a few months ago, we started chatting with a male that said he was in a open marriage and that they play separately. My husband and I finally met him, we chatted there was some holding, then he left. Well I received a text from his wife asking if i am sleeping with her husband....... ummmm.
I already told her no, and he just came to visit.
But what do i do now?
I already told her no, and he just came to visit.
But what do i do now?
Tell her everything that you know and everything he has done. She deserves the right to know and it should catch up to him. This is about sharing, swinging and it is important to have some sense of honesty....
I agree with the others I'd come clean with her.
Maybe they do that as a game to embarrass a couple
some strange people get a kick out of plotting
the scenario
She could be part of the setup
some strange people get a kick out of plotting
the scenario
She could be part of the setup
Personally I would call her back (both of you) and tell her the whole story. Be honest and careful not to insult or judge just the facts. Your silence may allow him to continue and someone may get hurt.
I would have said, "Yes, and the fucker snores. He likely has sleep apnea and will die in his sleep." But I'm an asshole that way.
People play all sorts of head games just for giggles. Don
Personally, I don't know why you wouldn't tell her the truth. You and your husband, so she knows you aren't just lying to cover your tracks, and he can't just say you are lying or has no idea what you are talking about.
You owe him nothing. Not only that, he could have put you in danger. What if his wife had shown up on your doorstep with a gun? Not cool.
You owe him nothing. Not only that, he could have put you in danger. What if his wife had shown up on your doorstep with a gun? Not cool.
Get me her number I will go even the score.
STARSHELL1212 wrote:
Personally, I don't know why you wouldn't tell her the truth. You and your husband, so she knows you aren't just lying to cover your tracks, and he can't just say you are lying or has no idea what you are talking about.
You owe him nothing. Not only that, he could have put you in danger. What if his wife had shown up on your doorstep with a gun? Not cool.
It's her God given right. Says so right in the Bible. Right after the part about gays and not eating lobster or bacon. Besides, a gun is just a tool. Like a wrench or a screwdriver...or one of those big saws they use in a slaughterhouse. Hmmmm maybe it was in The Book of Mormon. Anyways, it says something like, "And Jesus did thus verily go forth and yea he was packing heat and the sinners did tremble in fear and lose control of their bladders and bowels. And there was wailing and gnashing of teeth and they cried out unto the heavens, "PLEASE don't fuckin' shoot us!" and the Lord did take pity on their sorrowful asses and forgave them, after he pistol whipped them a little bit." Amen
BTW, for anyone contemplating taking out their no good, shit sucking, mother fucking, soon to be dickless, lying, cheating spouse, I'm actually in the process of inventing a revolutionary (yep, Founding Fathers approved) new firearm that is "easily" concealable in one's arse. I'm going to call it the Reemington Repeater. It's for the discriminating 2nd amendment buff who wants to be able to carry EVERYWHERE and isn't afraid of a little ass action. The deluxe model will have a multi-speed vibrator feature and slightly more rounded edges for those with a slightly more sensitive tushy (we'll still carry the original model for anyone who's a hard ass). We'll also be selling a matching line of designer ass gun deodorizers. We'll have Don't Tread on Me Melon, Lady Liberty Lemon Breeze, Stand Your Ground Strawberry, I Love The Smell of Napalm in the Morning Mango, and Pry It From My Cold Dead Ass Pina Colada.
Who is it? We are lost with folks on this site that feel the need to protect the creeps and real perverts.
Post the name. be very clear what happened in a discription.
Perhos there should eb a forum you could add to that has all the loosers and creeps listed. then they can post and tell their side if they feel the need.
But for $29 they can ahve a new profile up and running. So whats it hurt.
Post the name. be very clear what happened in a discription.
Perhos there should eb a forum you could add to that has all the loosers and creeps listed. then they can post and tell their side if they feel the need.
But for $29 they can ahve a new profile up and running. So whats it hurt.
Tell her the truth and send her a screen shot of their profile.
EVILDOERS wrote:Hey do you think you can design it with ejaculating shot, you know like the ones in the middle of a rabbit, LOL. But make sure it is available in different sizes. The bigger the asshole the larger the shot.
