Swingers Forum - Dom

For the ladies allowing men to be the aggressor! Picking you up kissing and touching, while groping you up against the wall before moving the party to the bedroom. Taking charge in the bedroom, I tell you exactly what I want you to do to pleasure me. You totally surrender, trusting me with your body, I enter from behind snaking my fingers through your hair. Turning your head around as we make eye contact. I place my hand on the front of your neck and pull you into me. Feeling my teeth on your neck and shoulders, I begin to whisper freak nasty thoughts in you ear. I then flip you over on your back and pin you down, thrusting your thighs apart with my knee. Powerless of your body, allows you to fully indulge your femininity, while still espousing the merits of feminism. Making this experience a pleasure for you in pleasing me.

Wow. Thanks for making everyone REALLY uncomfortable. Nice job.

RAW wrote:

Maybe it doesn't make EVERYONE uncomfortable, it's a thing because a lot of people enjoy dom/sub type activities. With someone you trust and who knows your limits, it can be a lot of fun. Xanadume, you have a pic with handcuffs, that doesn't seem much different to me..?

WTH is going on in your picture? It looks like a skinny Leo DiCaprio is riding Erin from The Office like a steeplechase steed at a Daytime Oscars photo call.

Hi. Mrs. X here. (Chiming in with Mr.X's comments above...) My two cents on dom/sub...

I want to say first that I love being submissive. It's one of my favorite sexual things. But a man who understands what it means to be a dom knows that submission is an action on the part of the woman, not a force on the part of a man. At first. It comes from a place of trust, after establishing a report, and good initial two-way communication. Without that trust and report, it is, at best, bossiness (a total turn off of mine) or, at worst, rape. You see, without the woman deciding to submit, there is no real submission. I think that's where Mr. X was coming from on this.

CHEFFETTE wrote:

XANADUME wrote:

Wow. Thanks for making everyone REALLY uncomfortable. Nice job.

Me? I'm not the one misusing the term feminism or butchering sentence structure.

Cheffette, no, not you! The original post by 69ways2kiss. Sorry if that was unclear; he totally didn't mean you.

RAW wrote:

CHEFFETTE wrote:

[quote=RAW]Maybe it doesn't make EVERYONE uncomfortable, it's a thing because a lot of people enjoy dom/sub type activities. With someone you trust and who knows your limits, it can be a lot of fun. Xanadume, you have a pic with handcuffs, that doesn't seem much different to me..?

WTH is going on in your picture? It looks like a skinny Leo DiCaprio is riding Erin from The Office like a steeplechase steed at a Daytime Oscars photo call.

Skinny Leo here. Who are you? Please clarify what you are trying to accomplish with your comment. Are you trying to be mean, funny or is that an actual fantasy of yours? Im seriously asking... What's your point?[/quote]I don't know how I could have been any clearer in my description of the photo you've chosen to show as your cover pic. I'm amusing myself on this website, isn't that what we're all trying to accomplish? That's as accountable as I am to you or anyone else here, anyway. You didn't have to tell me it was the male talking, btw, the bruised ego given a faux circumspect voice was a dead giveaway for a younger man who can't take even the slightest joke.

Hey, OP - either you're in two (three?) places at once or you copy-pasted that from elsewhere on the web. Surely there's original dreck in your head better than this?

If only there was a bodice to rip around here.

ILLUSTRATOR wrote:

Although I totally get where Cheffette and Xanadume are coming from, I doubt 69ways had any intention of throwing some woman he'd just met against the wall and forcing her to have sex. I would hope, from reading his profile, that he learns if that's her kink and, if it is, then plays the scene. There are many women who desire being dominated and not having to take control in a sexual situation. They've found that most of those women are the ones who have to take control of everything else in their lives and want the man taking the reigns during intercourse. Rape fiction is so highly proliferated for a reason.

I concur; it's only that a pet peeve of mine is a poorly-written copy paste job like this and that other one, the bi guy who posts in any thread w/ the thinnest of links to paste a fantasy he has about sucking a husband's dick while the wife watches.
There are absolutely people w/ rape fantasies, but twisting it into a feminizing or feminist act is needlessly stupid.

C'mon CHEFFETTE, embrace your Biblical/Paleo role as a woman already.

EVILDOERS wrote:

C'mon CHEFFETTE, embrace your Biblical/Paleo role as a woman already.

Wait...why is she wearing shoes? Why are they white? Why are her breasts covered when she's clearly of childbearing age and would have been nursing-on-demand?
How did he find an organized baseball game in the Paleolithic era???

ENLIGHTENED wrote:

CHEFFETTE wrote:

[quote=EVILDOERS]C'mon CHEFFETTE, embrace your Biblical/Paleo role as a woman already.

Wait...why is she wearing shoes? Why are they white? Why are her breasts covered when she's clearly of childbearing age and would have been nursing-on-demand?
How did he find an organized baseball game in the Paleolithic era???

Because it was in the Big Inning. I mean beginning.[/quote]
That's one hell of a dad joke and I'm going to to steal it.