I listened to a podcast that Sexyriders recommended to me. I shared with my wife the first time experience that they relate on their opening podcast and it really got her turned on. At times she wants to do a soft FFM swing, but gets too scared. I don't want to push her and telling her other people first time stories seems like a good thing to do for now.
Anybody want to share theirs? Know of a website where people write them down?
Thanks
Anybody want to share theirs? Know of a website where people write them down?
Thanks
You can go to Alt.Sex.Stories (http://www.asstr.org/) or the Kristen Archive (http://www.asstr.org/~Kristen/). There are tons of stories, a few of which are actually well written, about swingers first times. You'll have to wade through some garbage to get tot he good ones unless things have changed since I was last there several years ago.
Mr. Sexperimentors
Mr. Sexperimentors
THIS WAS A FIRST OF SORTS. NEW YEARS I WAS WEARING A BACKLESS DRESS CUT BELOW MY REAR. I SUPPOSE IT WAS MY FAULT WEARING SUCH A PROVOGATIVE, BUT I DID. A REALLY GOOD LOOKING GUY ASKED ME TO DANCE, AND WE GOT INTO IT WITH A LOT OF CONTACT AND TOUCHING. I KNEW HE TOOK HIS DICK OUT BUT I THOUGHT THAT WAS AS FAR AS IT WOULD GO UNTIL I FELT THE HEAD OF HIS DICK IN MY ASS, AND THEN I FELT MY ASS AND BACK GETTING WET, HE CAME IN MY PANTS SUIT. HE DEFINITELY ISN'T GETTING ENOUGH AT HOME BECAUSE HE LET GO OF A LOAD WITH MINIMAL TOUCHING AND DEFINATELY NO STROKING. HE APOLOGIZED BUT YOU COULD SEE THROUGH MY PANTS WHERE THEY WHERE WET.
Our first experience wasn't so great. There was mis-communcation, and it was fairly awkward. Actually, when my wife and I left the hotel in the morning, we decided swinging wasn't for us.
A few days later we decided not to let one experience be the final judgment. We joined Swingular and started talking to a couple that contacted us. My wife and I were a bit worried by their much higher experience level, but than we decided maybe that would be better.
We were right. They were nice and respectful and did a great job of making us feel comfortable, and we ended up having a really fun night with them. I think being with experienced swingers allowed us to just be ourselves and only have to concentrate on our own boundaries. If we had been with another newer couple, we'd all have to worry about going to far. We had a good enough night that we have kept in contact with them and continued to slowly check out the lifestyle.
We're still Soft Swap, and full swing couples have been really gracious to us, letting us join them and get a better idea of the lifestyle, and letting us get our feet wet, before diving in to the deep end.
We've had no bad experiences, but some could have been better if we had communicated on our end better. We're still learning how to do that.
Overall, these early experiences have been a lot of fun, and we're finding that easing into the lifestyle isn't as rocky as we feared. It's been a fun journey so far.
A few days later we decided not to let one experience be the final judgment. We joined Swingular and started talking to a couple that contacted us. My wife and I were a bit worried by their much higher experience level, but than we decided maybe that would be better.
We were right. They were nice and respectful and did a great job of making us feel comfortable, and we ended up having a really fun night with them. I think being with experienced swingers allowed us to just be ourselves and only have to concentrate on our own boundaries. If we had been with another newer couple, we'd all have to worry about going to far. We had a good enough night that we have kept in contact with them and continued to slowly check out the lifestyle.
We're still Soft Swap, and full swing couples have been really gracious to us, letting us join them and get a better idea of the lifestyle, and letting us get our feet wet, before diving in to the deep end.
We've had no bad experiences, but some could have been better if we had communicated on our end better. We're still learning how to do that.
Overall, these early experiences have been a lot of fun, and we're finding that easing into the lifestyle isn't as rocky as we feared. It's been a fun journey so far.
Swinging experiences are like riding your motorcycle - some days the sun shines, the birds sing, the flowers bloom & life is wonderful. Unfortunately, some days you are wearing your rain gear all day & wondering what the hell you're doing out here :-)
My first time was about 7 years ago.
A wife offered me as a Christmas Present to her Man. That was amazing. Oh that was also a long story lol. Something to write a novel about hehehe.
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A wife offered me as a Christmas Present to her Man. That was amazing. Oh that was also a long story lol. Something to write a novel about hehehe.
HOTFIRE BOW CHICKA WOW WOW BROWN COW
Our first experience with swingular meetngreet....we met Hotfire couple and one other couple. They invited my husband and I to their place. We went... I was reluctant to say the least. We stopped by our house and grabbed a six-pack of beer and decided that we wouldn't need any condoms at that time cause we were just getting to know them... (note to self... ALWAYS bring condoms) We meet them and start getting to know them. They were so fun and "friendly" But I (wife) was still reluctant. The women went upstairs to shower and I was downstairs with the guys. They were wanting to sneak upstairs and take pics of the girls in the shower. I went with. One thing led to another. I had my first couple threesome. It was hot! Hotfire really knows how to make a woman feel safe, secure and sexy. Luckily somebody had condoms. I have to say it was one of the best times I have ever had.