, whine. There are swingers in poor countries who only have dial up! 6) Don't EVEN get me started on tech glitches on Swingular. 7) Could be worse. Could be the early launch Obamacare site. 8) It's all those damned pop up adds for single males that slow shit down. 9) Don't worry, Windows 10 will fix EVERYTHING! 10) YOU try pleasing a bunch of horny swingers. They're raging hormone monsters who compulsively log in 50 times a day! 11) It's all the 12 year old boys logging in when their parents are out that slows everything down. 12) We should all just meet at Jordan Landing 24 and fuck in the back row.

Single male in this lifestyle.. - I have questions for couples and single females. - [quote=BMSHELL][quote]why is it that girls and couples look for girls more than guys?[/quote] So you're asking why do swingers prefer MFF instead of MMF? Because most women in the life-style are bi-sexual to varying degrees, and most men are not. Not even a little bit. Thus, MFF becomes the "third wheel" combination that most swinger couples can enjoy together. (Versus MMF, which is really more just about pleasing the female). Why is is to hard for a single-male to find a couple to play with? Well, see above.. most couples don't want MMF... and those that DO want MMF have about 10,000 of you to choose from. Supply and demand. This isn't that complex. [/quote] Yup. Tons more bi gals than bi guys. Probably 'cause, for just bunches of reasons, it's a lot more "acceptable" for a gal to like playing with gals than it is for guys to like playing with guys. And, as much as some of us see ourselves as rejecting society's "norms" and doing what we ourselves think is right, or acceptable, we still grew up in that society, had its standards pounded into us for years, and just can't truly get completely away from all of them. So more gals are likely to try it out and find out they like it. ~ Terry

RECOGNIZING OTHER SWINGERS - Outside of clubs & parties. - A few years back I learned right here in this forum that an upside down PINEAPPLE in your shopping cart was a signal to others that you are a swinger and on the prowl. So most times we are in a hurry while shopping, but when we do buy an pineapple we do set it on it's top in the kids seat part of the cart.. So far I have only ever seen 1 other person do it and I wasn't interested, so I passed. I have spoken to others about this and NOT 1 PERSON I know, knows about this!! So how many of you know this??? Also, I have been asked if I was a friend of ELLIS. (L-S) LIFESTYLE.... I did not get it at first, but this works as well if you already have reason to ask!!! How many knew this???

Swingers at work... - - About a year ago my wife was visiting one of the fast food stores she owns. It is one in the next town that has a full time General Manager and a manager so she spends minimal time there. She was walking thru and over heard two employee talking. Clearly it was about a local swing club but no one but a member would know. She discretely took one employee to the side and asked if they were speaking (female first name) and (male first name)'s party. She was. Ended up that several of the employee's were attending the same party we were going to. Apparently we had all been going but just never on the same nights. Needless to say it was an interesting evening the time where my wife and I along with three of her employees were all at the same party. A little space was given but by the third or forth time we were all at a party at the same time it worked out ok. The no play rule is VERY firm and it is NEVER mentioned at work. Thank goodness the store was eventually sold to new owners so the concern is much less.

Swingers Dares - Text for cards in the game - .... "Give oral to the person to your left" or stuff like "make yourself orgasm in front of everyone" and the list goes on and on and gets even naughtier but nothing that pushes the limits of most... Can we push the limits a little? TCmissy... We are shocked and more than a little impressed... The two you wrote down were placed on the list as soon as you posted them, specially the second one. We like the way you think!!!

LDS Swingers Survey - Will any former/active LDS swingers take my survey? - Done and done

sexy cities - favorite travel destinations - [quote=PARTYINLV]I thought about Vegas or Palm Springs. But, Cap d'Agde in southern France is the place to go. It's a nude city. Everywhere you go, people are naked. It has also attracted a large community of lifestyle and swingers. 30,000 naked people! We're looking for travel buddies! https://www.capdagdeguide.com/swingers/[/quote] We want to go there as well!