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If you give it a try, it don't mean you're bi !!!!!! - - All I can say is be true to yourself. Whether in or out of the lifestyle, that above anything else is what ensures your happiness and success. Now enough of the philosophical mumbo jumbo... My experience with this topic is pretty varied. Obviously I not only list myself as bisexual but I also am transgendered; so in the swing lifestyle my potential partners are severely limited. But with that said, I have also met a large number of sweet and understanding people out there. I have also met a fair amount of swingers on a more intimate level. Thanks to our religious "western society" however, listing yourself as bi, does pretty much brand you. There have been plenty of opinions on this subject in the forums since I've joined and I'm sure long before hand. The one re-occurring thought I see over and over is that when you are talking about sex, it's simply an act of pleasure in this type of setting. If it is good for the woman, it should be good for the man as well (or TGirl in my case). Long story short dear, just do what your head, heart and little (maybe big, I haven't seen it) head tell you to do. If it feels right, then it IS right. Don't let anyone tell you any differently. If you don't get laid as much, that's their problem for missing out on a great guy that is truely in touch with himself. Alecia

Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - Never done the two cock in the v.. ouch!.. my one dv experince was really good

Lingo - - AC/DC Person who enjoys both same sex and opposite sex sexual activity; Bi; Bisexual. ADULT Euphemism for pornographic. ALL CULTURES Person or couple who enjoys all fetishes and sexual activities (see CULTURE) AMERICAN CULTURE Man on top, the missionary position. ANAL SEX Anal intercourse; see Greek, Greek Culture. ANALINGUS Oral contact or stimulation of the anus of one partner by kissing, licking, or sucking of the other. ANIMAL TRAINING Sexual activity with animals, usually dogs and women; Bestiality ARTS Euphemism for fetishes; Cultures B&D or B/D Bondage and discipline; use of various methods to restrain someone while administering discipline, usually done by a "master" to his/her "slave". (see BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE) BBW Big Beautiful Woman; Referring to women that may not be their ideal weight, but are still very attractive. BHM Big Handsome Man; Referring to men that may not be their ideal weight, but are still very handsome. BESTIALITY (see ANIMAL TRAINING) BI Bisexual: Versatile(see AC/DC) BI-CURIOUS A Male or Female who is interested in trying same-sex activities. BIZARRE Unusual sexual desires BONDAGE A sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie or hold a participating sexual partner. The person doing the binding is considered "dominant" while the person being bound is considered "submissive." CAN ENTERTAIN Advertiser willing to invite others to their home for swinging. CAN TRAVEL Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing. CANING A spanking fetish employing a light cane usually bamboo or other light wood. CHEATING Sexual activity with others without spouse's knowledge and/or consent. CLEAN Hygienic; Free of sexually transmitted diseases. CLOSED DOOR (see CLOSED SWINGING) CLOSED SWINGING Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms, usually in the same house. Provides a maximum of privacy. CLOSET SWINGER A person who hides the fact that he/she is a swinger. (see DISCREET) COUPLE In swinging, a man and a woman. May be married, living together (cohabitating), committed (on going relationship) or a single couple dating for swinging purposes. CPL (see COUPLE) CUCKOLD While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband who's wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition. CULTURE Euphemism for Fetish or Arts. CUNNILINGUS Stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by the mouth especially the tongue and lips, and sometimes the teeth (see FRENCH CULTURE) DILDO An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic, for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the anus. DIRECTOR The term used to describe the principal person who runs or otherwise operates a swing club, generally the owner. A person who works for the director and is responsible for party or club operation whether or not for pay, is generally called a Manager. DISCIPLINE A sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the other, a willing participant. Often includes physical punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from physical restraint to mild spankings to painful beatings. DISCREET OR DISCRETION Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging activity. DOCILE Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline (see SUBMISSIVE). DOMESTIC TRAINING Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate and humiliating nature. DOMINANT A sexual partner in control of a willing submissive partner. ENGLISH CULTURE: Sexual stimulation from spanking or caning ENTERTAIN (see CAN ENTERTAIN) EXHIBITIONIST Behaviour in which an individual experiences sexual arousal or pleasure from displaying his/her body. Enjoys being watched. F Female FELLATIO Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth. FETISH Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual objects, actions or non-genital anatomy. FLAGELLATION Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking. FRENCH CULTURE: Oral-genital sexual activity; see Fellatio, Cuntilingus FUN AND GAMES Euphemism for sexual activity. GAY A homosexual person, male or female. A gay female may also be called a Lesbian. GBM Gay Black Male GENEROUS Refers to money for sex. GREEK CULTURE: Anal-penile intercourse GROUP ROOM Room set aside for group sex, generally furnished with wall-to-wall mattresses or pads. Term is prevalent in western US (see MATROOM). GROUP SEX Swinging; Sexual activity between three or more people. GWM Gay White Male HARD CORE A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction is assumed and expected. HARD SWINGING (see HARD CORE) HEAD Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see French) HEDONIST Someone who lives for pleasure. HETEROSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex. HOMOSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. (See GAY) HORNY Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure. HUNG Refers to a man with a large penis. HWP Height-Weight Proportionate; Someone who is at their ideal body weight. INDOOR Swinging activities in general INDOOR SPORTS (See INDOOR) INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional and recreational values. IRL In Real Life; Used in ads or online chat ISO In Search Of; Used in ads; MWC ISO Single Female LEATHER A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing or touching of leather or leather garments. LESBIAN A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women. (see GAY) LTR Long Term Relationship MARITAL AIDS Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others. MASOCHISM Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation