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Black Ring, Right Hand - How to tell if someone's a swinger - So this has been discussed a few times, but I'm surprised how few people here have heard of it..
The [b]black-ring on the right-hand[/b] has quickly become the new "standard" on how to tell if someone's a swinger in public. (No, it's not a sure-indicator, but it's gaining traction FAST in the swinger community).
- It started off as a discussion on Kasidie a few years ago.
- Several swingers bloggers and podcasters picked it up and endorsed it.
- Almost all of the larger online swinger communities are now endorsing it.
- It's even been mentioned a few times on PBTV's show "Swing".
- We recently went on a swingers cruise and saw LOTS of couples wearing them.
It's actually got some real traction..... The great thing is that it's small. It's cheap. It's not obvious to anyone else. It's easy to 'deny' if you ever ARE caught ("Oh.. I just liked the ring..")..
My wife and I both wear them now... But we've never seen them "in the wild" in Utah... We found that they made a great conversation starter.
More Info here:
- http://www.okswing.com/index.php/en/easyblog/entry/black-ring-right-hand-how-to-find-swingers-in-public
- http://www.lifestylerings.com/faqs.html
- http://swapfu.blogspot.com/p/black-ring-right-hand.html
Girls that are into DP - How common is this activity among the swingers? - tried dp and dvp both very explosive if done correctly we dont do it all the time but when we do its a treat for sure !!! ;-)
Being pregnant in the lifestyle - - We would have to agree pregnant woman are the most sexiest. Unfortuantly around us everyone takes a break from the lifestyle durring this time. This is more then likely why we have an attraction also to woman that have meat on then. Woman seem tobe sexier with meat on them instead of the small framed woman. Please dont get us wrong we like all shapes and sizes but just love full figured woman..
People please always practice safe sex, T got fixed 9 years ago and even with our old girlfriend that we had for a year he still practiced safe sex. It all really hit home for alot of people here in Idaho THis summer when in a swingers group we where memebers they had an out break of clamidia(may not be spelled right) it was scary because with B being bisexual she could have got it easy enough. so remember this if you use your toys on another woman cover them with condoms also. Safety first..
T & B
Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - Can we talk about the kind of car we would drive if we won the lottery? [img]http://www.thesupercars.org/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/2009-bugatti-164-veyron-fbg-par-hermes-thumbnail.jpg[/img] Bugatti Veyron....cliche, but dude....just taking it across Europe...oooo.....
I'm in a '99 Accord, can't complain :) Not as capacious as the minivan, not as thrilling as the camaro, and not as powerful as a truck, but I did find out that the governor stops it at 137 mph ;)
Messages - why don't people want to message back - [quote=Sm435]
5. People totally content with swinging are already in an established party or meet group and have people come to them now. They are tons of fun, experienced swingers that know how to balance normal life and swinging life.
So we always tell newbs there is a huge learning curve to this lifestyle. No, it’s not the sex part, we all already do that, it’s the ability to sort through the mess and find connections. Living where you do makes it even harder. Try some other sites to see if they fit better.
Don’t jump at every friend request. Our experience over 4 years is the blind ones with no message lead no where.
We use the sites for first contact, then k!k (you can live pic verify there) and chat to see if it’s a match. Remember it’s a frustrating road ahead.
Just keep at it. We are to the point now we can spot most flakes, cheaters and collectors quickly and we block and move on. When you do finally meet just be open. Network, be friends, that can lead to parties or new friends. Start looking to just meet cool fucking people and learn from there.[/quote]
Well said. We just quoted the parts we completely agree with. You should remember that once you find a good group of FWB - you are less inclined to follow up on every offer. This is more a time management issue than a rejection. Hopefully people will still be responsive.
The only emails we don’t respond to are blind friend requests .... especially from people with no profile pics. Sorry - we won’t respond to blind requests. If you are interested - send a thoughtful message - if you are not, simply say so. We think that is good form.
Good luck - it’s wonderful when it works. We have been extremely lucky in finding some lifetime great friends. We’ve only had one couple we played with who ghosted us - we’ll never understand that - but it happens. That’s on them, not us. We feel like what comes around goes around. Wouldn’t change anything about our LS experience though - we feel blessed to have expanded our circle of friends to FWB. Lucky, lucky, lucky us!! May you all have similar luck!
Looking for Swinger friendly hotels in Brevard Co. Fl - - Here are all of te sites that I could fit together from all over FL... Hope this helps.
Name: AMORE SWINGERS CLUB
Address: P.O. Box 2283
City, State: Ormond Beach, FL
Distance: 449 miles
Phone: 386-255-1600
Email: [email protected]
Contact: Petra & Joe
Website: Not Listed
Description: PARTIES EVERY WEDNESDAY-FRIDAY & SATURDAY 7.00PM-3.00AM, FOR INVITED COUPLES & SELECT SINGLES.
