Title should read: My Wife And I Would Like To Try Voyeurism: Looking For Another Heterosexual couple to watch.
We have never done this before, or anything like it. We're in our early 50s (look younger), been married 33 years, and are talking about ways we could add a little adventure and spice to our sex.
We are both heterosexual, polite, discreet, very respectful, nonsmokers, fit, honest, and down to earth. We are looking for the same, though fitness level is not terribly important. Average is just fine. We would prefer a couple not too far from our age but would consider younger and up to 60 or so.
Ideally, we would like to watch another couple then be able to quickly escape to an adjacent private room for our own private time.
We are not interested in touching, being touched, or swapping. We would simply like to watch.
(see our profile for more details)
We would prefer meeting somewhere in the S Idaho, N Utah, N Nevada area.
Are there any other couples out there that would consider the possibility of connecting with us and doing this?
We have never done this before, or anything like it. We're in our early 50s (look younger), been married 33 years, and are talking about ways we could add a little adventure and spice to our sex.
We are both heterosexual, polite, discreet, very respectful, nonsmokers, fit, honest, and down to earth. We are looking for the same, though fitness level is not terribly important. Average is just fine. We would prefer a couple not too far from our age but would consider younger and up to 60 or so.
Ideally, we would like to watch another couple then be able to quickly escape to an adjacent private room for our own private time.
We are not interested in touching, being touched, or swapping. We would simply like to watch.
(see our profile for more details)
We would prefer meeting somewhere in the S Idaho, N Utah, N Nevada area.
Are there any other couples out there that would consider the possibility of connecting with us and doing this?
The beach is fun for voyeurism and exhibitionism head out there sometime
Would you be fully clothed, nude, or partially nude while you watch the other couple? Would you be touching each other or interacting with each other in any way while watching? Would there be any kind of verbal interaction between couples while you watch? It MIGHT be something we would consider doing but we'd want a lot more details and exact expectations before committing.
Maybe try a party, like Venus game night
We will be out tonight just for that.
Heterosexual couple? Na ...not on here. Most every profile includes a bi-something female. Just say’n. 😂💦
However, we will show you ours ... if you will show us yours! 🤪
However, we will show you ours ... if you will show us yours! 🤪
EVILDOERS wrote:
Would you be fully clothed, nude, or partially nude while you watch the other couple? Would you be touching each other or interacting with each other in any way while watching? Would there be any kind of verbal interaction between couples while you watch? It MIGHT be something we would consider doing but we'd want a lot more details and exact expectations before committing.
Thanks for your reply! Being completely new to this, and being this would be quite the leap for us, our first time would probably be quite conservative.
So, as far as being clothed or not, it's probably safe to say that we would be more comfortable being clothed. With a few spirits, my wife may be fine to get slightly more exposed though. MAYBE.
Difficult to know if we would be touching in any way. However, if everything felt comfortable, I think it would be natural that my wife and may end up kissing and doing some petting, particularly if my wife wore a dress or skirt with no panties. This is assuming it was ok with the couple we were watching. And if the other couple were fine with it, we MAY end up doing more in the same room. However, our intent right now is to watch then step into our own private room.
I don't know about the verbal communication. I would probably be fine either way. I believe my wife would feel the same way. We could be entirely quiet and sight-unseen, or quietly communicate to each other and or the couple we were watching. We would cater to the desires of the couple we were watching.
Neither one of us have pushy personalities. We would be open to ideas and believe details and expectations should be clear, upfront, and agreed upon before any meeting. That said, to make this worth the effort for us, ultimately, we wish to see penetration, specifically in positions which would make for easy viewing. We don't have to be within touching reach (that may or may not even be comfortable for us), if that is not what the other couple wanted. We would like to be close enough though to see good detail.
Would be happy to discuss more details in private. I appreciate your consideration.
SOMEWHERENTIME wrote:
Heterosexual couple? Na ...not on here. Most every profile includes a bi-something female. Just say’n. 😂💦
However, we will show you ours ... if you will show us yours! 🤪
Ha!
I should have mentioned it in my original post but we are totally fine if the women is bi-sexual or bi-curious. If anything, all else being equal, I think that would even be better.