from others. MASTER/SLAVE Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship. (see B&D, BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE) MATROOM Room set aside for group sex. Principally an eastern US term (see GROUP ROOM). MEET FOR PLEASURE Will meet for swinging sex; no pretense for social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. MENAGE A' TROIS Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in a swinging interaction. (see THREESOME, TRIAD) MORESOMES More than three people in a swinging interaction. (see GROUP SEX) MBC Married Black Couple MBiC Married Bisexual Couple MWC Married White Couple NASCA The North American Swing Club Association. An association of swing clubs and magazines to promote swinging as the viable and beneficial lifestyle it has become. Levels of members: Affiliate Club, General, Associate and Institutional for swing clubs and magazines, general swinging community, media and institutions of learning and research. NEWCOMERS New people in swinging; First-timers. NONSMOKER Does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes. OFF-PREMISE No swinging takes place at the club or party; you meet and make your own arrangements. Great for newcomers. OPEN DOOR (see OPEN SWINGING) OPEN SWINGING A couple swinging with another couple in the same room; Several or all participating couples together in the same room. A minimum of privacy. ORAL-GENITAL (see FRENCH, CUNNILINGUS, FELLATIO, HEAD) ORGY Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room; Complete abscence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex. PARTY Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging. PARTY CLOTHES Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-arounds and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play. PARTY HOUSE (Western US) A non-membership swing club offering a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. PASSIVE Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. Docile and submissive in swinging. (see DISCIPLINE) PHOTO Interested in exchange of nude or sexually explicit photos of self with similar photos of others. PHOTOGRAPHY Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with similar photographs, slides or movies of others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs. P/P Photo and phone number (used in personal ads). PRO Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escorts. RECREATIONAL SWINGER A person who practices swinging primary as a recreational diversion; not interested in forming any long term friendship or emotional attachment. RESTRAINT Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments. ROMAN Group sex, orgies, the party scene, etc (see ROMAN CULTURE) ROMAN CULTURE: Sexual orgies RUBBER Condom means of contraception; sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D. SAFE Used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy; Naturally or surgically sterile. S.A.S.E. Self-addressed stamped envelope. SBF Single Black Female SBiF Single Bisexual Female SBM Single Black Male SGL (see SINGLE) S&M or S/M Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM). SINGLE A swinger without a partner, does not refer to marital status. SOCIAL A party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no swinging at a social, but privately arranged swinging may follow a social. SOCIAL SWING CLUB A swing club, generally private membership that offers social and swinging activities including a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. They may also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples though the marital status of the couple is rarely important. SODOMY Non-coital, especially anal or oral, copulation with either an opposite sex or same sex partner. SOFT SWINGERS Couples who only have intercourse with their own partner. No swapping for intercourse. SOFT SWINGING The term used to describe same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples some type of soft-swinging. (see HARD SWINGING, HARD CORE). SRS Same Room Sex (see SOFT SWINGING). STD Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many. These social and moral implications interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem. STR or STR8 (see STRAIGHT) STRAIGHT Any person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or A person who does not use drugs; also used by swingers to denote non-swinging people. SUBMISSIVE Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive) SWAPPING Two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity. SWEDISH CULTURE: Use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate another SWF Single White Female SWING MAGAZINE A periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of general interest to the swinging community. SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners; single men and women are sometimes involved. SWINGING LIFESTYLE Style of living with swinging a major component in recreation, choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships. SWINGING MARRIAGE Marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals. SWM Single White Male TAN Tested Antibody Negative for HIV virus(AIDS) THREESOME Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a swinging encounter. (see Menage a Trois) TICKET A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the male to gain entrance. The ticket generally has no intention to swing or is not free to swing. TOYS Sexual aids (see MARITAL AIDS) TRANSEXUAL Individual who has undergone conversion from one gender to another through surgery and hormone treatments; or one who is in the process of gender conversion TRANSVESTITE A person who receives sexual gratification by wearing clothes identified with the opposite sex; not necessarily homosexual. TRAVEL (see CAN TRAVEL) TRIAD Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome. TRIOLISM Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD) TUBAL LIGATION Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian tubes to make a woman infertile. Also called a Band Aid Operation in reference to the small incision made just below the navel to enable the cutting and ligation. UTOPIAN SWINGER A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals. VASECTOMY Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens to artificially sterilize a male. VERSATILE Bisexual. (see AC/DC) VIBRATOR Electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another. VOLUPTUOUS Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips. VOYEUR A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts. VOYEURISM Sexual gratification by watching or peeping at others engaged in sexual activity. WAY-OUTS/ WEIRDOS Those people interested in activities usually considered by the majority to be bizarre, kinky, unusual, or unconventional. Hope this helps :)_

Bubulaplease - Sandy station? - We went to Sandy Station and were immediately approached by someone who knew we were swingers. I guess we just give off the " I'll fuck the shit out of you." vibe. That being said, we loved the club, the ambience,(except the music) but the people were super nice. Can't wait to go back.