Name: The Lifestyle Ranch
Address: 16571 SE 49St Rd
City, State: Ocklawaha, FL
Distance: 472 miles
Phone: 352-625-8918
Email: [email protected]
Contact: N/A
Website: http://www.angelfire.com/fl4/lifestylera...
Description: 8 acre secluded Private ranch catering to lifestyle couples and single ladies! We are Free and intrested in friends and friendship only!
Name: CharlieWoods
Address: Just off I-4
City, State: Orange City, FL
Distance: 474 miles
Phone: (386) 775-2372
Email: N/A
Contact: Charlie and Carolyn
Website: Not Listed
Description: On-premise for couples and singles. We have 6 acres to party on with dance floor, hot tub, pool and private playrooms.
Name: Club Relate
Address: PO Box 574584
City, State: Orlando, FL
Distance: 500 miles
Phone: 407-678-2540
Email: [email protected]
Contact: Tom & Lynda
Website: http://www.clubrelate.net
Description: A masturbation swing club for couples and singles of both sexes, meeting on Saturdays. Twelve years of operation
Name: RANCH 4 PLAY
Address: Call
City, State: Orlando, FL
Distance: 502 miles
Phone: (352) 483-1988
Email: [email protected]
Contact: N/A
Website: http://ranch4play.com/
Description: RANCH 4 PLAY is situated on a 5 acre site in a peaceful, wooded site 30 minutes from Orlando Florida. As a guest of RANCH 4 PLAY, you will have access to the cleanest on-premise, private, swingers party in all of central Florida.
Name: J.D. & Sandra's
Address: P.O. Box 720249
City, State: Orlando, FL
Distance: 509 miles
Phone: 866-738-3950
Email: [email protected]
Contact: J.D. & Sandra
Website: http://www.jdnsandras.com
Description: On premise club for couples and select singles every Saturday.
Name: Florida Social
Address: *
City, State: Fort Walton Beach, FL
Distance: 516 miles
Phone: *
Email: [email protected]
Contact: Steve and Mandy
Website: http://www.floridasocial.com
Description: Premiere off-premise adult swingers club.
We strive to provide adult couples in the swinging lifestyle a fun safe place to meet and get to know other like minded adult couples.
Our socials are always exciting and we can't wait to meet you!
Rating:
(10=Best 1=Worst) 12 Ratings Clean Atmos. Cost Summary
Website Avg. 7 7 6 7
You may only rate clubs within 350 miles of you.
Name: The Partyhouse
Address: 14051 Old Dade City Road
City, State: Kathleen, FL
Distance: 531 miles
Phone: 863-853-7750
Email: [email protected]
Contact: Anne
Website: http://www.centralflpartyhouse.com
Description: We party in a private home, with ample parking and privacy for couples and single males and females. We have monthly special events The parties are on friday and saturday evenings
Name: The Bottom Line
Address: 3090 Evans Avenue
City, State: Fort Myers, FL
Distance: 637 miles
Phone: 239-337-7292
Email: n/a
Contact: John
Website: http://www.clubtbl.com
Description: Club that meets every Friday night.
Name: Deenies Hideaway
Address: 5011 W. Hillsboro Blvd.
City, State: Pompano Beach, FL
Distance: 650 miles
Phone: 954-428-3336
Email: [email protected]
Contact: Deenie
Website: http://deenieshideaway.com
Description: Luxurious private on premise swingers retreat for over 20 years. We are open 365 days a year. We have gourmet buffet, volleyball, a pool talbe, indoor hot tub, swimming pool and cozy playrooms.
Name: Club Hedonism
Address: 1000 east sample road
City, State: Pompano Beach, FL
Distance: 651 miles
Phone: 954-783-4741
Email: [email protected]
Contact: N/A
Website: http://clubhedonism.com/
Description: South Florida's finest on premise club. wed -sat 8pm till 4am couples only sat. huge dance floor private rooms group rooms.Upscale and affordable
Name: Club 3299
Address: n/a
City, State: Pompano Beach, FL
Distance: 651 miles
Phone: 954-815-3299
Email: [email protected]
Contact: Jeff
Website: n/a
Description: Social club for those in the lifestyle.