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Acacp8789 wrote:
Hmmm. I personally love to be watched but equally enjoy watching. Do you guys want to be watched in return? Maybe a virtual webcam thing would be best initially for you guys. A good way to break the ice without physical connect or closeness. Just an idea. Sounds like you guys may need to discuss exactly what you want out of the situation and your firm limits of engagement. Maybe initially it is just sex with each other in the same room as another couple like hotels that have two beds. Lots of options to choose from. I think you may have a hard time finding a couple that's ok with no tit for tat. Which is why I recommend the video cam thing. You can get kik app and video chat it.
Currently, neither of us have any desire to be watched, at least doing the final deed (petting, foreplay... yes, I could see that as a very real possibility). I have learned to never say never though. After watching, we may find that we want to be watched too. For now though, I think the key for us is baby steps, one step at a time.
I understand that it could be more difficult for us finding a couple ok with us not wanting to be watched. However, we're very much hoping there will be a couple understanding enough that would be willing to give us a chance. We're good looking (so we're told), continually active, act younger (my wife may tell you I act 14!) and can be fun. More could happen down the road, who knows....
That's a good idea with the web cam. But, outside of being on the Net, I have an aversion to technology and avoid it as much as possible. That said, I would not rule it out, particularly if the chemistry seemed there with a particular couple. For now though, I'm simply not into introducing more technology into my life.
Thanks for everyone's replies and personal messages.
Well it seems like the only thing that you’re truly interested in is something that you can find in Las Vegas it’s called the green door should book a trip go check it out Believe me there will be plenty of people there to watch.
swinghere69 wrote:
Well it seems like the only thing that you’re truly interested in is something that you can find in Las Vegas it’s called the green door should book a trip go check it out Believe me there will be plenty of people there to watch.
Thanks. Something I saw on the Net alerted me to the Green Door. Upon researching it, I also came across the Red Rooster. While at first I thought one of these would be the ticket, I came to realize that it would be more of a crap shoot than seemed reasonable for us. I found tons of reviews for both places, and read many. Some were glowing. Many were not. Many said there were few people, even though the management claimed otherwise in order to get them inside.
With that in mind, I figured we'd be extremely lucky to pull off what we wanted on the first visit. Likely I thought, is that we would have to keep going until something happened, if it ever did. Just a single trip down there though (getting there, hotel, entrance fees, food, etc) would cost us quite a chunk of money. And there are the single creepy guys following couples around (especially at the Green Door) that many reviewers mentioned.
That's when I signed up here in hopes of finding a more local couple. It would be less costly, and it seemed like a surer bet we could actually fulfill the fantasy on the first try. I have to admit the appeal of neutrality at a place like the Green Door though. My wife mentioned this as well. But, arranging a meeting with a couple has its own appeal to me. Seems there is much more room for success this way.
Evil has a good sense of humor and I 'spect he was just kidding, but, to answer the question, there are clubs like the Green Door and Trapeze, resorts like Desire, and plain, ol' local house parties, all of which would have plenty for you to watch that would get the juices flowing. Our personal experience is awfully limited, but we understand there is no pressure to participate and many folks like to be watched. Or so we've heard....
Hey, Evil, if you're really serious, put us on the list too. We're nice folks. :-)
Hey, Evil, if you're really serious, put us on the list too. We're nice folks. :-)
This is the male half. I like being watched, but my partner does not. However, she is okay (I just asked her) with me being with another woman while you, and she, watch. Would that work? Now, I would just have to find that other woman 
Waikiki wrote:
Evil has a good sense of humor and I 'spect he was just kidding, but, to answer the question, there are clubs like the Green Door and Trapeze, resorts like Desire, and plain, ol' local house parties, all of which would have plenty for you to watch that would get the juices flowing. Our personal experience is awfully limited, but we understand there is no pressure to participate and many folks like to be watched. Or so we've heard....
Hey, Evil, if you're really serious, put us on the list too. We're nice folks. :-)
Whaaaat? I knew he had a warped sense of humor after visiting his profile but, that one escaped me.
