I am curious. I have two options in life: fit with itty-bitty boobs or fluffy and Ds. Which is better?? I don't want a boob-job, so it's one or the other.
Which looks better of the above pics?? Who would you wanna play with: the girl with a few curves (and a bit of cellulite) or the hard body with amazing abs/ass???
And before any of you tell me I should be however I feel best, doesn't matter what anyone thinks, blah blah blah...I know all that and in the end I will do what feels right but I am simply curious what the masses think
Which looks better of the above pics?? Who would you wanna play with: the girl with a few curves (and a bit of cellulite) or the hard body with amazing abs/ass???
And before any of you tell me I should be however I feel best, doesn't matter what anyone thinks, blah blah blah...I know all that and in the end I will do what feels right but I am simply curious what the masses think
Curves !!!!!
I male half really like what you look like in your profile pics, and curvy is very sexy to me
we like a little meat on the bones so curvy is best for our likes but we find something attractive in just about everyone but not everyone do we want to sleep with. And then there is a lot we rally want to go to bed with but for some reason haven't had that chance yet lol
The fit one is sexy
We think you look fit and sexy in both pictures, one may be more fit than the other. we like curves, but more important we like anyone that in comfortable in their own skin
love them both but prefer the curves! :-D
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:
Depends on the person really. We cannot give you a one or the other answer. We are typically not attracted to unhealthy extremes meaning anorexia or morbid obesity but as for the broad middle ground it really depends on the individual. Some people look better carrying a few more pounds and some look better really trim. We both probably favor a few more curves but there again it depends. As for the two pictures you offer as a sample. If these are pictures of yourself you are smiling in the one on the right and appear to be really happy. So that picture is the most attractive as we see it. Happy people are usually more attractive. Just do what makes you happy and and you will have your best option but you already know that. Just looking at the body shapes they are both attractive.
Pretty much sums it up for both of us! While we enjoy them all, we really do...we tend to look for those that are built for "comfort"...rather than "speed"...hehehe
I'm the chairman elect of the Itty Bitty Titty Committee. Always loved small breasts. When Ms. Evil was weighing the pros and cons of her boob job I told her to absolutely do what SHE wanted to do because it would be entirely for her as I absolutely loved her small perkies. She ultimately did what felt right to her. I still miss them sometimes. :-(
The end answer is always what makes you feel the best. Buuuuuut, sure love the one with the curves in the pic. It is more defined and looks so much sexier and I wouldn't be so afraid of breaking something.
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:
Depends on the person really. We cannot give you a one or the other answer. We are typically not attracted to unhealthy extremes meaning anorexia or morbid obesity but as for the broad middle ground it really depends on the individual. Some people look better carrying a few more pounds and some look better really trim. We both probably favor a few more curves but there again it depends. As for the two pictures you offer as a sample. If these are pictures of yourself you are smiling in the one on the right and appear to be really happy. So that picture is the most attractive as we see it. Happy people are usually more attractive. Just do what makes you happy and and you will have your best option but you already know that. Just looking at the body shapes they are both attractive.
Right :-) we feel the same. A woman that is happy with herself shows it and is very sexy. The glow that surrounds a happy confidant woman is a big turn on.
I the hubby loves fluffy ladies
PICKYCOUPLE wrote:
You've got to go with the fit one.....
Hmmmm...no I don't. I happen to think "sexy" has very little to do with "fit"...but rather more about how a girl carries and feels about herself....I've seen, and been with a number of ladies who were absolutely waaay sexxy..and a little curvier..
Just our opinion, but curvy women are best.
PICKYCOUPLE wrote:[/quote]
I didn't say YOU had to go with the fit one. I was expressing our opinion that SHE should go with the fit one. Lol, wow.
TIFFND wrote:
[quote=PICKYCOUPLE]You've got to go with the fit one.....
Hmmmm...no I don't. I happen to think "sexy" has very little to do with "fit"...but rather more about how a girl carries and feels about herself....I've seen, and been with a number of ladies who were absolutely waaay sexxy..and a little curvier..
Awww..so you meant to say "we" have to go with the fit one...LOL Perfectly acceptable to have your own opinion...Just as I do...yep! It's all good!
Interesting! I never thought so many peeps would respond LOL I definitely "feel" better/sexier in the more fit category, but for those who have met me, I have no problem getting naked with a bit o extra padding either! 
We like all shapes and Size naughty couples!
Agree! A smoking hot bitch is still a bitch 
x2 on the personality side. Someone with a sexy personality is much more sexy than a hottie that's obnoxious.