Name: Club Chic
Address: 525 East Sample Road
City, State: Pompano, FL
Distance: 654 miles
Phone: 954-781-8884
Email: [email protected]
Contact: n/a
Website: http://www.clubchic.com/
Description: Off premise club with DJ, buffet, BYOB. Open Saturdays
Name: Trapeze
Address: 3660 W. Commercial Blvd
City, State: Ft. Lauderdale, FL
Distance: 658 miles
Phone: 954-730-8121
Email: [email protected]
Contact: Alan or Dennis
Website: http://www.trapezeclub.com
Description: On premise club open Wed-Sun 8pm-5am. We offer a buffet. BYOB
Name: Platos Repeat
Address: 321 West Sunrise Blvd
City, State: Ft. Lauderdale, FL
Distance: 658 miles
Phone: 954-523-9818
Email: [email protected]
Contact: n/a
Website: http://www.platos-repeat.com/
Description: Private on premise swing club open Wed-Sun. We have a four star buffet, made to oder breakfast on weekends, DJ and alcohol is BYOB.
Rating:
Name: Anakosha
Address: 2338 Immokalee Road #146
City, State: Naples, FL
Distance: 665 miles
Phone: 941-436-2014
Email: [email protected]
Contact: n/a
Website: http://www.anakosha.org/
Description: Couples only parties for the purposes of education and exploration of human sexuality and love in the context of marriage and alternative relationships. Membership required.
Rules to hooking up - - [quote=FUCKCHASTITY]Maybe we all ended up swingers because we don't play games. Sounds like everyone was as surprised by these revelations as we were. We are all here for the same thing, no need to dance around it.[/quote]
I for one, am grateful.... I'm too lazy to try translating code... It takes up time that would be better spent actually tasting new friends.
Can you be in love AND swing? If so, tell us how! - - Just what the hell is a life coach? Is that the new name people, without the proper education, training, and licensure, who counsel others are calling themselves today? I am a professional counselor, licensed and trained to do what I do. My Lady and I met on line at a swingers site and met over coffee at a local public pub. We ended back at her place for a great evening of sex....after an even better afternoon of intelligent conversation. That was two years ago and we have been together ever since. She has moved in with me, carries her own weight in all ways helping run "our" home. We swing, or would not be on this sight....lol, together and seperately. We are deeply in love and have decided to get married, because we do love, respect, cherish, honor and trust each other.
Distrust and worry has nothing to do with playing with others, if you trust your partner, have done your own self examination and healed your own life wounds. Our sex life is absolutely GREAT!!!! Our swinging with other people is fun and an enhancement to our love making. I love to see the smile on her face, the spring in her step, and the gleem in her eye after she has been with one of her lovers...male or female. She loves to hear whether or not I had a good time and enjoyed myself with another lover. We may play seperately at times, but I know she is coming home to me...that is where her heart is! And I will always come home to her because that is where my heart and soul are!
My professional discipline teaches to respect others and work with the client where they are. I am not to judge them or impose my values on them.
When seeking guidance or help from a helping professional...and I mean licensed, trained professonal....do not ask their advise, nor follow their moral code. Each of us is a unique individual with different moral values, belief systems, and desires. As long as we are not harming another being or ourselves, then all is fair, fun, and healthy. Anything may be overindulged in...therefore, moderation is the key. If I drink too much I may be an alcoholic which is a problem, if I drink heavily I may just be a heavy drinker...the key is whether or not what I am doing harms others, my self or results in problems in my life or the life of people I love.
You are correct in questioning whether or not swinging is for you, and if it results in any discomfort for either of you, talk openly and non-judgementally with each other. Love, as the saying goes, means never having to say your sorry. But love is open, trusting, non-threating, non-controlling, and is open to the opinions of each other. Because I deeply and honestly love my Lady and she me....her happiness and pleasure is more important than any thing to me.
As one individual stated this will be my third marriage too. She completes me like no other person can. Best of hard work to get where you are comfortable looking at your mate and your self in the mirror....it well worth it what ever you decide.
Anyone else in or near Daybreak? - We know you are out there! - Great idea! I have created a group. I called it Daybreak Swingers, but anyone near here can join. Just looking for people around here. :) Can't wait to meet our fun/sexy neighbors!
Sex vs. Guilt - Atheists have 'better sex lives than followers of religion who are plagued with guilt' - [quote=EVILDOERS]I'm still trying to figure out how/why they "preyed" for forgiveness. Interesting topic after watching swinging evolve here in Utah for the past 25 years and seeing those coming from strict Mormon backgrounds (ourselves included) either abandon the faith and/or faith in general or try to rationalize their adulterous activities. We've met quite a few people who while fucking suddenly decide it's getting too late since they have church in the morning. Gives new meaning to the term "Fast Sunday".[/quote]
When you consider that the largest religious group in Utah is the LDS faith it is not surprising that the largest group of swingers is from that faith. I was told by mother that the fly boys of WWII used to say that Mormon girls don
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