At any rate, thanks for your post and suggestions. As I mentioned previously, I have ruled out the Green Room, at least for now. I am open to checking out the others if no luck is to be found here.
I have had a surprising number of people message me. That was a shot of hope! Seems most might be kicking tires though. Hopefully our revamped and fleshed out profile will help seal a deal!
Waikiki wrote:
Evil has a good sense of humor and I 'spect he was just kidding, but, to answer the question, there are clubs like the Green Door and Trapeze, resorts like Desire, and plain, ol' local house parties, all of which would have plenty for you to watch that would get the juices flowing. Our personal experience is awfully limited, but we understand there is no pressure to participate and many folks like to be watched. Or so we've heard....
Hey, Evil, if you're really serious, put us on the list too. We're nice folks. :-)
Naw, my answer was sincere (My meds had kicked in.)
And WHAT list, Waikiki? If there's a list I have some shit to add to it!
Hi there. We would be very interested
Recently, we put on a show for a single guy in his room of a very nice hotel on the strip when he was visiting Las Vegas for business. The expectation was for him to only watch. It was our first time and his first time doing this type of activity. We didn't really know what to expect, but we love adventures. In the end, all of us found it to be an unbelievably thrilling and erotic experience.
We felt it necessary to first meet in a vanilla bar for drinks and get to know each other, while at the same time, clarifying the rules and expectations. Once we were all comfortable and more relaxed, we went to his room and chatted some more. Shortly afterward though, I began to slowly remove articles of my wife's clothing and the show began. He was the perfect gentleman while he watched us. We know that he loved it. We really enjoyed it and thought that we would like to do it again. But, some reason, the thought of doing for "another couple" never really entered our minds. After discussing it, we think it would be fun. How do you feel about watching two couples who are swapping?
We felt it necessary to first meet in a vanilla bar for drinks and get to know each other, while at the same time, clarifying the rules and expectations. Once we were all comfortable and more relaxed, we went to his room and chatted some more. Shortly afterward though, I began to slowly remove articles of my wife's clothing and the show began. He was the perfect gentleman while he watched us. We know that he loved it. We really enjoyed it and thought that we would like to do it again. But, some reason, the thought of doing for "another couple" never really entered our minds. After discussing it, we think it would be fun. How do you feel about watching two couples who are swapping?
SUNRISE wrote:
This is the male half. I like being watched, but my partner does not. However, she is okay (I just asked her) with me being with another woman while you, and she, watch. Would that work? Now, I would just have to find that other woman
That would be interesting and something I believe would work. Now get busy and find that other woman!
NEWCPL4U wrote:
Hi there. We would be very interested
Great! Message me a proposal and or ideas, if you would. Thanks.
PARTYINLV wrote:
We really enjoyed it and thought that we would like to do it again. But, some reason, the thought of doing for "another couple" never really entered our minds. After discussing it, we think it would be fun. How do you feel about watching two couples who are swapping?
So, we would watch you two plus another couple? Four people having sex at the same time? That could be even better than watching a single couple. Two for the price of one! Seriously though, that is a great idea!
EVILDOERS wrote:
Naw, my answer was sincere (My meds had kicked in.)
And WHAT list, Waikiki? If there's a list I have some shit to add to it!
Why, the list of those who would cheer you on during the demonstration, of course. We would be your biggest fans. Well, maybe not the biggest, but average with a lot of heart. :-)
To be honest, we never thought anything like this could ever happen, but, judging by the comments and anecdotes, Swingular is a lot more fun than we had guessed. Kudos to Canvas for bringing it up and if anyone wants an audience sometime.... It could be a good segue for our timid souls. Cheers.
EVILDOERS wrote:
Would you be fully clothed, nude, or partially nude while you watch the other couple? Would you be touching each other or interacting with each other in any way while watching? Would there be any kind of verbal interaction between couples while you watch? It MIGHT be something we would consider doing but we'd want a lot more details and exact expectations before committing.
Watching you two would be an extremely thrilling,exciting, and heart pounding erotic adventure.
We absolutely love voyeurism. We have done this a couple of times once even in the same bed with the other couple. It's an amazing turn on watching and being watched. We have even performed for a single guy who just stood next to the bed and jacked off which the wife found extremely sexy.