Got to go with.your gut feeling you look dam good,with that said I wouldn't. worry about wha t others
I (Mr.) like a woman's body. I love, LOVE curves and love the way they feel. I also enjoy a fit woman. I also don't subscribe to the idea that you have to be the washboard stomach type to be fit. I know a lot of fit people who are perfectly healthy who don't have the 4% body fat that seems to be the goal of some people. But I also agree with Tiffnd, the way a woman carried herself is much more sexy than either a curvy girl who covers herself in a moomoo or even the tight, workout girl who can't seem to find perfection. Variety is the spice of life right?
I've always said that if God created anything more beautiful than a woman, he kept it to himself.
I've always said that if God created anything more beautiful than a woman, he kept it to himself.
Curvy doesn't mean fat, and fit doesn't mean you are a body builder. A nice balance combined with sex appeal and you are winning. Sexy appeal has nothing to do with appearance. Its all in how you carry yourself, and interact with others. You pull off both looks clearly! Just my opinion, I would ebb and flow with the seasons. Winter let it get a little more curvy. Summer time, bikini season, tighten up a little bit. Keeps it interesting, and keeps your body on its toes when you push it to get in shape again. You dont experience those plateaus most exercise enthusiasts tend to experience. You really cant go wrong either way though.
PICKYCOUPLE wrote:[/quote]
I didn't say YOU had to go with the fit one. I was expressing our opinion that SHE should go with the fit one. Lol, wow.
TIFFND wrote:
[quote=PICKYCOUPLE]You've got to go with the fit one.....
Hmmmm...no I don't. I happen to think "sexy" has very little to do with "fit"...but rather more about how a girl carries and feels about herself....I've seen, and been with a number of ladies who were absolutely waaay sexxy..and a little curvier..
I am with you on this one
we think that either one can be sexy but if their personality isn't sexy then whats the point
We both like curvy. A healthy amount of fluff is very sexy. If you are too skinny it is intimidating. We will always be fluffy and if you are too fit, well we worry about breaking you.
DIRTYLITTLEFREAKS wrote:YES!
Agree! A smoking hot bitch is still a bitch
Ok, Both. What you can do in the bedroom or any other place depends on the physical make up of one
With respect to boob size, we like them all. We prefer natural to man made, especially if they are hard. When do we ever have to choose between a hard body and curves??? Never, but given the choice, I prefer a little more to a little less. It's true with food and it's true with women - No fat, no flavor.
Mr. Sexperimentors.
Mr. Sexperimentors.
OMFG REALLY?
I'd fuck ya either way!!! -Mrs. Fun
-Mrs. FunBeing skinny and supposed "FIT", on assures you of 1 thing. When things go bad, and they will go vary bad sooner than we want. You will be among the first to starve to death.
Wow! Thanks for the compliments and just for clarification, I wasn't really trying to decide which is better for ME (because I know where/when I feel best) but simply curious what you guys (and gals) find more sexy in general
100% agree that personality makes or breaks it and a confident person who feels good in their skin is by far the sexiest!
100% agree that personality makes or breaks it and a confident person who feels good in their skin is by far the sexiest!
OBXLOVERS4U wrote:
Being skinny and supposed "FIT", on assures you of 1 thing. When things go bad, and they will go vary bad sooner than we want. You will be among the first to starve to death.
I'm OK with that! No need to prolong it LOL
Love Curves..
We both love curves in the right places.
Soft and rounded baby!... It's so natural and beautiful. All the great art feature natural, rounded soft feminine... Egyptian, Classical, Kama Sutra... yummmmm. I keep trying to convince C that her rounded softness is the bomb... but I think its hard for some women to accept, they feel self conscious and shy about it. Sounds like I'm in the majority on this one, lets make sure they all feel beautiful and appreciated, and sexy and desirable!
And thanks for saying my opinion is valued...
And thanks for saying my opinion is valued...
I prefer female. Body type isn't a big issue as much as personality and cleanliness. I like a person who takes pride in themselves no matter what their body type. God knows I am no Ken doll.
SHADOWINGWHISPERS wrote:
Well toned bodies to me have always looked and felt amazing, being fit/toned doesn't mean you don't have curves. I think myself to be fit but still curvy.
Exactly. I actually have more curves now since I started lifting heavy weights than I ever did before. I gained 3 inches on my ass from doing heavy weighted squats and now, balanced with the muscle I've gained in my upper body, I can claim an hour glass figure. So yeah... being skinny/fit doesn't mean you don't have curves.
Truthfully,based upon the photos, really no preference. So much of attraction has to do with personality anyway. If those pictures were of two different people, and one had a great personality and one didn't, I'd go for the one with the great personality every time. Flat abs will only get you so far.
Both look nice.
Both look nice.