BTW, for anyone contemplating taking out their no good, shit sucking, mother fucking, soon to be dickless, lying, cheating spouse, I'm actually in the process of inventing a revolutionary (yep, Founding Fathers approved) new firearm that is "easily" concealable in one's arse. I'm going to call it the Reemington Repeater. It's for the discriminating 2nd amendment buff who wants to be able to carry EVERYWHERE and isn't afraid of a little ass action. The deluxe model will have a multi-speed vibrator feature and slightly more rounded edges for those with a slightly more sensitive tushy (we'll still carry the original model for anyone who's a hard ass). We'll also be selling a matching line of designer ass gun deodorizers. We'll have Don't Tread on Me Melon, Lady Liberty Lemon Breeze, Stand Your Ground Strawberry, I Love The Smell of Napalm in the Morning Mango, and Pry It From My Cold Dead Ass Pina Colada.
UTAHCOUPLE4PLAY wrote:EVILDOERS wrote:Hey do you think you can design it with ejaculating shot, you know like the ones in the middle of a rabbit, LOL. But make sure it is available in different sizes. The bigger the asshole the larger the shot.
BTW, for anyone contemplating taking out their no good, shit sucking, mother fucking, soon to be dickless, lying, cheating spouse, I'm actually in the process of inventing a revolutionary (yep, Founding Fathers approved) new firearm that is "easily" concealable in one's arse. I'm going to call it the Reemington Repeater. It's for the discriminating 2nd amendment buff who wants to be able to carry EVERYWHERE and isn't afraid of a little ass action. The deluxe model will have a multi-speed vibrator feature and slightly more rounded edges for those with a slightly more sensitive tushy (we'll still carry the original model for anyone who's a hard ass). We'll also be selling a matching line of designer ass gun deodorizers. We'll have Don't Tread on Me Melon, Lady Liberty Lemon Breeze, Stand Your Ground Strawberry, I Love The Smell of Napalm in the Morning Mango, and Pry It From My Cold Dead Ass Pina Colada.
Oh it "ejaculates shot" alright.
I have been texting with her and she doesn't seem crazy.
But she is genuinely upset and he is lying to her, of how we met and why he came over.
I am so thankful that nothing more happened, than him just meeting us, and some holding while chatting or i would be more upset, angry, and it makes me soo sad. I do feel violated.
I am new to this community and this is someone who has been on this site since 2009, would anyone believe me? am i crazy?
But she is genuinely upset and he is lying to her, of how we met and why he came over.
I am so thankful that nothing more happened, than him just meeting us, and some holding while chatting or i would be more upset, angry, and it makes me soo sad. I do feel violated.
I am new to this community and this is someone who has been on this site since 2009, would anyone believe me? am i crazy?
No you are not crazy. The funny thing is there are so many people on this site for so many reasons. Just find something new to perk your interest. No one will judge you on this at all. We have all had this happened. Rather we followed through or not. Some get this gut feeling while some are very sneaky and can even trick the Devil himself. Anyways, you just move on and get back up on the horse and find what really gets you going. You are not the first to complain nor the last about this certain topic.
If I had a quarter for every time I heard those lines. I would be rich!!! Yeah!!!
If I had a quarter for every time I heard those lines. I would be rich!!! Yeah!!!
Sigh I am a little freaked out. but yes i suppose you are correct. maybe we will stick to couples, but singles have to be single? how would we know that they are actually single? sighhh this is way more complicated then it has to be and gives me a headache.
We have "unfriended" him, we may block him
Supafly_99_1999
Contacted us in November 2013 stated he was in a open marriage and that he and his wife played separately, been chatting sporadically, Feb 2014 we finally set up a meeting to get to know each other and if we clicked then plan for a "play date". we chat and then the wife walks him to the car, he holds her and they chat some more. He asks when are the best days to go out, and then the best days for "company", he leaves.
Text him in the morning thanking him for coming to visit.
an Hour later a unknown number texts asking if wife is "sleeping with her husband"
well we tell her the truth, that we haven't.
told her is she has more questions we are fine with her texting us.
Come to Find out that they are recently married and that they were engaged for a year, and dated for four months before that, and during the whole time they were suppose to be in a exclusive and committed relationship. He has lied to her how he met us and why he came over.
Supafly_99_1999
Contacted us in November 2013 stated he was in a open marriage and that he and his wife played separately, been chatting sporadically, Feb 2014 we finally set up a meeting to get to know each other and if we clicked then plan for a "play date". we chat and then the wife walks him to the car, he holds her and they chat some more. He asks when are the best days to go out, and then the best days for "company", he leaves.
Text him in the morning thanking him for coming to visit.
an Hour later a unknown number texts asking if wife is "sleeping with her husband"
well we tell her the truth, that we haven't.
told her is she has more questions we are fine with her texting us.