MANDM1975 wrote:
We absolutely love voyeurism. We have done this a couple of times once even in the same bed with the other couple. It's an amazing turn on watching and being watched. We have even performed for a single guy who just stood next to the bed and jacked off which the wife found extremely sexy.
we agree that our experience with the single guy watching was an amazing experience that we were not expecting to be so much fun.
Waikiki wrote:EVILDOERS wrote:
Naw, my answer was sincere (My meds had kicked in.)
And WHAT list, Waikiki? If there's a list I have some shit to add to it!
Why, the list of those who would cheer you on during the demonstration, of course. We would be your biggest fans. Well, maybe not the biggest, but average with a lot of heart. :-)
To be honest, we never thought anything like this could ever happen, but, judging by the comments and anecdotes, Swingular is a lot more fun than we had guessed. Kudos to Canvas for bringing it up and if anyone wants an audience sometime.... It could be a good segue for our timid souls. Cheers.
Thanks! And I too have been having similar thoughts about Swingular. I've been very pleasantly surprised at all the personal messages: Offers, support, and advice... I've really appreciated it all. Revamping and fleshing out our profile "resume" seemed to help. So I tweaked it more. Looks like this fantasy of ours will come to fruition.
Thanks you all. Keep those messages coming.
Canvas wrote:swinghere69 wrote:
Well it seems like the only thing that you’re truly interested in is something that you can find in Las Vegas it’s called the green door should book a trip go check it out Believe me there will be plenty of people there to watch.
Thanks. Something I saw on the Net alerted me to the Green Door. Upon researching it, I also came across the Red Rooster. While at first I thought one of these would be the ticket, I came to realize that it would be more of a crap shoot than seemed reasonable for us. I found tons of reviews for both places, and read many. Some were glowing. Many were not. Many said there were few people, even though the management claimed otherwise in order to get them inside.
With that in mind, I figured we'd be extremely lucky to pull off what we wanted on the first visit. Likely I thought, is that we would have to keep going until something happened, if it ever did. Just a single trip down there though (getting there, hotel, entrance fees, food, etc) would cost us quite a chunk of money. And there are the single creepy guys following couples around (especially at the Green Door) that many reviewers mentioned.
That's when I signed up here in hopes of finding a more local couple. It would be less costly, and it seemed like a surer bet we could actually fulfill the fantasy on the first try. I have to admit the appeal of neutrality at a place like the Green Door though. My wife mentioned this as well. But, arranging a meeting with a couple has its own appeal to me. Seems there is much more room for success this way.
I don't want to be that guy but it might be to late.
If you considering a trip from Idi-ho to Vegas take a moment and consider MonChalet in Aurora Co. Also there are venues in the Pacific NW.
Remember, ultimately pussy rules apply.
Canvas wrote:
Title should read: My Wife And I Would Like To Try Voyeurism: Looking For Another Heterosexual couple to watch.
We have never done this before, or anything like it. We're in our early 50s (look younger), been married 33 years, and are talking about ways we could add a little adventure and spice to our sex.
We are both heterosexual, polite, discreet, very respectful, nonsmokers, fit, honest, and down to earth. We are looking for the same, though fitness level is not terribly important. Average is just fine. We would prefer a couple not too far from our age but would consider younger and up to 60 or so.
Ideally, we would like to watch another heterosexual couple then be able to quickly escape to an adjacent private room for our own private time.
We are not interested in touching, being touched, or swapping. We would simply like to watch.
We would prefer meeting somewhere in the S Idaho, N Utah, N Nevada area.
Are there any other couples out there that would consider the possibility of connecting with us and doing this?
My wife and I would love parking next to another car while we all fk. (Dogging without touching) Let us know if you're interested that's about the most she'll ever do and is a thrill for me.
We have let both couples and single men watch us. She gets very excited doing this. We love to start the night with some public flashing. Anyone interested let us know?
We could be interested
So Canvas are you still a blank slate or have you been successful in getting your freek on? We love being watched. We also love the dogging idea and open to that anytime. We actually tried digging in kinsington park near kinsington castle in London. T(e only problem was the free Ky men hiding behind every bush. Was too much to handle late at night.