Truthfully,based upon the photos, really no preference. So much of attraction has to do with personality anyway. If those pictures were of two different people, and one had a great personality and one didn't, I'd go for the one with the great personality every time. Flat abs will only get you so far.
Both look nice.
Both look nice.
Curves all the way
SEXYBIHOLLY wrote:
Who likes my curves ?
A whole lot of us already like your curves and all we can see is your profile picture!!!
Curves are awesome! As long as the curves don't turn into rolls I think that is the sexiest body type. Hubby asked me to "relax" my workouts years back when I was getting a little too toned in his opinion. He said he missed the softness I had before when we cuddled. Now that I'm 48 it's not an issue anymore.
SHADOWINGWHISPERS wrote:HELLO_KITTY12984 wrote:
[quote=SHADOWINGWHISPERS]Well toned bodies to me have always looked and felt amazing, being fit/toned doesn't mean you don't have curves. I think myself to be fit but still curvy.
Exactly. I actually have more curves now since I started lifting heavy weights than I ever did before. I gained 3 inches on my ass from doing heavy weighted squats and now, balanced with the muscle I've gained in my upper body, I can claim an hour glass figure. So yeah... being skinny/fit doesn't mean you don't have curves.
SQUATS BABY!!! lolz.. where pants don't fit the same way in a good way. haha.. [/quote]
You mean like that?!
Since when dose "fit" equal gym rat hard body? Fit for what? I know gym rats that I could work circles around and I'm about 20 lbs over weight and older than most of them. Just sayin'... give me the curvy girls. I know what will fit where!
Mr. Sexperimentors
Mr. Sexperimentors
Both are nice but if I had to chose I'd go with the fit pic.
I love being fit... but I do love both pics. It is good to know that people love both
While I very much enjoy a fit gal, there is something more sensual about a curvy gal, especially when she "owns" her curves and uses them to her advantage. For me, I like curves.
I have to confess I think both are very beautiful and a turn on. I also think there is a vast assortment of beautiful women on this site and some thing for everyone.
KOIGIRL wrote:
I have to confess I think both are very beautiful and a turn on. I also think there is a vast assortment of beautiful women on this site and some thing for everyone.
Well said, something fro everyone!!
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:. Well said. I think the personality is what makes someone attractive however I am curvy and would like to be more fit. I think strength and health feels sexy which affects my attitude and presence. But I don't hate my curves. I like the softness of my curves too. Choose what makes you feel the best. You are beautiful in both pics. If you want a bit healthier, work on it but don't kill yourself or your spirit trying to do so.
Depends on the person really. We cannot give you a one or the other answer. We are typically not attracted to unhealthy extremes meaning anorexia or morbid obesity but as for the broad middle ground it really depends on the individual. Some people look better carrying a few more pounds and some look better really trim. We both probably favor a few more curves but there again it depends. As for the two pictures you offer as a sample. If these are pictures of yourself you are smiling in the one on the right and appear to be really happy. So that picture is the most attractive as we see it. Happy people are usually more attractive. Just do what makes you happy and and you will have your best option but you already know that. Just looking at the body shapes they are both attractive.
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:.
Well swinging and sex allows us to at least in part take off the uniforms we wear and be embraced and accepted unrobed. We can choose to be unkind, mean and judgmental and we can choose to become overly self conscious and to see enemies and detractors in every glance and every word typed and posted or we can settle back and look at how beautiful all of it is and how interdependent it all really is. The young will become old and the old were once young etc., etc. Every life and every path and every joy and sorrow contain value and insight that can lead to wisdom. Wisdom can lead to a joy that is somewhat transcendent.
So, as we place ourselves at center court digitally here on the site or physically in person and we groom and dress our bodies and our profiles and we review the efforts of others we can choose to become wise and transcendent and seek and learn to see all the beauty within all of those around us and within ourselves and revel in just being part of the whole or we can choose to be critical and judgmental seeing fault in everyone and everything in the continual pursuit of best and better and all the salesmanship that takes and live in separation and maybe even resentment if we discover that we ourselves may never fit into such limited definitions. Know that you are more just being than that you can define!!
Peace, love and prosperity!!
Reductionist Cliff Notes version.......You all look marvelous darlings simply marvelous.
Beautifully said!! Very selfless and unifying statement. Thanks!
IndecentDuo wrote:TJ69NAZ wrote:
Curves are awesome! As long as the curves don't turn into rolls I think that is the sexiest body type. Hubby asked me to "relax" my workouts years back when I was getting a little too toned in his opinion. He said he missed the softness I had before when we cuddled. Now that I'm 48 it's not an issue anymore.