Come to Find out that they are recently married and that they were engaged for a year, and dated for four months before that, and during the whole time they were suppose to be in a exclusive and committed relationship. He has lied to her how he met us and why he came over.
Yeah, it's hard to tell what you're really getting.
We contacted a single female early on when we started this (we're still pretty new/inexperienced...but we're learning). We gave her my wife's number so she could see that it wasn't some single guy, or a married guy going out on his own.
My wife got a call a week later from some guy. Said he was her husband and that he was now part of the deal, take it or leave it....it was a pretty easy deal to leave.
It was a good lesson though, as I'm sure yours is. It's an eye opener that we still need to be cautious.
Glad he got caught.
Just move slow and trust your instincts. There is still plenty of fun to be had out there, I'm sure.
Good luck.
We contacted a single female early on when we started this (we're still pretty new/inexperienced...but we're learning). We gave her my wife's number so she could see that it wasn't some single guy, or a married guy going out on his own.
My wife got a call a week later from some guy. Said he was her husband and that he was now part of the deal, take it or leave it....it was a pretty easy deal to leave.
It was a good lesson though, as I'm sure yours is. It's an eye opener that we still need to be cautious.
Glad he got caught.
Just move slow and trust your instincts. There is still plenty of fun to be had out there, I'm sure.
Good luck.
This is a very complicated issue and the thing is that you can't tell other people about your lifestyle specially a wife that is mad, just try to move on and make better decisions when it comes to find another male, and one last thing make sure to post a little note here about his profile name so other people is informed about what he does.
My friend just got a new 2014 Silverado 2500, would anyone be too upset if I tested the tow hitch by wrapping piano wire around the tow ball and the other end around the liar's balls? I just wanna see how fast I can go until one or the other gives way.
Sorry for the violent imagery, from what has been told, we are absolutely sickened by this guy's actions,and maybe that might help him remember to stop lying and treat others with respect. What a twit.
Sorry for the violent imagery, from what has been told, we are absolutely sickened by this guy's actions,and maybe that might help him remember to stop lying and treat others with respect. What a twit.
My friend just got a new 2014 Silverado 2500, would anyone be too upset if I tested the tow hitch by wrapping piano wire around the tow ball and the other end around the liar's balls? I just wanna see how fast I can go until one or the other gives way.
IMHO, its none of anyone's business who's married, who's not, etc.
If the wife contacts you, be honest, tell the truth, move on. Don't seek revenge, its just immature to do so.
Also, having been around the lifestyle for about 10 years, Starshell is the first one who actually said a woman did what is virtually always said of SM's, something I always found funny. SW profiles are often saying, 'I am married, he knows (or doesn't) and discretion is a must' I don't see a whole lot of people complaining about it.
Anyway, its early and I am still sipping my first bit of coffee, so I am done...
If the wife contacts you, be honest, tell the truth, move on. Don't seek revenge, its just immature to do so.
Also, having been around the lifestyle for about 10 years, Starshell is the first one who actually said a woman did what is virtually always said of SM's, something I always found funny. SW profiles are often saying, 'I am married, he knows (or doesn't) and discretion is a must' I don't see a whole lot of people complaining about it.
Anyway, its early and I am still sipping my first bit of coffee, so I am done...
I can sum it up in just a few words. Don't get caught! My wife and I had a rough spot a few years ago. So I found someone to help me get over the issues and she had no trouble finding a willing cock to keep her warm. The problem was the guys' wife, who told me to keep my wife away from her husband. Then my friends' husband followed his wife to my house and sat outside while we did it. But I convinced him it was his fault for neglecting her. Oh, well, It worked out. Just don't get caught. If you can avoid it. We were both going with high profile Jamaicans, my wife was going with an Air Jamaica pilot and I was going with the model who posed for the poster with Jamaica painted across her tummy.
Guess we could have a public beheading, we will let the wife choose which head.
WESTJORDANCPL wrote:SEXYSORCEFED wrote:
Sigh I am a little freaked out. but yes i suppose you are correct. maybe we will stick to couples, but singles have to be single? how would we know that they are actually single? sighhh this is way more complicated then it has to be and gives me a headache.
In my experience a good way to know if a guy/girl is Single is if they are able to host at their place(lots of clues).... not a hotel. And we typically only play with couples as couples. We would only accept hall passes from couples we know well. This minimizes the chances of drama and contributing to the success of a cheating spouse.
Sure nuff. Every situation can be different. Good to have awesome couples as friends then you know they both are aware for the most part. Even then always tread carefully! (=