New Swingers Club in Utah - Gauging interest in new club - The Moose is still alive and well! We talked with the new man that is now running the place last Friday night when we were there, and he has some great ideas to make the Moose better than ever! Here's a little info that we learned about the new changes, and we want to share it with everyone.: * Friday's are now Lifestyle night. It use to be "Gay Night" (as it was always referred as), and the Lifestyle just shared the club with them. It is still open to the public; however, they are trying to get the Lifestyle to take over Friday's. * Upstairs will still be reserved for Lifestyle guests, and will still require a wristband for access. There will be a bartender upstairs. * The price to get in is $5.00 for Lifestyle members per person. This includes a free shot ticket and access to the upstairs. YOU MUST SPECIFY THAT YOU ARE WITH THE LIFESTYLE GROUP when paying; otherwise, you'll have to pay the $10.00 per person price that the general public will have to pay to get in. * The dance floor will still be for everyone. * Once a month they will have a live band on Friday nights. This will begin on this Friday night, April 13, 2018. The band this week is CHANGING LANES, and is sure to be a great performance and lots of fun! You can Google them to get an idea of their music. * When the live band is done, there will still be a DJ playing music so the dancing and fun can continue. There will be a live DJ every week. * One of the biggest complaints about the Moose in the past has been that it's too loud to socialize. There will be a sound man that will now control the volume of the music upstairs so that we can all talk and meet new people and actually be able to hear what each other are saying. It will still be loud enough to enjoy and dance to, so don't worry about losing the music vibe that pumps us all up! Please note, when the live band is playing, they control the volume, not the Moose personnel. So good things are coming for the Moose Lounge, and it's up to US to make it a success! Let's get out and have some fun together this Friday night...and Every Friday night! There are not a lot of options for the lifestyle in Utah. We can make this club our own and finally have a decent place to hang out.

Cuming out of the Swinger closet - - [quote=CNTRLCPL][quote=SJA]After some time in the lifestyle, we have recently started to break the news to some of our close friends that we are swingers. We have great friends and so far they have taken the information really well. However, we have other friends that would never want to hear it, and god forbid if we ever told our family about it. What are everyone else's thoughts about coming out of the "Swinger" closet?[/quote] Have you even considered the implications for others that may want to stay "in the closet"? You may be committing "Swinger Suicide" as it were... your openness might be great for you, but other may want to stay behind the curtain and would not want to be outed by association. [/quote] This is an excellent point we hadn't thought about. Luckily, we've only shared with a couple VERY close friends. Plus, we keep our vanilla friends and swinger friends quite separate to avoid this situation.

Friend collectors or swingers - - It also depends on the mood that people are in. My wife is not always in the mood for this type of sexual activity. However, when people send us friend requests and they sound nice, respectful, and there is a potential for attraction, we accept the friend requests.

Lifestyle in news - - Can you believe one guy in the article compared swingers to pedophiles?!

How close is too close - - FITZNBELINDA Actually, swinging will very quickly bring out and magnify flaws in a relationship, even in good relationships. The difference is that a good relationship/marriage will use this info to increase the trust and communications and make that relationship stronger. You asked about swingers as compared to the general public... The divorce rate in the general public is between 66 and 77% depending on which figures you are looking at.. THis is both for 1st and 2nd marriages. Approx 70% of all married people, both male and females, in the general public, now will admit to extramarital affairs. Since extramarital sex is the essence of swinging that is not an issue but marriages in the swinging community are stable approximately 85% of the time or only 15% of swingers marriages fail... as compared with 75% failure in the general public... In other words non swingers are 340% more likely to get divorced than swigners... or 3.4 times as likely. Respect is one thing but sometimes Stuff just happens. We don't ask for it we are not open for it but still it still happens.... My love for others has no effect on my wife and my relationship.. She understand who I will be going home with and that I don't wish to cause others grief.. If people are honest with themselves as well as others and you respect people enough to understand what's going on and care about their feelings you just walk away before any damage is done...

Secret Swingers Club Ogden, UT - Clubs - Tonight’s party is a Mardi Gras party. Masks encouraged but not mandatory. Really fun parties! You can get the password on Facebook Unspoken lifestyle group. If you can’t find a password, don’t worry. You can still get in.