Simples
Simples
SIMPLEPLEASURES wrote:
So Canvas are you still a blank slate or have you been successful in getting your freek on? We love being watched. We also love the dogging idea and open to that anytime. We actually tried digging in kinsington park near kinsington castle in London. T(e only problem was the free Ky men hiding behind every bush. Was too much to handle late at night.
Simples
Our canvas is still blank, awaiting the first brush stroke. Which couple will pick up that brush and begin our picture... to deflower our innocence?
We've been planning a meeting with another couple in SLC next week while there for work. Our first encounter. Been excited with anticipation! However, I'm not sure we will be able to pull it off due to coordinating schedules and finding a suitable location. Hope we can make it happen!
Dogging. Had to look it up. I'm learning all sorts of terminology around here! Not exactly what we had in mind but, it could have some potential for our virginity. We're always open to ideas/proposals revolving around being voyeurs in a discreet manner and environment.
After reading your posts I would recommend going to a club in Vegas. As former Vegas residents out suggestion for you is dont go to the Green door full of single guys that will follow you around maybe later in your lifestyle experiences but not a good venue for newbies. first pick a non holiday weekend. Check out red rooster Friday Saturdays are usually packed w sat the busiest. Older crowd and you can get away from single guys upstairs. Engage in conversation with a couple of your choice most would be happy to put on a private show. Whispers not bad but not as big. Best current regular venue now is playhouselv. Most upscale club, best crowd imho of all the clubs. You will definately get to watch there in a tasteful clean club type environment. All clubs dont even start to get busy until after 11 so plan accordingly. Enjoy! Remember to communicate first and no matter what happens you love each other and WILL be going home with your lover. Do this and you will find that this lifestyle is a marriage enhancement like no other.
Early on in all of this a couple I partied with, her husband wanted to watch her with another man, she asked if I would join her and have a threesome with another man while her husband watched and then we could play all after as well. We played with one of my black boyfriends, drove her husband crazy, as normal made me crazy and his wife too. We played for hours after that.
I have read through quite a few of these messages and have noticed many saying they have enjoyed a single man watching. I would like to put my straw on the stack and offer my "services" so to speak. I'd love to watch. Open minded and non judgmental. I k ow the original post was requesting a couple and I have always tried to respect the posts and not be "that guy". Haha. That being said if anyone would like to be watched, please dont hesitate to get in contact with me. And good luck to all!
Vegascouple469 wrote:
After reading your posts I would recommend going to a club in Vegas. As former Vegas residents out suggestion for you is dont go to the Green door full of single guys that will follow you around maybe later in your lifestyle experiences but not a good venue for newbies. first pick a non holiday weekend. Check out red rooster Friday Saturdays are usually packed w sat the busiest. Older crowd and you can get away from single guys upstairs. Engage in conversation with a couple of your choice most would be happy to put on a private show. Whispers not bad but not as big. Best current regular venue now is playhouselv. Most upscale club, best crowd imho of all the clubs. You will definately get to watch there in a tasteful clean club type environment. All clubs dont even start to get busy until after 11 so plan accordingly. Enjoy! Remember to communicate first and no matter what happens you love each other and WILL be going home with your lover. Do this and you will find that this lifestyle is a marriage enhancement like no other.
Thanks for your input! Given the local(ish) response thus far, we have put Las Vegas on the back burner. If we do go down though, we definitely won't visit the Green Door. Thanks again.
Loverofthewife wrote:
Try One Love in Las Vegas on a Saturday. Lots of sexiness going on around you while you lay out outdoors naked. Great easy introduction!
Thanks for the tip! Will add it to the list of potential places to visit when we get down there. Right now though, we're focusing on prearranged encounters with couples, closer to home.
Vegascouple469 wrote:
Best current regular venue now is playhouselv. Most upscale club, best crowd imho of all the clubs. You will definately get to watch there in a tasteful clean club type environment.
We second this. PlayHouseLV is a great venue, good crowd, and lots of options to watch.
www.playhouselv.com/
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