Really? Rolls are a cardinal sin nowadays huh? Just FYI, everyone has rolls. Thin people, fit people, fat and in between people. It's skin. Just bc we've all been brainwashed by the western media to believe that thin is the ONLY form a beautiful body should take, doesn't mean that is truth. I am a bbw and a lot of swingers look down their noses at me in theory...yet I have met, played with and been pursued by thin, attractive people at various points in our swinging experience. It's not JUST about fitness. I find beauty in most forms of the human body, as many of us do. So for the OP, you are beautiful whichever way you feel most confident, regardless of your breast or butt size.
Tho I will agree, squats are where it's at!
Really? Opinions are a cardinal sin nowadays huh? Just FYI, everyone has opinions. I answered the OP's question in MY OPINION so unwad your panties.
MrsTj
well...to get back to the subject....curves,of course
A lady or a man. Curvy, skinny, built or not. A sexy mind is what matters most!
UTBJMASTER wrote:....
A lady or a man. Curvy, skinny, built or not. A sexy mind is what matters most!
Doesn't everyone have curves?? Even Twiggy had them.
We both feel that curves are better. Not like rolley curves but as the Mr says "bones are for the dog, and meats for the man". He agrees with some of the other posts he doesnt want to worry about breaking them. Myself as a female I just find that women that have the curves I find their body more attractive than one that is super lean/boney. But it goes on personal preference honestly. But I personally like the photo of you on the left. Best wishes
Best wishesUTBJMASTER wrote:
A lady or a man. Curvy, skinny, built or not. A sexy mind is what matters most!
Absolutely!
I guess it depends on how athletic you like to be in your sexual activities. IMO, curvy is definitely more cute and great for that extra feeling of closeness body-to-body intimacy since there is a bit more skin surface for contact. I love to cuddle with a curvy, warm body and there's something deeply satisfying about feeling a woman's skin slightly wrapping around me as I press into it. But of course, being fit allows one to make love with more agility in positions that aren't as enjoyable if your body isn't up to the challenge. If you like to be the active type of person who does more of the motions than your partner, I say fit is better. If you are more submissive and like to be "pampered" by the other, curvy is better.
They are both sexy but attitude and personality can make all the difference
I'm not biased. Curves are sexy, but fit and tight is outta sight! I am equal opportunity tittie lover.
There isn't a 'fluffy' picture there...given the option we both prefer curves.
There isn't a 'fluffy' picture there...given the option we both prefer curves.
I'll take TIFFND any night!
Wolf
Wolf
Not that it matters a whole hell of a lot, but ...
the skinnier the better would be my preference.
the skinnier the better would be my preference.
WOLFMAJESTIC wrote:WHOOOHOOO!
I'll take TIFFND any night!
Wolf
Ok...Mr Tiffnd here, being perfectly blunt. Do I have my "Body type" preferances?? Sure..don't we all? But in the grand scheme of things here...they are just that.... preferances. Bluntly, most folks are here for sex...or sexxy flirting, at the least. Sure..I prefer one particulair body type...but have had incredible sexxy fun with ALL body types. Perfectly fit? Beautiful to look at...satisfies my fantasy thoughts, and they are damn sexxxy! Who can really deny that... But, honestly? For incredible, feel good sex??? Give me a curvier girl...feels WAAAY better, and she won't break! LOL The real quailifier? As We mentioned before...it's how the girl perceives HERSELF..that really makes here a wonderful partner! Sexxy is all in the mind...regardless of whether you are looking for it..or trying to present it..
Just my opinion, of course! That and a couple of bucks still probably won't get your bones jumped...
I would go for the left before I would o for the right. So curvy. Love to stroke M's curves when we are laying next to each other
just be real and be you ....
I the male half am not picky to either I love them both and just really enjoy the chance of hooking up with either looks are great but I have met many beautiful heavyset women wife says the same with men I think it is about personality and other attractions but weather your skinny fit heavy hit us up we love to get to know everybody
I like a reasonably hard bodied man (wiry, slender, not bulky) to push against my curves. Let's turn the table ladies....what do you like in a man?
IndecentDuo wrote:
Ooh I love a bulky, lumberjack type guy! Not that I mind a cut guy either! But if I was absolutely forced to choose, I'd pic the Rock over Robert Downey Jr any day.
The Rock is what you consider 'not cut'? The man is ripped.
Bigger yes....less cut...no. I dare say you won't find any male on this site that The Rock wouldn't put to shame.
J loves a thick curvey girl! I also prefer curves on a woman because I love feeling their softness. As for men, I LOVE looking at and touching a muscley man... and i dont mean little muscles on a skinny guy... I mean HUGE muscles! The Rock has one of the sexiest phyiques on earth!
Curves for sure.
Curves always wins. Just saying