Back when I was single I used to hear that it's easier to pick up women when you're married because women are turned on by your being unavailable.
I've been married for years now and this seems to be the opposite of what my experience is. I find that most single women are turned off once they find out I'm married and if I try to say "she's ok with it" they just think I'm a cheating bastard who is just lying to get into her pants.
I'm not fishing for singles here or whining that no one wants me. I'm just fine thanks. I'm just curious what others have experienced here.
Experiences where your wife helped in any way don't count, even if she was just standing there looking hot. For guys with a hall pass has it been easier getting single women since you have gotten married or was it easier when you were single?
For me it was much easier when I was single if my wife isn't involved.
I've been married for years now and this seems to be the opposite of what my experience is. I find that most single women are turned off once they find out I'm married and if I try to say "she's ok with it" they just think I'm a cheating bastard who is just lying to get into her pants.
I'm not fishing for singles here or whining that no one wants me. I'm just fine thanks. I'm just curious what others have experienced here.
Experiences where your wife helped in any way don't count, even if she was just standing there looking hot. For guys with a hall pass has it been easier getting single women since you have gotten married or was it easier when you were single?
For me it was much easier when I was single if my wife isn't involved.
Wow DW that was complete and then some but I think you have it.
It does not matter on this factor rather they are a man or women. They will both take the bate if that is what they desire. I think both Men and Women are 50/50 on where they might stand.
Here is where deception might fall in this area. Someone does not tell someone they are not married up front. Yes sometimes you can miss the moment to tell them when you first meet. However, telling them is actually a common respect. Not saying anything is disrespecting to your spouse and, other party involved. I am just trying to tell a view of what I myself have seen happen in my experience of married people looking for more.
There are clues to if they are accepting...they are subtle but, still very important clues. Body language says everything about a person. Their eyes as well will show interest. Most important to catch the big fish....Is to have a good conversation. Laughter makes the heart sing....If her heart is singing. No matter if she is married or not....you know you have her. She is putty in your hands.
Okay enough of the sweet talking. Now to the ending of my blah blah blah. I think they like to live two lives. Just saying~~
Here is where deception might fall in this area. Someone does not tell someone they are not married up front. Yes sometimes you can miss the moment to tell them when you first meet. However, telling them is actually a common respect. Not saying anything is disrespecting to your spouse and, other party involved. I am just trying to tell a view of what I myself have seen happen in my experience of married people looking for more.
There are clues to if they are accepting...they are subtle but, still very important clues. Body language says everything about a person. Their eyes as well will show interest. Most important to catch the big fish....Is to have a good conversation. Laughter makes the heart sing....If her heart is singing. No matter if she is married or not....you know you have her. She is putty in your hands.
Okay enough of the sweet talking. Now to the ending of my blah blah blah. I think they like to live two lives. Just saying~~
Holy shit, WET. Can I get the audio book of your post? Or maybe some fucking CliffsNotes? 

I read two interesting studies:
Study 1. 71% of men and 67% of women would cheat if they knew for certain they would not get caught.
Study 2. About 25% of men and 33% of men actually do cheat.
I rarely see women hit on married men. Conversely I always see married and single men hit on women. There may be some bias here because I don't hang out with a lot of women but from casual discussion with those being approached they readily admit that men hit on them all day long. It seems that the complexities of a relationship do not exist when the woman is in a committed marriage with 4 children depending on them at home.
Several woman have told me that when they get approached far more often when they wear a wedding ring than when they do not. That seems to be more the rule than the exception.
Just a thought.
Study 1. 71% of men and 67% of women would cheat if they knew for certain they would not get caught.
Study 2. About 25% of men and 33% of men actually do cheat.
I rarely see women hit on married men. Conversely I always see married and single men hit on women. There may be some bias here because I don't hang out with a lot of women but from casual discussion with those being approached they readily admit that men hit on them all day long. It seems that the complexities of a relationship do not exist when the woman is in a committed marriage with 4 children depending on them at home.
Several woman have told me that when they get approached far more often when they wear a wedding ring than when they do not. That seems to be more the rule than the exception.
Just a thought.
women will hit on a attractive man married or unmarried...... nature of the beast......
Men want to hit on women but some are afraid of what their wife may think.....LOL
I like to be hit on by any woman married or unmarried....LOL (Still have my man card)
Men want to hit on women but some are afraid of what their wife may think.....LOL
I like to be hit on by any woman married or unmarried....LOL (Still have my man card)
I got hit on a whole lot more when I was single, but then, I was a whole lot younger and better looking too.
Oh well...
Mr. Sexperimentors
Oh well...
Mr. Sexperimentors
We saw a woman throw herself in front of a car once. Not sure if the guy driving was married or not.
Always love your comments Evil.
I find that I had much better success hitting on women when I was single than I do now that I'm married. The reason cited for rejection most often now is specifically because I'm married. Maybe I should stop trying to pick up chicks at temple weddings. I might do better if I wait until they aren't standing right next to their parents before offering no strings sex with a married man.
Thanks. You see this is what forums are for. Self improvement. Now I know that sex is about penetrating deeply while stimulating the clitoris. Women won't be able to resist the sex now when I tell them I know this little secret.
http://shows.howstuffworks.com/stuff-mom-never-told-you/smnty-are-women-more-attracted-to-married-men-video.htm#mkcpgn=fb6